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Does the truth come out when you're drunk?

Q.   does the truth come out when ur drunk? I always feel like when i have had a few drinks i always say exactly how i feel, its like u have the confidence to say it. A guy that i know well always tells me her really likes me when he is deunk. he alway...

A.   11 June 2007: the guy is under the influence of alcohol girl wake up. you should get a guy drinking cofee instead.... (read in full...)

I can't figure out if he likes me as just a friend or he wants more! What do you think?

Q.   hi, i really like this guy but i can't work out if he likes me back!! I've known him for 5 years but i never really talked to him, i first really noticed i liked him last october when he started going out with one of my mates, which meant he start...

A.   11 June 2007: just wait for the guy to come to you and dont worry youre still young you have a career to focus on study hard you will not know who is your mr. rightis. someday youll realize .... (read in full...)

In love with my son's head of year!

Q.   I am deeply in love with my sons head of year. about a year ago my son started secondary school and got a new head of yr i fell for him straight away i have been unhappy in my 16 yr realationship for about 2 years he is lazy and often quite nasty bu...

A.   11 June 2007: pray for it who knows GOd listens.Trust me i know ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is pregnant but the little slip of paper I found makes me worry she's cheating!

Q.   My girlfriend and I have recently found out that we are expecting a baby. She is excited as well am I. While she was at her parents house, which is 45 mins away from where we live, I was going to read her baby books to learn some things. While ...

A.   11 June 2007: honesty is one key element of a strong relationship.if shes not honest with you means she doesnt love you.In this world of ours it is hard to find a true love. A love will never break your heart unless your the romeo in shakespheres tragedy. or Mr. ... (read in full...)

I love my fiance, but I cannot be monogamous!

Q.   Am I a terrible person? I feel crazy. Crazy woman is an oxy moron, isn't it? I am engaged and set to be married in 5 weeks. I love my fiance, but I cannot be monogamous. I want to feel terrible but I don't. Everyone is telling me not t...

A.   11 June 2007: girl im gonna share what happend to me. I have a boyfriend before he was a nurse in the US. Suppose were going to get married next thing happend i fell inlove to a police officer who dump me in the trash when my fiancee found out he married other ... (read in full...)

She's an online gf..is it possible to be in love with her as we have never even met??

Q.   Heya guys, I love this gal but have neva met her. i chat to her on the fone and stuff but i have no idea of what she is like in real life so i guess my question is can i be in love with some1 i have never met ? Is it possible ? I'll be very grat...

A.   11 June 2007: Yea it is possible love moves in mysterious ways... (read in full...)

I had sex with two guys - now I don't know which is the father! Which could it be??

Q.   I had sex with two different guys within days of each other, how likely is it that the most recent person is the father of my child. My due date is 13.6.7 and i had sex with him on the 20.9.6, but i cant remember the date my last period was, someone ...

A.   7 June 2007: Only solution if you can afford DNA sampling.... (read in full...)

His parents think I am using him to get an american citizenship! But I'm not...what should I do?

Q.   I met my american boyfriend on his holiday while Im working in the UK, Im a filipina. He is visiting his uncle in the nursing home. I'm working and since then we had a long distant love affair. His parents is doubtful of me believing Im after his ...

A.   7 June 2007: Mam i was also in your shoes. Im a filipina i have a US boyfriend well lets say it if he does love you he will fight for you.... (read in full...)

his phone called mine while he was getting the dance and I got to hear the stripper saying do you like that baby.

Q.   My boyfriend went to a bachelor party and before he left I told him that I did not like the idea of strip clubs and he seemed to respond well to this however, once he was there "his friend" bought him a dance. Unfortunately his phone called mine ...

A.   7 June 2007: it is very rare to see a man hates strip clubs.... (read in full...)

I love my mistress but I love my wife and kids, too! What should I do?

Q.   Hi im 36 yrs old male and i have been married for 17 years.I have also been cheating on my wife for 6 years with a wonderful women aged 26 we have a great relationship and i love her like mad. Trouble is i love my wife as well.I dont know which way ...

A.   6 June 2007: You know i have lots of friends is in your shoes i advice them to love thier family why. because i was a product of divorce you how much i hate my dad.Same as you are when your family found out your life maybe miserable.Sacrifice for the sake of the ... (read in full...)

He wants sex but I'm having 2nd thoughts. What should I do?

Q.   I am 15. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months. We have done pretty much everything, except sex. He wants me to, and I think I do too but Im still not positive and Im having second thoughts. I keep thinking of things that can happen, like ...

A.   6 June 2007: My advice to you give your virginity after youve get married.Look at me I lost i thought it is alright but i suffered the consiquences now no body respect me.It is just puppy love dont be too hurry you should finish your studies go , to college, get ... (read in full...)

I get a discharge after being fingered....

Q.   Almost everytime my boyfriend fingers me there's a brownish discharge. The first time it happened we just assumed he broke my hymen because we just saw a little blood, but then I noticed the unsual discharge whenever I'd use the restroom. There was ...

A.   6 June 2007: girl before you allow your sweetheart to fingered you tell him to wash his fingers.if it is your first time it must be your hymen, but maybe your period.spotting what they call it. Infection is also considered when it bleeds so i advice you to ask ... (read in full...)

I have many times mistakely seen my sister changing clothes and I can't control my feelings, I want to have sex with my sister what shall I do?

Q.   hi i am a 17 year old guy. I have many times mistakely seen my sister changing clothes and I can't control my feelings, I want to have sex with my sister what shall I do?...

A.   5 June 2007: dont do that she is your sister you must respect her... (read in full...)

My parents are telling me that marriage is burdensome! Now I'm depressed about my upcoming marriage!!

Q.   I am depressed because of my marriage coming near as my parents give me an impression that i am heading towards some kind of burdensome relationship to carry for my entire life as they had been doing it themselves.. I feel too much overwhelmed with ...

A.   5 June 2007: as you i have same parents too my mom usually tells me "when you get married is like all the end of your dreams" I dump my fiancee because of that now iam regreting the rest of my life i dumped the guy which i called the man of my dreams so what i ... (read in full...)

We've been separated from our past partners for years, but how can I tell my parents that we're moving in together?

Q.   im separated for 6yrs. and my bf is separated for 10 yrs. we planned to live together but i dont know how to tell my conservative parents bout this coz we are not annuled.please help. ...

A.   5 June 2007: fight for your love i know here in the Philippines you need big bucks in order for the separation.Unless legal option you both go to the states be an american citizen file a divorce.sight thats why iam so afraid to get married here.... (read in full...)

Would it be wise to get a pregnancy test as I was told that the morning after pill is only 86% effective!

Q.   i guess this is a question for the ladies really although any advice would be good. two weeks ago i had unprotected sex, and 2 weeks before that, im not on the pill or any form of contraception so after the last time i went to the doctors and got ...

A.   5 June 2007: well as you know you really need to get pregnancy test.The results are accurate when it is 3wks the conception of the baby is already develop.you cannot relly on signs because in medicine we call it presumptive face it may or may not.Just dont ... (read in full...)

My mum had a smear test today and she said the pain was unbearable. Now I'm terrified to ever have one!

Q.   Hi, this is for the girls to answer only! My mother has had her smear today - before today she had always said how 'unpainful' it was, there was just a little bit of discomfort and that is all. However, she came back from doctors today and said the...

A.   5 June 2007: I have tried once it really hurts but it very important for females to do it beacause it test whether you have cervical cancer and stds.It for your own good.... (read in full...)

Could you please tell me if my boyfriend hits me once would he do it again?

Q.   Could you please tell me if my boyfriend hits me once would he do it again?...

A.   5 June 2007: yes he will... (read in full...)

My dad and uncle have raped me! I'd be better off dead..........

Q.   im in a despreate postion my uncle and dad are not good people they rape and beat me they are drunk all day long please dont laugh this is my last hope to talk to anyone im 15 now and was 12 the first time i slept in the woods alone so i did...

A.   3 June 2007: report it to the police. They deserve to go to jail.... (read in full...)

Found a small painful lump on my armpit. What could it be?

Q.   hi ive recently been having a pain under my arm that started like 2 days ago and ive just found a lump in my armpit. its small but painful if i press it. what could this be? i cant get a doctors appointment before i go on holiday in 2 days time and ...

A.   3 June 2007: better see a doctor ... (read in full...)

I called my bf while I was on holiday and he told me to"f**k off!" Should I go back to him or not?

Q.   I am visitng my family for 3 weeks, and away from my boyfriend of 4 years. I have called him today on his cellphone and he was getting ready to visit his dad at the hospital and was in a hurry. While talking to me, he said that "im bugging his ...

A.   3 June 2007: if he really loves you he will never do that wake up there are plenty of guys there find a mind will respect you,... (read in full...)

Breaking up with my boyfriend will probably cause me to fail the exams. What shall I do?

Q.   I've been really hurt. I had to split up with my first proper boyfriend 2 days ago. We were together for a year and had all our 'firsts' together. During the last month of our relationship, he had started be really rude to me, saying stuff like 'I'm ...

A.   3 June 2007: I too going to take exam in nursing board my friends advice never have boyfriends during studying it will ruined your life trust me there many men out there dont in a hurry. ... (read in full...)

I get aroused whenever I get involved... how can I stop it?

Q.   I don't know about most other young teen guys(I'm 16), but every time i get intimately involved with a girl, or just very close to her physically, i get somewhat aroused. What can i do to prevent this from "ruining" the moment? ...

A.   3 June 2007: it is normal for a guy arouse when she touches a girl. ... (read in full...)

We were both alcoholics and I quit the habit for our child, and now he has too. I feel like an empty shell now and I'm wondering if it's possible for us to live together anymore.

Q.   I have been married for eight years to a man that is an alcoholic. I partied with him daily until we decided to have children (we have two kids, a boy 5 and a girl 4) Our children came fast to us and there wasn't much time to adapt to our new lives ...

A.   3 June 2007: hello confused put God into your life. For Him nothing is impossible... (read in full...)

My wife is terrified about giving birth and I don't know what to do about it.

Q.   Hi me and my wife are due to have a baby girl. Shes 7 months pregnant and has been ok so far but she's been talking about how painful it will be and how scared she is. She wants a natural birth no needdles to take the pain away or anything. She's ...

A.   3 June 2007: Well iam a midwife here in my country it is normal for a woman to get scared. it really does hurt if your baby is Primi ( medicine term for first delivery)woman really screams but after the delivery it will be paid off. When you look a little angel ... (read in full...)

My wife is terrified about giving birth and I don't know what to do about it.

Q.   Hi me and my wife are due to have a baby girl. Shes 7 months pregnant and has been ok so far but she's been talking about how painful it will be and how scared she is. She wants a natural birth no needdles to take the pain away or anything. She's ...

A.   3 June 2007: Well iam a midwife here in my country it is normal for a woman to get scared. it really does hurt if your baby is Primi ( medicine term for first delivery)woman really screams but after the delivery it will be paid off. When you look a little angel ... (read in full...)

I'm asexual - I have no desire to have sex - what woman will be okay with this?

Q.   What woman would date a guy who’s asexual? Hi, I’m a guy who’s 25 years old still a virgin and asexual. For those of you who don’t know what an asexual is, it’s someone who has, never had, or desired the need to have sex. The thing is, althou...

A.   7 May 2007: youre lucky cause its difficult this days to find a man who still a virgin.Just give it to the one you truly love. thats my piece of advice... (read in full...)

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