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writes:Hi, I just wondered if you guys could help. I'm 22 and I have always found it hard to be friends with guys. If I get to know a guy then I can't be just mates with him, I'm always looking for it to be something more and if they don't find me attractive I feel like I'm doing soemthing wrong. What can I do to change my ways because this is really hindering me at work because I can't seem to get along with guys there just as friends. Now they think I'm unsociable - which I seem to be towards them.I think a lot of it is down to the fact that even when guys like me I will flirt with them until they ask me out and then just brush them off - I don't mean to do this but I find that this is what always seems to happen. Even when I'm dating someone I'm always flirting with other guys -this is what my mates say. So I just don't know where to set limits when it comes to men. What should I do to change this so I treat guys better?
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reader, candy00s +, writes (27 May 2007):
 I myself find it harder being friends with a guy opposed to a girl.
Some people say a guy and a girl cant be friends cos the other will always want more.
You need to stop looking at men as possible love interests and take the time to be friends with them.
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reader, DV1  +, writes (27 May 2007):
 It seems like you have a large ego that needs to be satisfied, and you always need new faces to satisfied. It's a blatant need for attention. The only way you're going to get over it is to humble yourself, grow up, and realize that one person can satisfy you. Guys probably don't think you're unsociable, but they probably think that you've probably been around the block with all of the local guys already, hence being turned off by you. A big key in relationships is friendship.
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