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... Send *V1 a private message | | | *V1's profile:Hi! My name is Devin, but my friends call me DV1. I currently live in Pennsylvania, USA. I'm currently in a serious relationship, and I've found that special someone... I've been in and out of relationships for many years. I've been lied to, cheated on, and lost friendships over relationships. I've found that I've taken many lessons from my experiences, and I want to use those experiences to help others. I'm just your average, run-of-the-mill guy, who sees himself as a hopeless romantic of sorts. I'm just lucky that I've found that special someone who doesn't get involved in drama, and just wants me for me. I want to help others find someone, or stay with someone who makes them feel appreciated. If I can cause at least one person on this planet to find or hold onto happiness, then my job here is done.
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Help..I'm pregnant. What can I do?
Q. ok so i've asked alot of ? about me and my bf about french kissing, sex, etc. but i didn't listen to anybody cuz I'M PREGNANT!!! i ain't told my mom cuz she'll litterally kill me well when i went to wal-mart i found and took a pregnant test thing, ...
A. 3 June 2007: It depends on if your body can handle the pregnancy. Ask a doctor.
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Help..I'm pregnant. What can I do?
Q. ok so i've asked alot of ? about me and my bf about french kissing, sex, etc. but i didn't listen to anybody cuz I'M PREGNANT!!! i ain't told my mom cuz she'll litterally kill me well when i went to wal-mart i found and took a pregnant test thing, ...
A. 27 May 2007: I'm pretty much shocked. You're still a baby, and you're having a baby. You shouldn't have been having sex for many years to come. You need to tell your parents ASAP.
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Now that he finally likes me back..I'm not sure if I like him anymore! any advice?
Q. i love this guy more than life, i even did a spell to keep him when i lost him to my best friend. i no right pathetic! but it seems to have worked now this guy really likes me and is asking me back out. But now im not sure if i still love him! ...
A. 27 May 2007: You need to figure out how you feel before you take any action. If you're not sure that you're ready to be in a relationship with him, tell him that you need time before you can give him an answer. Tell him in the meantime, if something better comes ... (read in full...)
He's mean to me and he calls me names! I like him though-does he like me?
Q. i dont know how to get this relli nice guy?? theres this guy i realli like but i dunt no if hes interested in me....sometimes i catch him looking at me but i cant reli tell if he does or not??....he can be really mean to me and callz mi names b...
A. 27 May 2007: If he's that mean to you, then probably not. He also might be just trying to get your attention. Don't bother with him unless he keeps going out of his way.
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Can a friendship turn into a relationship?
Q. attraction does it mean that it could be a friendship and it could turn in to a relaationship. i have alot of attraction for a police officer....
A. 27 May 2007: A lot of the most beautiful relationships are the one ones where you're with your best friend. They know all of the little things that are important.
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We broke up! And I am thinking terrible thoughts about what she's doing now. How do I cope?
Q. Hi, I am in need of some relationship advice!! I broke up from my girlfriend approximately 1 and a half months ago. My relationship with her lasted just short of two years, which for both of us was the longest time we had committed to anyone ...
A. 27 May 2007: When you give someone two years of your life, it's normal to feel this way. Just because you break up with someone doesn't mean that a part of you doesn't love them. It sounds like you're still in love with her, and that you never really got to say ... (read in full...)
My ex is seeing someone else! Why do I feel so gutted?
Q. I split up with my lover a while back because we had issues that couldn't be resolved,we were together 3 years and it was me who decided to end it.Anyway i found out that he has been seeing someone else and for some reason i felt gutted and very ...
A. 27 May 2007: Even though you break up with someone due to issues, it doesn't mean that you have stopped loving them. A part of you probably remembers the good times, and may also be in shock because he has moved on, and you haven't.
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I'm 14, pregnant, beaten and kicked out of home by my mom!
Q. hey, i have a real problem.. im just 14 and i was with this guy for a year then i found out i was pregnant and after 3weeks i told him, he dumped me and said he hated me, 2months later i told my parents, my mom kicked me out so i live with my dad ...
A. 26 May 2007: Ask a judge for a court order to allow you to record phone conversations. Prove that he's harrassing you over the phone, then sue the pants off of him. Go to a doctor immediately after he hits you, and he should have left something like sweat, which ... (read in full...)
It bugs me that people say, couples should not look at each other's emails! Isn't that th choice of the couple involved?
Q. You know, it really really bugs me when I see people responding saying it wasn't a gf's or a wife's place to look through her bf's or husband's email or vice-versa. Maybe some people have an understanding and are okay with things like that. I have ...
A. 26 May 2007: I personally think that when I have a girlfriend, her online business is her online business, and mine is mine. I don't want anyone but ME looking at my e-mail. Suppose a girlfriend I have knows my password, and is sending hate mail to my friends? ... (read in full...)
I am finally happy after a cheating ex bf and 2 abortions! Now I find out the ex is having regrets? I am confused..help??
Q. I'm a 25 yr old girl in a relationship with a boy almost 4 yrs younger. While this relationship is working out well, the one before this was terrible. The guy I had known since forever (since I was 10 actually) but he kept cheating on me and we kept ...
A. 26 May 2007: You shouldn't be. He mistreated you, and there's no reason why you should even be bothering with him. If he cheated on you, and caused you to have two abortions, you shouldn't be talking to him AT ALL. You're happy, and if you continue keeping in ... (read in full...)
She's cheated on me and I know... but she doesn't know I know - what should I do?
Q. My partner has cheated on me at least once, she doesn't yet know I know. What should i do, i love her to bits, but she continues to lie to me. We have a son, he is almost two, i cant see him hurt by this, but i can hardly stand to look at her....
A. 26 May 2007: You should tell her what you know. If she cheated on you, she doesn't respect you. It is grounds for divorce. What's important is that you settle a custody agreement ahead of time, so that you can both still be in your child's life. I think that you ... (read in full...)
My gf doesn't pay much attention to me anymore! What should I do?
Q. I feel so sad lately. Me and my girlfriend both still live with our parents, so we only see each other like every other weekend. She says she loves me and I love her too. But she doesn't french me anymore, and everytime she comes over she just ...
A. 26 May 2007: I think that she's using your computer to talk to someone else. You need to express your concerns to her, and most likely will have to break up with her. It seems like she's falling out of love with you, and you deserve to have someone who's willing ... (read in full...)
My gf doesn't pay much attention to me anymore! What should I do?
Q. I feel so sad lately. Me and my girlfriend both still live with our parents, so we only see each other like every other weekend. She says she loves me and I love her too. But she doesn't french me anymore, and everytime she comes over she just ...
A. 26 May 2007: I think that she's using your computer to talk to someone else. You need to express your concerns to her, and most likely will have to break up with her. It seems like she's falling out of love with you, and you deserve to have someone who's willing ... (read in full...)
My gf doesn't pay much attention to me anymore! What should I do?
Q. I feel so sad lately. Me and my girlfriend both still live with our parents, so we only see each other like every other weekend. She says she loves me and I love her too. But she doesn't french me anymore, and everytime she comes over she just ...
A. 26 May 2007: I think that she's using your computer to talk to someone else. You need to express your concerns to her, and most likely will have to break up with her. It seems like she's falling out of love with you, and you deserve to have someone who's willing ... (read in full...)
I'm good looking (people say) but look young for my age!
Q. What is the best way to start chatting to a girl in a club? I would class myself as a nice guy, i get loadsa compliments saying im good looking, but i think my downfall is i look young for my age. I'm 19, but probably only look 16, and this kno...
A. 26 May 2007: The worst they can do is say no. Sometimes, they'll get cocky, but just laugh it off, and realize that they're a girl from a bar, and no better than anyone else.
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Scared to break it off... I know she loves me but she never, ever shows it!
Q. I am with my first girlfriend ever in my life. I am 20 and she is 18. Every other weekend we see each other, (because we don't drive), she doesn't french me anymore, and we don't even make out anymore. She spends most of her time on my computer ...
A. 26 May 2007: It sounds like she's using you to talk to someone else on your computer. Break it off.
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How long do I wait until I tell him I've made up my mind, and want to break it off?
Q. I recently told my bf of almost 9yrs I wanted to separated for a while. We started dating when I was 16, and I feel I have changed. He wants to marry and I don't. I told him that and I needed time to figure out what I want. He said it breaks his ...
A. 26 May 2007: Tell him that you care for him, but that you don't love him enough to be his partner.
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My partner of 6 years looks at a lot of online pornography... can't help but feel degraded by it
Q. I have been with my partner for 6 years, and in most aspects of our relationship we are a normal happy couple. However, I know he looks at a lot of online pornography. I am quite open to this, and feel quite happy looking with him sometimes and ...
A. 26 May 2007: If you were satisfying him, he wouldn't need to look at porn. The only time I've seen someone in a relationship look at porn is when they were doing it together, looking for more ways to please each other. I don't think that you should be with him. ... (read in full...)
Breaking up with my boyfriend will probably cause me to fail the exams. What shall I do?
Q. I've been really hurt. I had to split up with my first proper boyfriend 2 days ago. We were together for a year and had all our 'firsts' together. During the last month of our relationship, he had started be really rude to me, saying stuff like 'I'm ...
A. 26 May 2007: I know it seems important, but you need to concentrate on your future at the moment. Boyfriends come and go, but exams are a lasting impression on success.
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I get aroused whenever I get involved... how can I stop it?
Q. I don't know about most other young teen guys(I'm 16), but every time i get intimately involved with a girl, or just very close to her physically, i get somewhat aroused. What can i do to prevent this from "ruining" the moment? ...
A. 26 May 2007: I'm 22 and I still have a bit of that problem. It's natural. It's pharamones from the girl that do it to us. It's chemicals that we can't really control. Just try to think of something else, and hopefully, you'll gain a little composure.
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I think I fancy by bf's brother - I dream about him all the time! My bf says it's bc I'm stressed. Then why do I like it?
Q. I think i fancy my boyfriends brother. I have been with my boyfreind almost 2 and a half years and up til about 6 months ago i was sure i was in love. Ive been getting dreams for the last few months about my boyfriends brother at least 3 times a ...
A. 26 May 2007: There's a difference between attraction, and love. You like your bf's brother's body. That's it. You can be in love and attracted to multiple people. Think of a guy watching porn. It happens. It doesn't mean that you love your boyfriend any less. As ... (read in full...)
Found a small painful lump on my armpit. What could it be?
Q. hi ive recently been having a pain under my arm that started like 2 days ago and ive just found a lump in my armpit. its small but painful if i press it. what could this be? i cant get a doctors appointment before i go on holiday in 2 days time and ...
A. 26 May 2007: It could be a growth. Wait the two days, and check it out. Don't think about it until then.
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When a guy you know says he won't kiss you because you are drunk, what does that mean?
Q. Hi, i'm a bit confused. I know there are lots of guys who will gladly kiss a girl when she's drunk becuase i suppose it's easier for them to be taken advantage of and all that... however, when a guy you know says he won't kiss you because you are ...
A. 26 May 2007: It definitely means that he's trying NOT to take advantage of you. If this guy is a guy that you like or love, kiss him when you're ready. He definitely deserves a thank you and a hug for respecting you.
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Should I tell her I like her now or later? I don't want to fall into the "friend" category!
Q. Im an 18 yr old guy. I've been single for about a month and a bit and I'm totally over my ex. At this party, I met an attractive girl who was positive and seemed to be interested in talking. I got her number and sent a few messages but nothi...
A. 26 May 2007: Ask her if she'd like to go out on a date. Something simple, like coffee, but make sure that you mention the word date. Be sure to be calm when asking...
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He found a new gf after first giving me an STI ...so why can't I get over him after all this?
Q. Hiya everyone ive got a really embarrasing problem but the thing is it hurts too n just wanted some help plz!! well the thing is i was seeing this lad 4 bout 3 months n we got on really well. we both liked the same music n had a really gud laugh but ...
A. 26 May 2007: Forget him, and move on.
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I really think she is interested in my husband! What's my next move?
Q. I am struggling with this girl, who lives on the same street as we do (my husband and I) and since there jas been a no smoking ban in public bars and restaurants, we hang out at home. I am usually inside but since it has been considerably warm in ...
A. 26 May 2007: She may be crazy and have nobody to talk to. Don't even bring that into your house. You might want to call DCF or whatever child protective services there are, and let them know that the child's mother is doing cocaine. You should talk to her ... (read in full...)
He stole naked pics of this other guy's wife...off their computer! Is this really creepy or what?
Q. I need advice. My husband and I have always had a strong loving, trusting relationship. We have been married 4 years and we a have a wonderful two year old daughter. We are both highly successful working professionals. We have very close friends ...
A. 26 May 2007: I think that he's definitely lusting after her. You need to address this. If he left it up, no trust issues are being broken, so you need to make him face it.
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How long do I wait until I tell him I've made up my mind, and want to break it off?
Q. I recently told my bf of almost 9yrs I wanted to separated for a while. We started dating when I was 16, and I feel I have changed. He wants to marry and I don't. I told him that and I needed time to figure out what I want. He said it breaks his ...
A. 26 May 2007: You don't wait. Tell him A.S.A.P. The longer you wait, the more damage you're going to do to him. Tell him that he needs to find someone that's going to make him happy, but it can't be you.
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He said he had a bad day and cancelled our plans - now it's been three days and he still hasn't called! What should I do?
Q. hi, can anybody offer me some advice please! i started seeing a guy 2 weeks ago and he paid me quite abit of attention for say the first 10 days, taking me out for something to eat at night and a quick drink and things like that. then a couple of ...
A. 26 May 2007: Give it a week or two, and see if you hear anything. If you don't, move on, and don't think twice about it.
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I think this policeman I like knows how I feel. What do I do next time I see him?
Q. i really like a cop and the other day my daughter and career day at school she only 11 years old ,te cop that i like his partner was there at the school and my daughter talked to the cop and told him to tell the cop i like hi for us. i was ...
A. 26 May 2007: Go up to him and say hi if you run into him. Bring up the career day as a conversation starter, and try to find out what you can about him. Get a business card, put your number on it, and if he calls you back by the afternoon of the third day, ... (read in full...)
Is this legal?
Q. I seperated from my Internet lover after 7 years because he told me that he has 2 Korean wives of which he married in Korea then brought them back to uk to live, Is this legal?...
A. 26 May 2007: It probably is in Korea. It probably isn't recognized in the U.K.
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I want to be there for my father bc he has cancer, but my mum and son are making life so hard! What can I do?
Q. I live at home with my elderly parents and my 3 children. My 25yr old son is an alcholic, my 18yr old is well adjusted, but this gets the family down. It will obviously affect my 10yr old daughter. My dad has cancer he hasn't told mum. My mum tak...
A. 26 May 2007: People are going to make the choices that they are going to make, and unfortunately, you can't force them to change. What you can change is how you react to it. If you don't like the situation, you can choose to leave. This could possibly serve as a ... (read in full...)
Gf told me to go find a 'sex' partner! Does she not love me and is she looking for an easier way out?
Q. I live with my gf. going out for 5yrs. No sex for 2yrs since we started living 2gether. have been to therapist. no help. she says it hurts-(physically). im 25 and cant take it anymore. too embarased to admit it to any1. A guy my age should be having ...
A. 26 May 2007: Part of any relationship is satisfying a partner's needs. If she can't do that, and isn't willing to find a way to, then you need to leave. If she's telling you to be unfaithful to her and have a sex partner, she may not respect the possibility that ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with the hormonal and family pressures to get married and have kids?
Q. I am thirty years old how and completed my Masters of architecture degree last year at 29. I have always been unsure about having children because i am not sure i can be a good mother. Now at 30 i am experiencing so many hormonal changes and the ...
A. 26 May 2007: If you want to find love, why not find someone in your field. I'm sure that there's one or two possibilities among one of your classes. See if you can strike up a conversation with someone who shares your interests, and take baby steps. Do it ... (read in full...)
How can I build more confidence to talk new people especially boys?
Q. hello im a 15 year old girl i live in the uk, and i have very low self confidence and i am very shy. So because of these factors i can't talk to boys, over the net like msn i am fine but when it comes face to face i reali struggle with it. It never ...
A. 26 May 2007: Guys are easier to talk to than girls most of the time. We're more comfortable, so if you introduce yourself, you'll find that it's quite easy to make conversation. Just smile and be yourself, and you'll be fine. You'll find that guys prefer shy ... (read in full...)
I have a bf and 2 kids but love a married 50 year old man. How do I convince him to leave his wife for me?
Q. I am 22 with a boyfriend who i dont love but we stay together for our 2 children, for 6 months i have sseing a married guy who i am desperatly in love with, he is 50. his wife has recently caught us so our relationship is now over and i feel so is ...
A. 26 May 2007: I agree with everyone here. You're willing to throw it all away for him. He has a life of his own, and you need to stop being selfish.
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Met up with an old flame for lunch and he ws nervous! What was going on with him?
Q. Hi, I'm a 29 year old woman, been married almost 8years with a 4year old son, fairly happily married. Recently i bumped into an old flame from high school(first love) haven't seen each or had any contact for 14years. We exchanged numbers and met ...
A. 26 May 2007: I agree with everyone here. I think that you need to distance yourself from him. He might be getting the wrong idea. It's disrespectful to your husband as well. Are you prepared to say goodbye to everything, because that's what's going to happen if ... (read in full...)
I am suspicious of other people and their motives when they want to get close. How do I deal with this?
Q. I find any act that is aimed to come close to me physically as being something that is a hostile move from a human being to hurt me, disturb me or harm me in some way. It is rarely a move that is aimed at showing affection / respect / love or ...
A. 26 May 2007: Make a choice. Do you want to be shut out the rest of your life, or do you want to be happy. Come out of your shell. You'll find that things are better when you let people know you.
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Neighbor is wanting to call the police as his kid looked in our window, and saw us having sex! I think you should be able to do what you want in your own home! Any views?
Q. My neighbour has threatened to call the police as his 11 year old son saw my partner and I having sex in our living room. he also says it is illegal to walk around naked. The boy must have been in our back garden looking in the window so surley h...
A. 26 May 2007: Your neighbor can't call the cops on you. If anything, they could get in trouble for spying into your house. Just try and shut the curtains out of respect.
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My gf's past much-older lover used her! It bother me, knowing that. How do Iet this go?
Q. After seeing each other for a week, I asked my girlfriend to tell me everything about her past, as did I. Turns out we were both molested as children, and felt out of place growing up. Then she told me about her sexual partners. Her first was 37, ...
A. 26 May 2007: Her past is her business, and you need to let it go. You're making her relive bad memories instead of moving on, and she doesn't deserve that. Just concentrate on the here and now, and a bright future together.
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Need advice for bristley pubes! Any tips?
Q. hi, A couple of months ago I shaved my pubes (I know stupid idea!) and now they have grown back horrible and stubbley. My boyfriend wants to touch me down there but im so embarrassed about my briskly pubes. Does anyone know how i can solv...
A. 26 May 2007: Shaving isn't a bad idea at all. I do it daily. You're showing good hygeine. If you did it once, just keep up on it. Without all of the hair covering you up, your boyfriend will want to touch and taste you more.
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If he stares at you does that mean there could be 'love there"?
Q. When a men stares at you and you look at him that mean there could be love there. when a men says hi two you everytime he sees you does it mean the like you....
A. 26 May 2007: If he goes out of his way to say it, in a kind manner, then yes. If he just walks by and stares, he's having bad thoughts about you. I say hi to this girl at a fruit stand every morning... I'm slowly falling for her...
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