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... Send *ELLULAH a private message | | | *ELLULAH's profile:Hi, I have been through loads in my life. Marriage break up, boyfriend break ups, and been a single parent. I have been treated really bad sometimes, but i think this is all to do with life. I dont hold grudges, and have a good sence of humour. I just love all my friends and family, and have loads of support from them. So i thought i could share that with a few of you. I have asked for advice a few times. You dont always want to hear it, but there are some smart people out there.
I have now found, after a lot of searching, my soul mate. But lifes not all a bed of roses for us. But he keeps me smiling, well most of the time anyway. |
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I have been told I look like a player because of the way I danced in the club!! Why such comment?
Q. hi everyone i have what may seem like a silly question but feel really paranoid. i'm 33 married and have children. i'm always told that i look attractive and have a good figure which although is true i'm not a very confident person and wanted some ...
A. 31 March 2008: Unless you were dancing round a pole with no pants on, I would take it with a pinch of salt.
He probably was using it to just come over and chat to you.
Dont worry, or get paranoid. Men will use anything to see if they can pull you.
Tellula... (read in full...)
Is it fair I give up ballroom dancing because my boyfriend doesn't want me dancing with other guys?
Q. My boyfriend has a problem with me dancing with another man. Do you think it's fair? Background info: I used to take ballroom dancing with my gay friend. After I dated my boyfriend, I have stopped. He doesn't like me dancing with another men beca...
A. 28 March 2008: Hi,
Just wanted to add, that I have done ballroom and Latin dancing. And the chances of you picking up a dishy man while you are learning are pretty slim. They are either gay or the types that most girls wouldnt touch with a barge pole. There are ... (read in full...)
My mom sleeps all the time so I have to watch the 2yr old! How can I stop this misery?
Q. i hate my mom.. because she sleeps all day. so i have my two year old sister. my mom has a boyfriend now.. i understand that she works and her job is hard on her.. but its not fair for me to have to watch a two year old who doesnt listen, hits, ...
A. 28 March 2008: Honey, this is just not right. There is no way she should leave you alone and two hours away just to spend the night with her boyfriend. Do you have any family that could talk to her and make her see sense.
XXX... (read in full...)
We've "made out" even though he says we are "just friends! Is this dating?
Q. i have a guy friend recently he would hold me close to him, and we would hold hands. when he was asked if he liked me he said just as friends. well we've kissed and made out. does that classify dating? ...
A. 27 March 2008: It sounds to me, like you are his friend with other benifits. Also by saying this to you he is keeping his options open. He would be able to date other girls, and you couldnt really say anything.
Dont go any further than being mates unless he admi... (read in full...)
Big events or being really nervous gives me diarrhoea...any tips?
Q. Whenever I get really nervous or have some important event etc I get Diarrohea. This can be extremely embarrassing and inconvenient as you can imagine if I am out attending an interview, meeting, important function etc. Any help will be appreciated ...
A. 27 March 2008: How about a cork?
Only joking. My boyfriend suffer's exactly the same, he has IBS. You could go to the doctor and he may be able to prescribe something to help. There are lots of diets that you can follow as well that might also help.
XX... (read in full...)
How do you know when you're going to be with someone forever????
Q. How do you know when your going to be with someone forever????...
A. 27 March 2008: You dont.
Even if you are totally in love and are recieving the same back, you cannot garantee it will be forever.
The best thing is to enjoy what you have and not to worry about what might or might-not be.
XX... (read in full...)
He chose my best friend because she is pregnant with his baby, but he loves me actually. I can only think about how happy we could have been...!
Q. I really like my best friend's boyfriend. I have liked him for about 2 years now and never told anyone about it. We all had a few 3somes together at some point, and me and the boyfriend work together which makes me like him even more. My mate has ...
A. 27 March 2008: God... I really pity the poor baby being born into you lot.
And yes you are being selfish, she is having a baby and you are shagging her boyfriend. She would be better off getting rid of him and you. What kind of mate does this?... (read in full...)
What's a 'mars bar' party?
Q. Whats a mars bar party, someone mentioned it the the other day but I'm not sure what it is? ...
A. 27 March 2008: I bet Chocolate round Uranus could get uncomfortable, maybe thats why they changed the name.... (read in full...)
What's a 'mars bar' party?
Q. Whats a mars bar party, someone mentioned it the the other day but I'm not sure what it is? ...
A. 27 March 2008: I bet if he did he would never admit it!! Lordy Lordy.
Takes Allsorts... (read in full...)
My mom sleeps all the time so I have to watch the 2yr old! How can I stop this misery?
Q. i hate my mom.. because she sleeps all day. so i have my two year old sister. my mom has a boyfriend now.. i understand that she works and her job is hard on her.. but its not fair for me to have to watch a two year old who doesnt listen, hits, ...
A. 27 March 2008: Oh! I wanted to cry when I saw your post.
Your Mum is neglecting the both of you darling. There is no-way that you should be left to look after a two year old baby all the time. What about your school work is it not being efected.
Sit your mum down... (read in full...)
What's a 'mars bar' party?
Q. Whats a mars bar party, someone mentioned it the the other day but I'm not sure what it is? ...
A. 27 March 2008: I dont like mars bars, I'm allergic to them. Do you think I could eat one from the other end safely then? I'm not allergic to nuts though. Thats why I'm friends with you lot on here.
Do ya recon toasty like mars bars? bet he does the saucy bugg... (read in full...)
Any tips on how to make my wife squirt?
Q. i am 20 years old man. I have read about female squirting, but i didnot able to squirt my wife, how i can squirting her? regards Jan adnrive...
A. 27 March 2008: How about a water pistol pistol!!!!!... (read in full...)
We were only sleeping together, innocently, is her mother angry at me?
Q. My new girlfriend got home from work early and her parents were both working, and it was 10pm and stormy/windy outside, so she called me kinda spooked and said "i wish you were here with me", and i told her i would come over as long as her parents ...
A. 26 March 2008: The best way to clear things is to have a chat with her mum. Just tell her your G/F called and asked you to come over, and you hope you hadn't annoyed her. If you did then say sorry, but it was totally inocent.
For all you know, she might have had ... (read in full...)
Can't leave him but he's horrible to me
Q. Hi everyone, I'm feeling low. I feel my boyfriend is mistreating me. He is 28 I'm 43, he's turkish. I know it's a big age gap, but I don't look 43 and he looks older. The problem is we have been together for 18 months and things are starting to go ...
A. 25 March 2008: Honey! You may not look 43, but the fact is that you are. He is disrespecting you because he can. No doubt he knows that he can go out and pick up someone younger any time he wants. If he is not working who is paying the bill's? let me guess! that ... (read in full...)
Eleven year friendship, five months of long distance relationship...and we've never met in person!
Q. I met my boyfriend on the internet 11 years ago this summer. We were kids when we first met and dated on and off, drifting apart occasionally, but never losing contact of each other. Last May he finally broke ties with his ex-girlfriend, and I was ...
A. 25 March 2008: Girl!!! wake up. You have no relationship with this man, you have never even met him. How can you class this as dating a guy. He only lives 2 hours away and yet neither of you have bothered to even try to meet.
This is definatly the strangest ques... (read in full...)
Do you think he's gross to like me?
Q. I'm a 13 year old girl, well I'm almost 14. Recently since I've been on msn, someone added me on their list. I accepted them because I might know the person. I asked them who they were. He said his name and that he was 26. I told him I was 13. Don't ...
A. 25 March 2008: Sorry love, but if the guy knows your 13 and he is 26, he is most definatly a perv. Block him!!!... (read in full...)
My 13 yr old daughter had a disturbing dream about her teacher. How do I deal with this?
Q. My daughter (13 years) told me something that was very embarrassing for her. what happens if your child has a dream about teacher she doesn't even like as a teacher or fancy. she told me that is was kind of creepy and she doesn't think that she c...
A. 25 March 2008: Anon, are you sick. I cant believe that you said those things. No wonder you stayed anon.... (read in full...)
I feel like I give him sex to swap help from him... please advise.
Q. I've just divorced my husband of 20 years and met this Englishman 18 years my senior and Im not from England. Im 45. He is trying to help to get my life on track. He has sex with me whenever he sees me. I never say no because I would be totally ...
A. 25 March 2008: Honey why are you doing this? This is almost like prostitution, and if your not the type that can shut of their feelings when giving sex for favours or money, it will end up haunting you.
Why do you need help from him, is there no one else that can ... (read in full...)
Do you think the guy I met is ready to take me and my baby on in a relationship?
Q. hi, i was texting this lad that i really like for about 3 weeks he lives about 20 mins away! and on friday i stayed at his and we slept together, and hes not ignored me hes rung me everyday and we have spoke for about and hour a time. im a sing...
A. 25 March 2008: Hi honey,
Well you are jumping the gun a bit. He may well be a lovely guy, but its a massive thing to ask a guy to take on your baby. You dont say how old he is, so I will guess that he is around the same age. I was married to a profesional DJ for ... (read in full...)
My 13 yr old daughter had a disturbing dream about her teacher. How do I deal with this?
Q. My daughter (13 years) told me something that was very embarrassing for her. what happens if your child has a dream about teacher she doesn't even like as a teacher or fancy. she told me that is was kind of creepy and she doesn't think that she c...
A. 25 March 2008: Hi,
This is very delicate, but are you sure she is not trying to tell you something without actually saying it. I agree with Mandy and it could be nothing, just her growing up. But all the same, it's unusual that a teenager would admit a dream like... (read in full...)
My ex told he he hated me and that his new partner is miles better. Why does he behave so and how should I react?
Q. Hey everyone i just would like your opinions on a situation. I'll give a bit of background info.. Me and my ex split up in june last year it was a real bad break up and i thought it was all my fault as id slept with someone whist we had split up...
A. 25 March 2008: Hi,
I would say he is far from over you. He finds the need to constantly try to make you aware that he has moved on, when in fact if he hasn't. I would agree with the other poster and say ignore him. He will get tired eventually of trying to get ... (read in full...)
Am I being to particular...this guy is perfect but he smokes.
Q. I've met the most fantastic fella: handsome, kind, intelligent and funny. I'd love to nave sex with him-but he smokes. Am I being too particular?...
A. 24 March 2008: If you like him that much, then tell him that smoking offends you. After all if you can get him to stop, you will be doing him a massive favour. Then maybe you might get to know if he smokes in bed as well. (not fags) If you get my drift.
XX... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 24 March 2008: Very clever Tish, had to read that a couple of times to let it sink in. OMG maybe Toasty is right and I really am as thick as sh**. GULP... (read in full...)
I have accused him of being unfaithful from the beginning but could it possibly by my past trust issues getting in the way??
Q. I have been dating a guy for 4 months now and I have accused him of being unfaithful from the very beginning.I don't have any concrete evidence but I think my past relationships trust issue have gotten me this way. He has stay around and endured ...
A. 24 March 2008: Hi,
You are letting you insecurity rule your life. Its awfull to have acusations thrown at you for no reason, like Uncle Phil has said. But I do understand how hard it is when you have been treated so badly, and you are waiting for it to happen agai... (read in full...)
I told him about my ex and sex and now things are not the same...what can I do??
Q. Okay everyone my problem is that im dating a very good guy. We are both 14 (no lectures please) i have a good head on my shoulders and same for him too. Our relationship has been the cute lovey-dovey type. However since i told him about an incident...
A. 24 March 2008: Who says you cant be in love at 14, certainly not me. Dont you think though at 14 you are jumping the gun with the sex stuff. I mean if he only started to ask for sex when he found out that you had sex before. It does make me worry that he might be ... (read in full...)
We want to spend our lives together but she isn't a Christian so we can't marry...what can I do??
Q. Hi, ive been going out with a girl for a while now and its obvious we are quite serious over each other. We have both hinted and spending our lives together in the future, but I have a problem... Thing is i'm a Christian and she isnt... and I ca...
A. 24 March 2008: You are a little young to be worried about getting married. But if you believe that this girl is really to good to lose, then perhaps you could come to some kind of agrement. There is nothing to stop her becoming a cristain, if thats what she ... (read in full...)
He begs me for blowjobs but never returns the pleasure...what should I do?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for about 4 months, our sex is always the same, it just consists of me giving him head then he fingers me then we have sex. The problem is im not ever having an orgasm and its getting me down, i know i orgasm when i a ...
A. 24 March 2008: Its easy, just dont do it to him. You cant blame him for not wanting to do that if he really doesnt like it. But if you dont like giving blow jobs!! then dont.... (read in full...)
Why can't I get over that my girlfriend has had sex with other guys?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating off and on for the last 2 years, I'm 23 and shes 22. When I first met her she said she wouldn't do "anything" unless she was in a relationship, which kind of got us dating really fast. I had only had sex 2 t...
A. 24 March 2008: Quite honestly you need to grow up. She did this before she met you and that makes it none of your buisness. Is she obsessed with your previous partners I wonder?
If you love this girl then let the past go, if you carry on playing tit-for-tat yopu... (read in full...)
My husband arranged to meet an ex on a dating site... how to move on from this?
Q. I have been married for 3 years and I have discovered that my husband has signed up to a dating site and has made arrangements to meet a girlfriend he dated 7 years ago through Facebook. I caught him red-handed as I managed to sign in to his email ...
A. 24 March 2008: He's got a cheek to preach about trust!!!
I really feel for you, but what your husband was doing was setting himself up to meet another woman. I would have been mortified, that he joined a dating site anyway.
Well! can you get over this, thats th... (read in full...)
He broke up with me because I was talking to some guy, but I want him back!
Q. Me and my boyfriend had been dating for 8 months and then we broke up because i talked to some guy!! he's muslim though so remember that. We got back together a short time after and it doesnt feel the same anymore, it does for him but me i dont no...
A. 24 March 2008: Hi,
It doesn't sound very reasonable to break up with you just because you spoke to another guy. Perhaps you are feeling some deep held resentment at the way he acted, and thats why your feelings have slightly changed.
I think in your position... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 24 March 2008: I THINK I HIT A RAW NERVE WITH THE BUT PLUG THING, TOASTY.
I must opologise completely, for my apaling behaviour, and lack of care for the poor girl in the post aged 22-25 that has obviously led a very sheltered life, and did not know the answ... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 21 March 2008: Toasty get a life, it was fun thats all. How do you know that it was even a serious question. Notice that the original poster has not added a comment.
Take the but plug out your bum and have a giggle, they say its the best medicine.
Tellu... (read in full...)
How do I keep him interested?
Q. My husband and I have been together for over 10 years. He takes alot of meds that makes having sex difficult. Recenty he said he's bored with the relationship. How do I spice things up and keep him interested without sex being able to be a ...
A. 20 March 2008: You are a very understanding lady, that I dont think is being appreciated. Whilst you obviously love him, he needs to put a bit of an effort in as well.
It must be extremely hard, to live like that. But I wonder if you ignored him just a litt... (read in full...)
He won't marry me or have sex ...I don't know what to do.
Q. I am 29 and been with my boyfriend which is 37 for eight years. He says he wants to get married but he keeps giving me all kinds of excuses. Also we haven't had sexual relationship in four years. He knows it hurts my feelings. He tells me its ...
A. 20 March 2008: I couldnt agree more.
You need to move on, and find love with someone else. The relationship you have at the moment is more or less like brother and sister. You are 29 years old, do you really want to be in a relationship like this. He is not the ... (read in full...)
I want him to choose me but I feel like an idiot for waiting on a married man, but I'm not ready to let go, what do I do?
Q. I fell in love with a married man, who loves me back. He travels so while i have been able to see him, I will no longer be able to meet him in these different cities, so I won't be seeing him for a while. And while everything is good between us, he ...
A. 20 March 2008: Honey thats not always true! But you have to face facts, and that is, he still says he loves his wife. On that alone I would say its not likely he will choose you. Dont waste your precious life on this man. The only winner in all this will be him, ... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 20 March 2008: Blimey this question has gone down two route's now. Seamen and Tom Jones, Does this make it a Double Ender?
Oh thats really rude, sorry I am ill and have a fever.
XXX... (read in full...)
My husband has told me he wants an "open marriage" but I can't do this, please help!
Q. My husband has been cheating with my sister the whole time we have been together and married, it's been awful and one trys to stop but my husband won't let it. He wants both! Now she had a child to him so when I try to get him to want only me he ...
A. 17 March 2008: You love this guy, but he certainly has no feelings for you.
Kick this guy to the curb Honey, he is using you.... (read in full...)
Does anyone else have a weird looking vagina???
Q. I am sure that this has been asked time and time again, but I really worry if my boyfriend is telling the truth about my.... vagina. You see it "sticks out" well the lips do. I tell my boyfriend that I need to get it fixed, but he says it is normal ...
A. 17 March 2008: Have you ever looked at pictures of penis's, they are all diferent. So it stands to reason that we must all look diferent down there as well.
My ex used to tell me that mine looked like a Beetle bonnet, I think he meant it in a nice way!. Well that... (read in full...)
How long does it take to get "loose"?
Q. How long does it take to get "loose"? I have been having sex with the same guy for two years and he is about 5 inches. Will this make me loose? Can I ever buy a vibrator or will this also make me loose? I have been doing kegals, but I just want to ...
A. 17 March 2008: I was a bit loose in my teen's,
But I'm more choosey now.... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 17 March 2008: Well
"It's not unusual" to love Tom Jones.
Boom-Boom
XXX... (read in full...)
Deep secret from my past!! Will it effect my future
Q. I believe i was abused when i was very young by my father. I am still a virgin because I choose to be but I wonder why I am not really interested in having sex. I am scared that what happened when I was little(eventhough I cannot remember it because ...
A. 17 March 2008: Darling,
How do you know that something happened to you while you were young. You need to get to the bottom of what's put this in your head to start with.
XXX... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 17 March 2008: Oh my god!! did you know cows have two stomach's. No wonder they dont give blow jobs.... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 15 March 2008: Whats your specialist subject, gottascrewlose86, "The bleeding obvious".
That made me laugh even more.
I think you might have missed the point of all the stuff below. Bless ya!
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Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 14 March 2008: Meant your jaw.
Not your's Phil, your a man and they cant have babies. Even Tummy babies. If they could you could drink your own and make yourself pregnant.
Can I be your manager...XXX... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 14 March 2008: Oh yes!!! Without a doubt.
Just when you close your eyes and think your safe, it can get you.
Of course it depends on the size of the smooch. Small ones will just make you dizzy. But a large one could lead to what they call "ADULT SEX". And then... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 14 March 2008: Whats a but plug?
Does it stop the baby from falling out your bum.... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 13 March 2008: I love it on here. Where else can you get to meet so many crazy people..... XXXXX to you all.
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Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 13 March 2008: Is that your real age?
Yes you can, and when the baby is big enough you will have to dislodge your jaw like a snake to give birth.... (read in full...)
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