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Hi, I have been through loads in my life. Marriage break up, boyfriend break ups, and been a single parent. I have been treated really bad sometimes, but i think this is all to do with life. I dont hold grudges, and have a good sence of humour. I just love all my friends and family, and have loads of support from them. So i thought i could share that with a few of you. I have asked for advice a few times. You dont always want to hear it, but there are some smart people out there.

I have now found, after a lot of searching, my soul mate. But lifes not all a bed of roses for us. But he keeps me smiling, well most of the time anyway.

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It's tempting to leave home right now. I can (just about) wait. Have I got it all wrong?

Q.   Hello, I'm a 17 year old girl. I live with my parents in a nice house in a small town in England. We have a cat and a goldfish pond. And to be totally honest, I'm gonna go insane if I stay here too much longer. Don't get me wrong - I apprecia...

A.   6 April 2009: Because sweetie! Most people pay their way in life, by paying rent, mortgages, council tax and all the other stuff that squaters get away with. Just imagine if you worked hard to buy a house, and while you are away a load of squaters moved in... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   6 April 2009: Glad to hear that, I'm really pleased for you honey. Take care and enjoy your new life...you certainly deserve it. XXXX... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   17 July 2008: Sarcy, its only expensive because you both made it that way. I totally understand how upset and bitter you were, but you cannot stop this man from seeing his child, no matter how you feel about it. Because its totally un-fair on your son. You are ... (read in full...)

I know I ought to settle down. Can anyone give me some advice to set me straight?

Q.   I am fifteen years old. I've had sex multiple times with four different guys, and I had unprotected sex with three of them. Let's just say, if I were to get pregnant right now, I wouldn't really know which four of them it would be. I failed my cu...

A.   9 July 2008: Ohh! I didnt mean for this girl to feel bad about herself. I was mearly trying to say that she doesnt have to give away something that is special to any old Tom Dick or Harry. We all make mistakes in life dont we, I know I have made loads. If ther... (read in full...)

I know I ought to settle down. Can anyone give me some advice to set me straight?

Q.   I am fifteen years old. I've had sex multiple times with four different guys, and I had unprotected sex with three of them. Let's just say, if I were to get pregnant right now, I wouldn't really know which four of them it would be. I failed my cu...

A.   9 July 2008: I dont get it, you are saying (almost bosting|) how many men you have had sex with, and yet you feel bad about yourself? Of course you bloody do, whats wrong with just socialising with them and not having sex. You seem to think that by having sex, ... (read in full...)

It's tempting to leave home right now. I can (just about) wait. Have I got it all wrong?

Q.   Hello, I'm a 17 year old girl. I live with my parents in a nice house in a small town in England. We have a cat and a goldfish pond. And to be totally honest, I'm gonna go insane if I stay here too much longer. Don't get me wrong - I apprecia...

A.   9 July 2008: Be carefull what you wish for, because not only are you wrong to want to go and live in a squat in the first place, but you are also putting your life in danger even if you cant see it. You say that you love your B/F to bits, imagine if he just ... (read in full...)

I watched in despair as the woman I love flew out of my life forever. Do I risk it all and follow her?

Q.   I need some help. yesterday i watched in horror as the love of my life flew out to australia. We were together for 3 years, and we just drifted apart, with her at uni and me starting a new job. i am older than her, and i think to be honest she just ...

A.   9 July 2008: Honey! You only get one life. If you can get hold of her and she still wants you, then go. What do you have to lose, you can always come back. If you dont you will always wonder what could have been.... (read in full...)

I made a joke and he has taken it seriously. Help!

Q.   last night i was chatting with my boyfriend on msn and while we were talking about sex I was kidding when I said to him that I just act like I'm pleased after sex with him and I do it just not to make him feel bad. Surely I was just kiding and it ...

A.   27 June 2008: Hi, At first I thought about your B/F and how upset he was, and was tempted to say "Tell him to grow up, cant he take a bloody joke". But then I thought what if he said something like that to you. i.e You look like a sack of spuds when we have sex!... (read in full...)

We have a second child on the way but he prefers to live like a single man. Any advice please. Help!!!

Q.   My husband never has time for me but always for his friends, going out, drinking, weekends away with friends etc. We have been together for 3.5 years, have been married nearly a year, have a 2 yo and next baby on the way. I feel he still has ...

A.   27 June 2008: Hi, 1st thing, You are letting him treat you like a doormat, so what do you expect? I cant understand why you had another child with him when you knew what he was like anyway. I really do feel for you, but we can sometimes be our own worst en... (read in full...)

I was raped by my father's boss, what do I do?

Q.   Please someone has to help me. I can't live with this anymore. when i was 10 I was raped by my Fathers Boss. His boss is also one of his good friends. My Dad and his co-workers had a party to celebrate their works aniversary. All my Dads fr...

A.   26 June 2008: Hi, What an awfull thing to go through. I cant believe that your Dad didnt listen to you, especially as the evidence would still have been there. You have to listen to what all the others have said and inform on this man. Without any shadow of a do... (read in full...)

I don't want my classmates to know I'm gay, how can I rig this test?

Q.   I am a psychology Student and I'm on my 4th year of studying. I have this major subject called Projective testing and it reveals the deepest and inner part of yourself that you hide. The test shows many aspects of personality that is basically what ...

A.   26 June 2008: Hi, Sorry dont know about the tests either, so I'm not sure how you could fool them. But chances are that your mates may know that your Gay anyway, and have never said anything to you. Its quite a hard thing to hide even when you think you have trie... (read in full...)

I am obsessed about my appearance since I have been cheated on! Worried I might develop an eating disorder...

Q.   since my boyfriend slept with another girl and we split up and got back together i have found myself constantly obsessing about my looks, before i see him i will make sure i look the best i possibly can even when we are doing things that require me ...

A.   26 June 2008: Hi, I will keep this short as you have had really good reply's already. Its not you that needs to make the effort its HIM. By going with another girl he has made you feel bad about yourself, but why should you. If anything he should be show... (read in full...)

Sex Burgers - or people?

Q.   Which of you out there feel the same as me. In an ideal world which would make me so happy it would be like this: Women would be celebrated for who they are in equal measure, whether it be because they were clever, great Mums, leaders, spo...

A.   13 June 2008: Mmm!! Really anon. You would think so wouldnt you.... (read in full...)

I am married and started an affair with a married man... I was booking a room for us and he said he had to think about it!! Is he not up for it!?

Q.   I have been married for ten years, not always happily although things are ok at the moment. I have recently started an affair a married man. We have only met twice and all we have done is kiss. I feel like I have really fell for this guy after just ...

A.   12 June 2008: Maybe he has a little more feeling for his wife than you do your husband. Instead of breaking up two relationships why not try to fix things at home first. You know its wrong, so dont cheapen yourself by just having an affair. Its really not worth ... (read in full...)

Why if hes married why does he consider me as his girlfriend?

Q.   ok i have a problum im 18 n im seeing a guy thats 32.. i consider him a booty call but he told me he considers me as his girlfriend i am trying to stop feelings for him but when he told me that i gave in..well the problum i have is that hes ...

A.   12 June 2008: Hi, Its interesting that you say you thought of him as a booty call, because thats exactly what you are to him. Only he has put it in a mushy way, so that you fall for him. If you dont mind being used by this guy, then carry on....but aren't you ... (read in full...)

Sex Burgers - or people?

Q.   Which of you out there feel the same as me. In an ideal world which would make me so happy it would be like this: Women would be celebrated for who they are in equal measure, whether it be because they were clever, great Mums, leaders, spo...

A.   12 June 2008: I kind of agree with you guys, but you must admit things have got a little out of hand. You dont have to look at porn, but its not as well hidden as it used to be. I have nothing against prostitution and those in the sex industry. If thats how they ... (read in full...)

After 8 years he still hasn't proposed. What do I do?

Q.   help. ive been dating my man for 8yrs.1n currently26 and he loves me. i know that. problem is he is taking too long to propose marriage. all my friends are married with kids and i started dating this guy way before they met their husbands. my ...

A.   11 June 2008: Annalisa is right, you need to talk to him about this. Maybe he is scared of commiting himself, (some men just dont want to get married) its not that your not the right girl, its just that he is comfortable with how things are, and doesnt see the ... (read in full...)

Sex Burgers - or people?

Q.   Which of you out there feel the same as me. In an ideal world which would make me so happy it would be like this: Women would be celebrated for who they are in equal measure, whether it be because they were clever, great Mums, leaders, spo...

A.   11 June 2008: Hi, In an ideal world, maybe you have a point, although there many women out there that are just as addicted to porn as men. Its a shame that things have gone the way that they have, but its the same with violence. I remember being one of the only... (read in full...)

My boyfriend of 11 months is becoming a little controlling about me seeing my friends

Q.   My boyfriend of 11 months is becoming a little controlling; I can’t leave him because I really do love him. I’ve made some mistakes in the past involving 2 guys. (At different times). Ever since then he doesn’t trust me even talking to them anymore. ...

A.   10 June 2008: Did you sleep with the other guys behind your B/F back. Because if you did, you can hardly blame him for feeling like he does. If thats not the case, then he has no right to tell you that you cant be friends with them. I really dont think that you ... (read in full...)

A little bit old for a long distance relationship. What should I do? Advice please!

Q.   I am little bit old to ask question about my long distance relationship with an American guy he lives in Michigan and I live here in Aberta I am Asian. We meet on line and he visited me after a month, he stayed in hotel and he visits me like a ...

A.   10 June 2008: Hi, Could you not go and stay a-while before making such a huge comitment. He sounds really nice, and its lovely that he wants to take care of you and daughter, but even so its only been 6 months. If you go and stay and are really happy, you dont... (read in full...)

Am I being just another married man who wants to have his cake & eat it?

Q.   I should start by saying that this is going to sound very stupid coming from a 57 year old man, but it is honestly causing me a great dilemma. Over the last 6 years we have spent many fantastic holidays in Phuket, staying in the same res...

A.   10 June 2008: Ok I will not respond with "this is just a holiday romance". You are just a number of silly men that go over to these places and fall for someone a little more exotic. How long do you really think she would take care of you for? or how long woul... (read in full...)

My ex says he will marry me now but only if I let him have anal sex!

Q.   my ex bf wants me back now that I have a new bf, he is a good guy and while we lived together I had everything, except marriage and kids, he wants to give that now, but wants me to have anal sex with him, he says if I do not do it he won`t be able ...

A.   10 June 2008: Oh please!! You are joking. Are you seriously thinking of going back with a guy, who's condition is that he will marry you if you let him have anal sex. Just because he supports you? Why dont you support yourself then?. I dont know who is the wors... (read in full...)

Torn between a jailbird husband and my more stable lover. I need advice!

Q.   Dear Cupid I am a hard working 50 years old young women, lol. I am searching for some good advice . I have been married 10 years, but has been in and out of prison the majority of those. When he did time I did time with him.All that I have bee...

A.   10 June 2008: Hi, If your husband has let you down with false promises before then its unlikely that it will be any different when he comes out this time. Put it this way! he is serving another 8 years. When he comes out you will be nearly 60. If he does go ... (read in full...)

I need good advice on how to cope alone with 3 kids after my husband left me.

Q.   I've been married for 11years and now my husband left me for another woman. we have 3 children. we put in the divorce papers. I haven't worked for like 9 years. I have no income i have no job no one that can baby sit my kids for me to work he works ...

A.   10 June 2008: Hi, Right OK! so you are in a new neighbor hood. Well thats good, because it means that there are other people that wont know anyone either. Are thier any clubs, that you could join. Like single parent family's or maybe some clubs for your chil... (read in full...)

Is it ever a good idea to get back in touch with an ex after a bad breakup?

Q.   I've just opened a door that I'm not entirely sure I want to step through. To fully explain, it requires a bit of a back story, so... please bare with me. About a year ago, I dated a guy that I truly believed was "the one." We had so much in...

A.   10 June 2008: Hi, The trouble is, that you will never know if you dont do it! I think its very possible that you can be mates with an EX. My previous relationship ended very badly, my EX was a real bully to me at the time. Now almost 4 years have past, and we m... (read in full...)

Every time we see he blames me for the break up and he still wants to be with me despite thinking that I'm useless!!

Q.   what to do with an emotional abusive ex-boyfriend? We have been together for 2 1/2 years, before I decided to end the relationship. He has been cheating on me several times, lied about money and his intention towards having a family with me w...

A.   6 June 2008: Hi, You have done the hard bit so dont go back. Its unlikely that he would change as I think you already know. Really it doesnt matter what he blames you for, you know the truth and thats all that counts. It seem's to me he is still trying to minip... (read in full...)

I'm desperate for sex with my boyfriend - how do I approach him about it?

Q.   Hi..am going to meet my boyfriend with a surprise visit in coming few days...and the guy i'll be dating is very busy these dayz...and don't even have time to sit and rest even...however..i know once i reach him....he won't deny for a date with ...

A.   5 June 2008: Surely he wont be to busy to spend a little time with you. Just tell him you would like some time alone with him and have a nice meal and a bottle of wine. That should break the ice. Good luck.... (read in full...)

Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?

Q.   I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...

A.   5 June 2008: Honey you are getting this way out of proportion. Guys look at porn, because women are beautiful to look at. The sex thing is just a bonus, but like I said before, I bet he cant even remember what the porn girl looked like when he turns the computer ... (read in full...)

Am I still a teenager? even though I am 20

Q.   i just turned 20 and a lot of people call me teeny(as in teenager).So i was wondering are you still considered a teenager if your 20?...

A.   5 June 2008: Strange question! but NO you stop being a Teenager at Nineteen.... (read in full...)

I am only 12, but look much older. Should I tell my 21 year old girfriend?

Q.   i recenty met a 21 year old girl and we really like each other only problem is im 9 years younger than her(i look a lot older than i am)should i lie about my age or should i tell her that i think we should just be friends until im old enough.If i ...

A.   5 June 2008: OK you may look older, but your not are you? I have to say that if it were the other way round and the man was 21 and the girl was 12, he would be classed as a Paedophile. Can you imagine how this poor girl would feel if you let anything happ... (read in full...)

He says I should turn a blind eye to his cheating, is he right?

Q.   i have been with my bf for 3 years, i knew he has been cheating. we have discussed why do men cheat? and he answered that man can have sex with other women but not having any feeling for them, so i should not get upset. as long as he is nice to me, ...

A.   5 June 2008: Sorry Honey but like the others have already said, "Get rid of this man" He has no respect for you or himself. He will try to turn it on you, because he bloody well knows he is in the wrong, and you are going to back down. Are you going to let this... (read in full...)

Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?

Q.   I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...

A.   5 June 2008: I really dont understand all the fuss. I bet when this young lady's B/F looks at porn then turns off his computer he couldnt even remember what the porn star looked like. I know its hard to understand why guys love porn, but they just do. Why is i... (read in full...)

My wife and my mother fight each other. How can I solve this problem?

Q.   I live in India. The problem is every time my wife and my mother fight each other for silly reasons. I cannot support any one of them. I am the only son to my mother and my father is no more. According to our custom I cannot put my mother anywhere ...

A.   4 June 2008: Fantastic answer Tish. They really do need to sit and talk with you, surely there is some way that the peace can be kept. Its very unfair on you being in the middle all the time.... (read in full...)

Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?

Q.   I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...

A.   4 June 2008: This has nothing to do with his love for you honey. He is just a Guy being a Guy. Why does it hurt you so much, do you fell threatened by him watching porn?. Unfortunatly there are an awfull lot of guys that do look at this and they wont stop even ... (read in full...)

What does he mean he needs space when I'm leaving in 3 weeks?!

Q.   I've been with my bf for 15 months now. I'm not so sure about how he feels now. He was very loving and always took care of me. I love him as well but I have severe mood swings and a very short temper. I would say the cruelest things...but I never ...

A.   4 June 2008: I think that he is dealing with the situation the only way that he can. You are leaving in 3 weeks, and have been abusive towards him in the past. So my guess is that he is distancing himself from you, so it wont hurt so much when you, leave/break ... (read in full...)

I really need help!! Guy A has been working on his issues, and I really like Guy B too!

Q.   I have a problematic situation. I spent a year with guy A, fell in love and had so many fun times together, built a future together and get along like a house on fire. The draw back - his temper is huge when he has been drinking especially!! i h...

A.   4 June 2008: How about going for Guy C. I would not bank on the first one changing, he probably wont, and the next thing you could very likely be on the end of a punch. And Guy B, well! bless him for being so nice! but honey you dont deserve him.... (read in full...)

Do I tell him about sleeping with someone else while we were broken up?

Q.   hi. me and my boyfriend both lost our virginity to eachother last january (so around a year ago) a few months after this we broke up for a bit, and i ended up sleeping with someone else. all i thought about was him. we got back together and ...

A.   4 June 2008: NO NO NO!! For one thing it is none of his buisness, because you didnt cheat. And if you do tell him it will ruin the trust that he has in you. Please keep it to yourself and dont try to make yourself feel better by telling him.... (read in full...)

Am I wrong to think I could ever have a true love?

Q.   I'm 25 years old. I have been in a realtionship with my boyfriend for 6, nearly 7 years. He is 37. I was deeply in love with my ex and after 2 months of not being with my ex I met my current boyfriend. I never felt a passionate love for him. I ...

A.   4 June 2008: In my opinion true love comes along many times, not just one. Its just that the one that breaks your heart is the one you remember the most, for obvious reason's. If you have a guy that is considerate, kind, and he seems to be very unde... (read in full...)

Why do I still like her? She said no and she's not really that pretty!

Q.   Why do I still like her? She said no n she looks off colour, not very pretty probably due to exam stress but I don't care I am in love with her as person no matter how bad she looks. Anyone understand me? Is it even possible to get over her?...

A.   4 June 2008: I presume that she left you right? You dont seem to have a very high opinion of her, could that be the reason that your not together. As for if you will get over her, of course you will in time. Your only young, and there is every chance in the ... (read in full...)

I'm wondering if I'm doing the right thing by being with him!

Q.   Hi, I've recently got involved with a guy I know. I knew he had a girlfriend of 3 years, but we couldn't stop flirting with each other. His girlfriend was never around as she was always working, and we grew closer. He said he was going to f...

A.   3 June 2008: Mmm! This is hard, because you dont really know where you stand do you?. I will just say that it is possible to love a person and know that they are not good for you. At least he did this in front of you, so he isnt hiding anything. It was bad, him ... (read in full...)

I want to leave my partner, and this country, but our children complicate things!

Q.   I want to leave my partner , but what makes it so difficult is that I’m from a different country and we also have two young children with a third on the way. When I leave my partner I don’t wish to stay in Australia. I have no social network here ...

A.   3 June 2008: Hi, I agree with the other Aunts. At least wait until your baby is born, before making such a rash decision. Why do you need to get away so quick, is he violent towards you. If not is it really fair to take his children and run?. Cant you make some... (read in full...)

Can he go to jail for being with a 13 year old girl?

Q.   Yes, I am 13 years old and I have a boyfriend and he is 17 years old, can he go to jail for being with a 13 year old girl?...

A.   3 June 2008: If you are having sex,and get caught out, then yes he could. The Law is there to protect you and other girls your age. Although your boyfriend is only 17, he is still classed as an adult, where as you are still classed as a child. When you are 17 ... (read in full...)

My husband left me for his young mistress. Will they work out in the future?

Q.   i am the typical story of the wife whos husband left for the young mistress. im sick of hearing that a husband never leaves in those circumstances because im proof that they do. He was happy until she came into the equation and then he completely ...

A.   3 June 2008: Hi, I feel so desperatly sorry for you. I understand how much it hurts when your husband walks out. The thing is, I truly believe that if he felt the same way that you do, he would never have looked somewhere else. If it hadnt been this girl it woul... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   2 May 2008: Uncle Phil is right babe!! dont hang it out anymore than you have to. Except he is gone and have a good cry, but for goodness sake dont let those solicitors have any more of your money. Even if they get him to admit he is the biggest ar**hole in the ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   1 May 2008: Honey!! I cant believe that you called him. Its so obvious that he doesnt want anything to do with you, why keep hurting yourself. You know deep down that the only reason you called him was to get him to respond to you!! I dont know why you bother? ... (read in full...)

My husband left me for his young mistress. Will they work out in the future?

Q.   i am the typical story of the wife whos husband left for the young mistress. im sick of hearing that a husband never leaves in those circumstances because im proof that they do. He was happy until she came into the equation and then he completely ...

A.   24 April 2008: Then!! I wish you every happiness I really do. If my partner had wanted to go back to his wife, I would have let him go. Of course I would be upset and devastated (thats only natural if you fall in love) but I would understand. Its like I said ... (read in full...)

My husband left me for his young mistress. Will they work out in the future?

Q.   i am the typical story of the wife whos husband left for the young mistress. im sick of hearing that a husband never leaves in those circumstances because im proof that they do. He was happy until she came into the equation and then he completely ...

A.   24 April 2008: Looweez, I think that you miss the point. Are you saying that just because a man or woman no longer love thier partner, that they should stay in an unhappy relationship, just to please the other person. Also, why! wouldnt you care about a pers... (read in full...)

My husband left me for his young mistress. Will they work out in the future?

Q.   i am the typical story of the wife whos husband left for the young mistress. im sick of hearing that a husband never leaves in those circumstances because im proof that they do. He was happy until she came into the equation and then he completely ...

A.   23 April 2008: Hi, It may not be that you would want to hear from me, as I am in the same position as your husbands present partner. Although I am not younger, than my boyfriends (still) wife, the situation is the same. My boyfriend keeps close contact with his... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   14 April 2008: I kind of agree with the last poster. Solicitors will do anything to earn some more out of the poor sod going through this pain. Really it doesnt matter what you divorce him for, its not as if he will have lying cheating sh** across his head. No b... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   10 March 2008: I wish I could give you a hug, I knew you would get there in the end. Hip Hip Horah XXXXXX... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   5 March 2008: Thank God!!! you are actually staring to fight this man back. I can also tell you why he cant look you in the face, it's guilt nothing else. For whatever reason he has for his actions, does not mean you have to take it laying down. Go for what... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   1 March 2008: Hi Honey, Reading your post, I can see that you have still got extremely strong feelings for this man. I know that its hard to let go of any hope, but I think that your husband has proved over and over again that you have no option. He has move... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   13 November 2007: Hiya! I am so pleased for you, your sounding so much better, and a hell of a lot more positive. Good for you. Its so nice when you try and help someone and they feel like there is no light at the end of the tunnel, and then they begin to see that... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   20 September 2007: Hi, I have been sitting reading what has happened to you with a lump in my throat. Its so sad when you are in love with someone who falls for someone else. I should know this has happened to me. But surely by now you can see that the only time he ... (read in full...)

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