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writes:i went round to my girlfriends, friends house (she is a girl as well) last night as she left her phone in my apartment. however as i went to knock on the window i saw the 2 of them in a very, very intimate position. they also were half naked. i feel angry and embarrassed because of this. i told her what happened and i didn`t want nothing to do with her. but she said that she was just "exploring" but still loves me. do girls do that sort of thing normally or was i right to break up with her? Reply to this Question
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reader, candy00s +, writes (27 May 2007):
 I know some girls dont see this as cheating - because they see it as its a female not a male sort of thing!
To me if i caught a bf with another bloke id think of it as being unfaithful.
Either talk to her and ask her why she cheated on you and see if you can work things out (if you feel its worth it), or try to forget her and move on.
You deserve to be treated better.
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reader, DV1  +, writes (27 May 2007):
 If she wanted to explore, she shouldn't have done it on your time. She should be doing that when she's single. She deserved to get broken up with. She was unfaithful. Period.
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reader, vixy +, writes (27 May 2007):
some girls do this in relationships, because they think since the person is a girl they can't possibly cheating. I think you two need to talk about this and then after you, your girlfriend and her friend need to talk about it. tell them both how you felt and then ask them what they think a relationship is to them. afterwards decide what to do.
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