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male
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36-40,
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writes:Hey, I've posted a couple of times now, you might recognize part of the story. Basically my gf dumped me last weekend, and in favor of some guy online. Shes meeting him this friday. But the friday thats just been, she started emailing me about coming over saturday for some 'fun'. Which I agreed to, thinking that it might be the start of us fixing things. We had an awesome day, and ended up doing more in that day than we had in any of the previous times in our relationship. We even mentioned doing it again a few days.However as soon as shes back online at her house, talking to this goon on the net, its all back to where it was before. :S Like posting myspace bulletins about how she loves this guy shes never met.Now dont get me wrong, I dont mind a bit of no strings, but I'm her ex, of one week, surely she understands I wont be over her yet and this is gonna hurt me?Do I tell the guy online, in hope of splitting them up? Or do i leave it. Do i take up the offer of doing this again, or not? I feel used. But at the same time, I obviously enjoyed it.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (28 May 2007):
 Oh sweetness...
You are being used. Right now, you're a classified "booty call". There is no need to tell her online guy - that will only cause drama, and he'll figure out that she's trouble on his own time. For the time being, you need to stop picking up her calls and make sure she knows that it's OVER.
It will be hard, but it will be worth it when you find a girl who will treat you like you deserve to be treated.
Good luck, sweetness!
xxIndia
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reader, candy00s +, writes (27 May 2007):
 It sounds as though you will become her F*** buddy as they call it!
She wants you when it suits and to be free to date other guys.
She clearly isnt thinking about your feelings, as most girls would know after breaking up it takes time to get over and move on.
I think you should move on and try to forget about her.
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male
reader, DV1 +, writes (27 May 2007):
 You should leave it. You're just going to be a sex buddy at her disposal if you allow this to continue. You should move on.
DV1
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