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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I had no choice but to file a restraining order against my daughter's father. He's so unpredictable as well as his actions. I am tired of his threats, verbal abuse, etc. He just showed up at my place of employment harassing me about our daughter's medical bills he refuse to pay which the judge, thank GOD, ordered him pay for his half of the bills. To make a long story short, he had his hands in his pockets to where it brought back memories of when we use to be together of our arguments we had of where his actions at one point turned into physical abuse. I wasn't going to take it anymore so, I told him, I'm calling the base cops. Then, he decided to leave. Since it was a long weekend, I couldn't file a restraining order off base until Monday because of the holiday weekend. The original Child Custody that we agreed upon in Mediation was Joint Custody which was okay until he continue to threaten me of taking her out of state and mentioned to me about there's nothing I can do about it. I am not going to take that chance no more. He asked me for her personal information as in birth certificate, social security cards, etc but I didn't give it to him because of his threats of taking her out of state and not coming back and of giving copies to him numerous of time because of the court order. Why continue on giving him copies? My daughter has been with me for a month or so, give or take, and I receive Child Support Papers in the mail from the state (he's on welfare). He still receives money for our daughter although she's not with him. Does this states he's cheating the system? Can this so called "man" do this?What I am asking for, is advice, suggestions and/or comments on what I should do. I have court in a few days and I can't wait till it's over.
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reader, DV1 +, writes (27 May 2007):
 If you go to a judge, because there is no longer joint custody, he won't be able to recieve money from the govenment.
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reader, candy00s  +, writes (27 May 2007):
 Im not to sure on where you stand on this but if your daughter is living with you then im pretty sure that you should be recieving the benefits not your ex. You do need the restraining order against him, if not to just protect you but also your child.
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