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female
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36-40,
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writes:Hi I really appreciate any advice. i found out a few months ago that my boyfriend had been talking to girls from early on in our relationship. he had even arranged to have sex but had changed his mind. I found some of these texts and confronted him. he eventually admitted it but promised he hadn't slept with anyone and it wouldn't happen again. some of the girls he'd been talking to behind my back have always disliked me and he knew they did. He said it was just an ego booster. Now i feel like I can't trust him. Can I believe that this won't happen again?
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reader, candy00s +, writes (27 May 2007):
 you need to talk to him and find out why he needed an ego boost, he was prepared to cheat by the sounds of things so maybe he isnt worthy of your love
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (27 May 2007):
 I wouldn't trust the guy either! I don't think there is much difference between the opportunity to cheat (i.e. having sex) and the intention to cheat (i.e. texting) in his case. Are you sure this guy is worthy of your attentions?
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reader, DV1  +, writes (27 May 2007):
 He's lying. If he needs another ego boost, he'll repeat himself.
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