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... Send *V1 a private message | | | *V1's profile:Hi! My name is Devin, but my friends call me DV1. I currently live in Pennsylvania, USA. I'm currently in a serious relationship, and I've found that special someone... I've been in and out of relationships for many years. I've been lied to, cheated on, and lost friendships over relationships. I've found that I've taken many lessons from my experiences, and I want to use those experiences to help others. I'm just your average, run-of-the-mill guy, who sees himself as a hopeless romantic of sorts. I'm just lucky that I've found that special someone who doesn't get involved in drama, and just wants me for me. I want to help others find someone, or stay with someone who makes them feel appreciated. If I can cause at least one person on this planet to find or hold onto happiness, then my job here is done.
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Help..I'm pregnant. What can I do?
Q. ok so i've asked alot of ? about me and my bf about french kissing, sex, etc. but i didn't listen to anybody cuz I'M PREGNANT!!! i ain't told my mom cuz she'll litterally kill me well when i went to wal-mart i found and took a pregnant test thing, ...
A. 3 June 2007: It depends on if your body can handle the pregnancy. Ask a doctor.
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My girlfriend is trying to steal my bloke! I don't want to fall out with her so what do I do?
Q. Hi! I really need some help with this, so I'm going to do my best to keep everything straight so you don't get confused...lol Ok, so I have this best friend, we've been friends since preschool, and we're both now 27. I'll just call her J. Ok, ...
A. 27 May 2007: Don't bother with her. She's NOT your friend. She's not worth the time of talking to. What she's done in the past is unforgivable.
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My girlfriend is trying to steal my bloke! I don't want to fall out with her so what do I do?
Q. Hi! I really need some help with this, so I'm going to do my best to keep everything straight so you don't get confused...lol Ok, so I have this best friend, we've been friends since preschool, and we're both now 27. I'll just call her J. Ok, ...
A. 27 May 2007: There should be no; "I'm not sure." She had sex with your ex-boyfriend? You don't need anything else to go on. She's NOT your friend. Period.
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How do I tell my husband I KNOW he's been cheating on me?
Q. I have just found out my husband is cheating on me. I have computer eveidence so I am sure. I hurt so much. How do i tell him i know the truth?...
A. 27 May 2007: Tell him that you're busy, and that you can't pick him up. When he gets home, have the pictures in a place that he's going to see them.
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What tips can you give me about making sex better for my boyfriend and I?
Q. Please help. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly six months and we have started to try and have sex. I can make him come by blow jobs but so far he has only given me handjobs. These used to be very intense for me but recently I just haven't got ...
A. 27 May 2007: You two have to satisfy each other. Try different modes of foreplay. If he's moving in a way that hurts, or doesn't feel right, you need to lead him.
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I'm in love with an unhappy married man!
Q. I'm in love with an unhappy married man and he wants to leave his wife but she is controlling his every mood. what should i do to help him get out of that and be with me were he want to be?...
A. 27 May 2007: Right now, the ball is in his court. It's a choice that he has to make. When he's ready, he either will, or you'll be out of luck.
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Why am I always so nervous when it comes to pleasing my guy sexually?
Q. dear cupid, I am going out with this guy and things have become serious and i think he wants to have sex. he knows i want to wait and he respects that but he does want me to pleasure him in other ways. i want to but i get so nervous when it ...
A. 27 May 2007: It may because you're new to it, and you're not sure if you can do it well. If you really want to, ask him to walk you through it, and be patient. Just make sure that he doesn't go beyond what you're willing to do.
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My girlfriend is trying to steal my bloke! I don't want to fall out with her so what do I do?
Q. Hi! I really need some help with this, so I'm going to do my best to keep everything straight so you don't get confused...lol Ok, so I have this best friend, we've been friends since preschool, and we're both now 27. I'll just call her J. Ok, ...
A. 27 May 2007: She's jealous of you, and you need to get her out of your life. If she's willing to hurt you to get what she wants, she's not your friend.
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How do I tell my husband I KNOW he's been cheating on me?
Q. I have just found out my husband is cheating on me. I have computer eveidence so I am sure. I hurt so much. How do i tell him i know the truth?...
A. 27 May 2007: Print out the evidence, and when he comes in, calmly put it in front of him and walk out. Pack your bags, and move on to a better future.
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Why can't my girlfriend get pregnant? Is it me?
Q. hey all i've been with my girlfriend now 11 weeks on tuesday (29 May) nearly 3 months and for the past 2 months or so we've been haveing sex without comdoms and i've not made her pregnant at all. shes not on the pill could there be something ...
A. 27 May 2007: She was probably being nice... As far as family and friends, they come first, and mean more than a partner.
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Can you ever heal and move on from your first love?
Q. Can you ever heal and move on from your first love?...
A. 27 May 2007: The first love ALWAYS hurts the worse. It's the love that teaches you about yourself. Your first relationship tends to be the one we all set our boundaries and standards from. We never completely heal from it, but we can move on with our lives.
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My is my ex boyfriend constantly keeping in touch with me after our breakup a year ago?
Q. What do you think an ex boyfriend wants when he stays in contact with you for over a year since you broke up (his choice) say once a month just saying hi. Then in the last month he has been texting nearly every day and apologising again for his ...
A. 27 May 2007: It sounds like he's still in love with you. A thing about guys, is that they hate apologizing. When they do it over and over in a small amount of time, they genuinely mean it.
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I've realised my girlfriend is very spoilt and has gotten worse in the last few months.
Q. I've realised my girlfriend is very spoilt and has gotten worse in the last few months. She takes her mum for granted a lot and she constantly asks her to buy her presents. She asks me what I have gotten her for her birthdays and christmas before...
A. 27 May 2007: She sounds like a snob. It sounds like the only thing that would change her is to be humbled. That will come in time, once her parents send her into the real world. You should find someone else.
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I think I'm in love with her......
Q. hi i met a girl on msn, she lives about an hour away on train, ive met her loads now and i think ive fallen in love, problem is that i dont see her that often and the longer it goes on the more painful it is not seeing her, what should i do?...
A. 27 May 2007: Long distance relationships are hard, but if you both share the same feelings, you'll be ok.
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My mother caught me masturbating and now I feel soooooo ashamed!
Q. am i normal? im extremely curious and i heard some girls in my class talking about masturbating so i decided to try it, i was in the shower one day and out of curiosity i layed on my back and let the water drip onto my 'area' and i pulled back the...
A. 27 May 2007: It's part of growing up. She'll get over it in time. It's going to be a little bit of a shock to know that you're growing up. I think that it's odd that people are checking in on you while you're in the shower... She should have called in to see ... (read in full...)
Will going on my laptop all the time affect my eyesight?
Q. hi im 14 and on my laptop all the time if im not going out ill be on it all the time im awake. Im quite worried about what will happen to my eyesite its perfectly fine at the moment but what will it do to me and how long have i got till it starts ...
A. 27 May 2007: It depends on the amount of radiation being emitted. It is really trying for one's eyes to look at a screen all day. It sounds like you need more hobbies to occupy your time. Too much of anything is really bad, and I suggest more diversity in your ... (read in full...)
I'm 22 and I have always found it hard to be friends with guys.
Q. Hi, I just wondered if you guys could help. I'm 22 and I have always found it hard to be friends with guys. If I get to know a guy then I can't be just mates with him, I'm always looking for it to be something more and if they don't find me ...
A. 27 May 2007: It seems like you have a large ego that needs to be satisfied, and you always need new faces to satisfied. It's a blatant need for attention. The only way you're going to get over it is to humble yourself, grow up, and realize that one person can ... (read in full...)
I feel like no guy can ever win with me and I am so confused because of it.
Q. I feel like no guy can ever win with me and I am so confused because of it. My ex said for ages that he didn't feel like having sex and although I accepted it because he had been in a long term relationship that he was struggling to deal with and ...
A. 27 May 2007: He probably wasn't completely over her, and was trying to fill the void for a small amount of time. I think that he realized the damage he had done to both you and himself, and is probably struggling to deal with that at the moment. He's probably ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to wear my bikini's all the time but assures me he's not gay!
Q. I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 23. He wears my bikinis all the time, and even says he wants to wear them in public. He also insists he's not gay, or a cross-dresser, and that wearing bikinis is right - and that men should do it. What should I d...
A. 27 May 2007: He may be bi-curious, bi, or gay. He may be curious about experimenting. It's not normal. I think that you should look for someone who can be a man for you.
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I saw my girlfriend and another female in a VERY intimate position!!!
Q. i went round to my girlfriends, friends house (she is a girl as well) last night as she left her phone in my apartment. however as i went to knock on the window i saw the 2 of them in a very, very intimate position. they also were half naked. i...
A. 27 May 2007: If she wanted to explore, she shouldn't have done it on your time. She should be doing that when she's single. She deserved to get broken up with. She was unfaithful. Period.
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How do you go from dating someone to actually being in a relationship with them?
Q. how do you go from dating someone to being in a relationship with them? i know that sounds stupid but i honestly don`t know. do you say after a couple of dates "so should we start a relationship together" or what?...
A. 27 May 2007: Tell the person that you enjoy being around them, and if they would like to be more serious instead of just dating.
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My ex girlfriend of one week has just asked me over to her house for "some fun"
Q. Hey, I've posted a couple of times now, you might recognize part of the story. Basically my gf dumped me last weekend, and in favor of some guy online. Shes meeting him this friday. But the friday thats just been, she started emailing me abou...
A. 27 May 2007: You should leave it. You're just going to be a sex buddy at her disposal if you allow this to continue. You should move on.
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I had no choice but to file a restraining order against my daughter's father.
Q. I had no choice but to file a restraining order against my daughter's father. He's so unpredictable as well as his actions. I am tired of his threats, verbal abuse, etc. He just showed up at my place of employment harassing me about our ...
A. 27 May 2007: If you go to a judge, because there is no longer joint custody, he won't be able to recieve money from the govenment.
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Any ideas on what I could buy my boyfriend for his birthday next month?
Q. My bf's birthday is really soon but I have no clue what to get him. Ive never gotten a gift for a boy so some things would help....he likes magic but many people give him stuff and I dont want to follow what everyone else gives him. please help his...
A. 27 May 2007: Guys aren't that picky about birthday presents from girlfriends. Even if you get him something small relating to what he likes, he'll see that you were listening to him when he talked to you. Also, anything that makes him laugh is fun... I don't ... (read in full...)
I am seriously considering breaking my engagement with my fiance
Q. I am seriously considering breaking my engagement with my fiance. For those of you interested there are a few background posts on the OW thread. But the issue right now is that I am fed up with overlooking everything he does. I'm tired of pretend...
A. 27 May 2007: He's controlling and not willing to give you space. I'm going to spare the long route, and just tell you that you should leave him. You deserve better.
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My boyfriend is forcing me to have sex with him and it's scaring me.
Q. I am 19 year old and I have a current partner who's 36. I really like him although he's kinda pushy a little bit sexually. I told him I wasn't realy ready to have sex with him, that I could do oral and other stuff instead but yesterday he really scar...
A. 27 May 2007: If he doesn't stop the first time you say no, it is RAPE. Don't go back to him. He's not pushy, he's psycho, and you need to go do a rape kit with the police. He can be caught for DNA evidence and noticable bruising. Get as far away from him as you ... (read in full...)
My friend has just got married but says she can't ever imagine having sex with her husband.
Q. hi there i need some advice its not for me its for a friend of mine. see she just recently got married and she says that she loves this guy but she just cant bring herself to have sex with him they've never had sex. she said she thinks its cause ...
A. 27 May 2007: She should not married to him. The longer they stay together, the more damage she's going to do to his heart and his pride. Tell her to get a divorce immediately. Part of being in a relationship is satisfying your partner's needs. He doesn't deserve ... (read in full...)
My dad and uncle have raped me! I'd be better off dead..........
Q. im in a despreate postion my uncle and dad are not good people they rape and beat me they are drunk all day long please dont laugh this is my last hope to talk to anyone im 15 now and was 12 the first time i slept in the woods alone so i did...
A. 27 May 2007: Rape is a horrible thing. You must go to the policemen. The longer you wait, the less DNA evidence there will be to prove it. Go to the police immediately. Then seek counseling, and find a family member or friend that you can stay with.
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How do I hint to my ex's dad that I'm not interested?
Q. I am abit worried my ex's Dad fancies me and I am not sure what to do. My ex and I split nearly 6 months ago and contact with him has petered out; my ex wanted to stay in contact but I didn't since I don't think he treated me at all well. Anyway, ...
A. 27 May 2007: It may be nothing. He may just be venting. If he makes any advances, let him know that you aren't interested in that way. Scream it if you have to.
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Tip needed..on how to cope with razor burn!
Q. I like to maintain my pubic hairs, but when I shave I always get razor burn. Any suggestions?...
A. 27 May 2007: You can't use the same razor over and over again. You need to change razors. I recommend disposables for down below. I also recommend a gel as opposed to foam gel, because it makes for a smoother, more comfortable shave, minus the razor burn.
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Should girls ask guys out on a date?
Q. Is it all right for a girl to ask a guy out, or is it only supposed to be the guys who do the asking?...
A. 27 May 2007: It saves a heap of trouble and discomfort when a girl asks a guy out. That way it's on the girl's terms, and she can't complain that a guy is bothering her or wasting her time.
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I feel used! Had sex with me but wants to date other females! what's wrong with me?
Q. i have slept with one of my mates from uni four times and have fallen for him. i thought he liked me because all the signs were there but he kissed someone infront of me the other night and keeps saying things like "i could shag her" (about other ...
A. 27 May 2007: Nothing is wrong with you. He's not sure what he wants. Someone with that type of personality can't handle a relationship, and you need to distance yourself from him.
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Jealousy, physical fights...will he ever change?
Q. I,ve recently split with my partner again for the 4th time. I gave up my job and friends 4 him he promised he change, we've had loads of physical fights cause of his jealousy now he's promising yet again he change. I've heared it all b4 but this ...
A. 27 May 2007: I think that he's full of empty promises. You can't force someone to be something that they're not prepared to be. Find someone who fits what you're looking for.
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A confusing love triangle! What's a girl to do?
Q. hi everyone i like this boy in my class but his best friend likes me it is a bit of a love triangle but i dont like his best friend but now his best friend does not like me no more and i have no idea why and he doesnt know i like his best friend how ...
A. 27 May 2007: If you like a boy, be with who you want to be with. Just because someone likes you, doesn't mean that you have to be with them.
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I am literally crazy about her--how do I let her know how I feel?
Q. ok i'm kinda stuck. lets put you in the situation. if you really really really liked a girl and you would try and talk to her so much because it makes you happy. your dream is to go out with her but you cannot because it's not as easy! this girl i s...
A. 27 May 2007: The best thing that you can do is give her space and move on. There are other fish in the sea...
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My gf seems to hate it whenever her family talks to me! This is so bizarre..why does she do this?
Q. Whenever I am around at my girlfriends her parents and brothers try and speak to me. Whenever one of them attempts to speak to me, my girlfriend tells them to go away or tells them that 'I don't want to talk to them' for no apparant reason! When...
A. 27 May 2007: When a girl has a problem with her parents, she generally expects you to back her on that, and have a problem with them, too. At the same time, be respectful to her parents. You also need to let her know that only you speak on behalf of you, and ... (read in full...)
He flirted and texted girls who disliked me...just for an ego boost! How do I ever trust him again?
Q. Hi I really appreciate any advice. i found out a few months ago that my boyfriend had been talking to girls from early on in our relationship. he had even arranged to have sex but had changed his mind. I found some of these texts and confronted him. ...
A. 27 May 2007: He's lying. If he needs another ego boost, he'll repeat himself.
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I really like her...how do I get an invite to her birthday?
Q. there's this girl who i fancy. she's my friend. the problem is she doesnt know. it's her birthday in a few days. i want to be invited. if i'm not invited i just wont be able to take it. i know this may sound stupid and weak but it will kill me ...
A. 27 May 2007: If she doesn't, it's not the end of the world. There are always other chances to sit down and talk. Remember, this birthday party is about her, not you. Everything will work out.
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My bf was on the phone with a friend for 3 hours and I'm worried! Will he dump me for her?
Q. this is a bit of a boy question but i really want some one to help me. i am going out with a boy. lets say he is called andy. and i have a best m8 lest say she is called jen. i have been going out with andy for about 4 months now but i am worried...
A. 27 May 2007: Have faith. Don't believe everything that you hear from people, whether they are your friend or otherwise. Unless he starts acting oddly or says something that worries you, don't worry about it.
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I have a feeling if I ask her out, she'll make up an excuse! What should I do?
Q. i want to ask this girl out to somewhere such as to the cinema. she's my friend and we talk often at school, she's a great friend as she listens to my problems. but we never actually meet outside of school, we've gone out twice when we all went wit...
A. 27 May 2007: Talk to her a handful of times. If you guys hit it off, ask her out to coffee. If she gives you an excuse, let it roll off of your back.
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He goes to uni in 3 months! Should we break up and should I just move on?
Q. Me and a boy went out 2 years ago, and became very serious, but called it off because my mum wasn't well and I needed time away from everything. He totally understood, but we lost contact soon afterwards, because I was so down and depressed. ...
A. 27 May 2007: If he really loves you, he'll keep dating you through college. Be willing to see him whenever he's got free time.
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I have a hard time confiding in others. When I do-I feel that my trust always being violated.What can I do?
Q. I have a bad past and need to talk to someone but I have no one to talk to. My "friends" all have bfs/ gfs and when I try to talk to them alone they just say " I dunno what to say, sorry" then run back to their partners as if we hadn't spoken a...
A. 27 May 2007: Until you're 18, a counselor is always going to run to your parents. You can't really trust a counselor unless you're paying for their time. If you can somehow afford it, you could go that route, and they live under a confidentiality clause. You ... (read in full...)
My Nan is living with us and it's creating a lot of family problems! Any advice?
Q. My nan has moved in with my mum and dad. They already have 6 People in a 3 bedroom house and my nan is now staying. This wast a problem at first, but now i feel i cant have a life. if i go out with my friends she wants me home before everyone else ...
A. 27 May 2007: She's not your parent. If she doesn't want to stay at home alone, that's her choice. Tell her to go out and do something. If she starts to complain, who cares? Go out and have your own life. You shouldn't have to be cursed to miss out on life ... (read in full...)
Husband is unable to perform sexually, due to drinking! What can I do?
Q. My Husband can no longer perform sex from drinking to much, and im very sexual woman, what in the dam can i do when he is my husband and i need good sex and affection, please help me please with some wisdom.......
A. 27 May 2007: Tell him that you have needs, and that it's either he quits drinking and satisfies him, or you leave.
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Help..I'm pregnant. What can I do?
Q. ok so i've asked alot of ? about me and my bf about french kissing, sex, etc. but i didn't listen to anybody cuz I'M PREGNANT!!! i ain't told my mom cuz she'll litterally kill me well when i went to wal-mart i found and took a pregnant test thing, ...
A. 27 May 2007: I'm pretty much shocked. You're still a baby, and you're having a baby. You shouldn't have been having sex for many years to come. You need to tell your parents ASAP.
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