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My girlfriend and I live far apart and sometimes when I call her she makes jokes that I dont like too much.
Q. My girlfriend and I live far apart and sometimes when I call her she makes jokes that I dont like too much. For example, I called her and said "Hey, what you up to?" and her reply was "I was just thinking about fooling around with my boss". ...
A. 1 June 2007: i know loads of girls who do that, they do it to simply get a reaction out of their boyfriends. i dont think shes trying to hurt or upset you, to be honest i dont even think she will realise its getting to you as much as it does. she will know it ... (read in full...)
I received an annonymous email from somebody saying that my boyfriend was cheating on me!
Q. I received an annonymous email from somebody saying that my boyfriend was cheating on me. I asked him about it but he said that he didn't. He always hangs out with his best friend who is a girl. She borrows his boxers, goes to the movies with him ...
A. 1 June 2007: i think maybe your boyfreind isnt cheating on you, because for what other reason would he tell you he shares a bed with her? (and the other things) if he was hiding something, he wouldent of mencioned how close they are to you as he would of been ... (read in full...)
I want to get a mohawk (im a girl) but im afraid of what people will say.
Q. hi. I want to get a mohawk (im a girl) but im afraid of what people will say. i dont want to be bald all the way on the sides just short kind of. can someone help me find pictures or somthing so i can get an idea of what i want. ...
A. 1 June 2007: yeah i deffinetly think you should go for it, no matter what anyone else thinks or says. individualitys much better than blending in. i think its a great hairstyle.
well the only good pics i got was the one from the girl above.. and this hahah :S... (read in full...)
I told my mom my boyfriend is 12 years older than me, now she's going to tell my stepdad!
Q. im 19 years old and have a bf whos older then me he is 31, ive told my mom as i thought i could tell her, but she keeps saying she is going to tell my step dad but i know he will leave if she does what should i do as i really like this guy and i ...
A. 30 May 2007: maybe your mum is just saying shes going to tell your stepdad to scare you into leaving your older man? if you really think it will cause problems and make him leave why would your mum do that? even though your 19 she will probably still see you as ... (read in full...)
Worried I'm going to lose my erection when it comes to the crunch!
Q. ok. im really scared to lose my virginity. im 16 and have done other things with quite a few girls. in fact ive been naked and doing things with them on many occasions. however im scared of having sex. for some reason i think i will lose my erection ...
A. 30 May 2007: well i think when the time comes to it and your ready to have sex with someone you love and want to commit to, you will feel less neverous if your actually in a loving serious relationship and once your ready the thoughts of loosing your erection ... (read in full...)
I'll do anything for it to be how we once were...
Q. ok so im 8month pregnant, 15, and by boyfriend -hes the dad- keeps forcing me into sex, he sexually abuses me and accuses me of cheating on him and goes everywere with me and if he cant he gets one of his m8s to go with me instead , he beats me up ...
A. 30 May 2007: i know you love him very much and i understand you want to stay with him because of your baby, but staying with him is jepordising both your and your babys life. this boy is very dangerous and he cant care about you as much as he says if hes forcing ... (read in full...)
Should the man have more rights than a woman in a relationship?
Q. is it fair when a guy gives him self more rights than a girl as to be more controlling or to give him self the privlige to do things that he would not allow his girlfriend to do?...
A. 29 May 2007: unfortunatley i dont think you can, but i suppose if he loves you and wants to be with you he should soon come to terms with it. dont let him tell you what to do and i think he will pretty much get the picture. xxx... (read in full...)
Is it right to spend time with the opposite sex when you're with someone else?
Q. Is it right to spend time with the opposite sex when are you in a relationship with someone else?...
A. 29 May 2007: i think it depends, if youve been close to this person of the opposite sex for a while then yes go ahead, no new boyfriend should get invovled and be possesive over you and a good freind. but say if there could be a possibilty of some romance then i ... (read in full...)
Why did he tell the person on his phone he was out with his mates when he was in with me?
Q. Im gay and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 7 months. Last night on the phone he told whoever rang him he was out with work mates and not me. He told me it was his mate who was out bowling. Now I'm wondering why he said that and ...
A. 29 May 2007: oo i hate things like this, well my best advice to give you would be dont let curiosity get the better of you. if you have reason to beleive this man respects you and loves you and you trust him, try not to think about this it will only eat you up ... (read in full...)
This is meant to be a "no strings" relationship but I think he's falling for me.
Q. I have this no strings attached sexual relationship with this guy for over a year. He's the one who said he wasn't ready for a committed relationship, and now we see each other very infrequently, and have sex at his place. I started to fall for him ...
A. 29 May 2007: have you ever actualy thought about your own feelings for this guy? it seems to me that you may both actually have feelings for each other so maybe is it worth talking over and discussing how you really feel? but on the other hand this may jepordise ... (read in full...)
When a guy you know says he won't kiss you because you are drunk, what does that mean?
Q. Hi, i'm a bit confused. I know there are lots of guys who will gladly kiss a girl when she's drunk becuase i suppose it's easier for them to be taken advantage of and all that... however, when a guy you know says he won't kiss you because you are ...
A. 29 May 2007: this means this man has respect for you, whilst alot of men would grab any chance to take advantage and kiss a women. this one didnt. on the other hand if you like this man and asked to kiss him, maybe he held back as he thought you only wanted to ... (read in full...)
Should the man have more rights than a woman in a relationship?
Q. is it fair when a guy gives him self more rights than a girl as to be more controlling or to give him self the privlige to do things that he would not allow his girlfriend to do?...
A. 29 May 2007: no way, this person obviously doesnt have any respect for you. you shouldent let anyone controll you nor let them be the dominant partner in the relationship. i always frown upon the question "who wears the pants?" because nobody should be wearing ... (read in full...)
I don't feel comfortable having sex with my boyfriend because I'm so thin.
Q. Hi, I am 27 and weigh about 40. I am very thin but healthy but I dont feel comfortable when me and my boyfriend have sex.He says he enjoy himself but I cant stop thinking that he is lying. He just dont wanna hurt my feelings....
A. 29 May 2007: If your boyfrend told you he enjoys himself, i doubt he is lying. if he didnt enjoy it he would probably keep quiet about it and not tell you how he finds things at all. try dressing up in some sexy underwear for him, i beleive underwear is the best ... (read in full...)
How can I make my girlfriend feel more confident about herself?
Q. me and my gf have been together for a year and 2months now. We have known each other all our lives and have always been close friends. We started having sex about 7 months now but when we do she will never take her bra off, sometimes she doesnt like ...
A. 28 May 2007: i was the same when i was first with my boyfrend, im really small on top and was always embarrased. ive even once left my jacket on during sex! but once i started feeling more at ease and comftable, with him keep reasuring me how highly he thought i ... (read in full...)
His gift is too big for me, what can I do???
Q. My boyfriend just bought me a beautiful Gucci belt to go with a bag i recently bought... the only problem is that it's too big for me !! He doesn't have as much money s i do so i know he must have had to save for it. I don't want to hurt him by ...
A. 28 May 2007: i have the perfect answer... i do it every time. simply put the belt on to where it fits and then put the prong on a fork through the belt so you can fasten it. make sure you do it on the opposite side to which it fastens so it doesnt look too raggy ... (read in full...)
I'm so nervous about asking him out, any tips?
Q. Hello. I am 16 years old and I am female. I was hoping somebody here could offer me some advice. I have known a male friend for over 6 years now, and I want to ask him out. He asked me out when we were 13, but I didn't feel ready for a relatio...
A. 28 May 2007: i deffinetly think you should ask the guy out. dont let the fact you dont see him very much complicate things, if you start seeing him then things will work out and you will be able to spend alot more time together. tell him how you feel and as hes ... (read in full...)
I called my bf while I was on holiday and he told me to"f**k off!" Should I go back to him or not?
Q. I am visitng my family for 3 weeks, and away from my boyfriend of 4 years. I have called him today on his cellphone and he was getting ready to visit his dad at the hospital and was in a hurry. While talking to me, he said that "im bugging his ...
A. 28 May 2007: well, seen as though youve been with your boyfrend for 4 year, i dont think you should through the relationship away over something like this, you havent stated what you and your boyfrend were talking about when he told you to f off. if you were ... (read in full...)
This is a question for the girls only!
Q. GIRLS ONLY-NO GUYS READ THIS PLEZ!! OK is it normal for a girl my age to have a bushy/hairy pussy and bigger boobs then girls older then me. my bf told me that if his _____ gets bushy er whatever then hes somehow ganna sh...
A. 28 May 2007: your lucky to be as developed as you are as some girls are very undeveloped at a much older age than you. i cant help thinking though that at the 10 - 12 age group you might be slightly too young for you and your boyfrend to be getting up to ... (read in full...)
My gf's past much-older lover used her! It bother me, knowing that. How do Iet this go?
Q. After seeing each other for a week, I asked my girlfriend to tell me everything about her past, as did I. Turns out we were both molested as children, and felt out of place growing up. Then she told me about her sexual partners. Her first was 37, ...
A. 28 May 2007: i think your girlfrend is lucky to have such a loving caring boyfriend like you.i think its lovely you care that much about her and feel for what happend to her in the past, but on the other hand like it is and always will be the past. your ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is forcing me to have sex with him and it's scaring me.
Q. I am 19 year old and I have a current partner who's 36. I really like him although he's kinda pushy a little bit sexually. I told him I wasn't realy ready to have sex with him, that I could do oral and other stuff instead but yesterday he really scar...
A. 28 May 2007: this isnt on at all. this man was trying to rape you and is a disgrace to call a boyfrend. i know you probably love him but if he wants to hurt you and force you to do something into which you dont want to he cant respect you at all. i would ... (read in full...)
Do you think I have an anal fissure or could it be something more serious?
Q. I have a bit of a problem and wondering if anyone can help. Im a 20 year old male in a gay relationship. Ive been with my boyfriend now for about 8 months. Two months into the relationship I noticed during sex that my anus hurt. Ever since then ...
A. 28 May 2007: hmmm well i would advise you go and see your doctor, he will be seeing that sort of thing every day and wont mind your gay. he will come across these sort of problems on a daily basis and he wont mind at all that your gay. i would deffinetly go and ... (read in full...)
I have never had sex but masturbate a lot, will this make me loose?
Q. im a young girl with a really high sex drive. i can get horny anywhere, and everywhere. suprisingly i haven't had sex!! this is because me and my boyfriend want to have a white wedding. i have been masterbating a lot (with one finger), will this ...
A. 28 May 2007: your only not a virgin when a penis enters your vagina, no matter what you hear, even if your hymen the layer of skin onthe inside of your vagina has broken through masturbation you are still a virgin. i dont think you must love this boy your ... (read in full...)
I'm confused, am I bi?
Q. I think im bisexual. How can I tell, I really fancy fit boys but I find girls really atractive. Im quite an art person and enjoy drawing naked people men and women.So am I bi? ...
A. 28 May 2007: you could be any i suppose, if your young your probably just getting to know your sexuality. dont push yourself to get involved physicaly with either sex, only time can tell.... (read in full...)
We're going on a party camp out..and my bf wants to have sex with me! Should I let him?
Q. Hii. Well next friday I have a party and me, my boyfriend, my best girl friend and maybe her boyfriend and my best boy mate are planning to camp out. As we are typical teenagers we will obviously want booze and we want to have a good laugh. My boyfr...
A. 28 May 2007: you have so much time ahead of you to be thinking about sex, obviously if you are breaking up with each other for other people there is no possible way you are both mature enough for a relationship of this kind and i dont think its a good idea. i ... (read in full...)
How do I get rid of this hair around my belly button?
Q. I have a hairy belly and I'm a girl. it's not extremely hairy, it's like every other girl, but because I'm Asian and have black hair you can see the hair. It looks really terrible. I love wearing short tops that show my belly but I can't because ...
A. 28 May 2007: i have the same problem but i just shave it off, some people say you shouldent as it grows back thicker but honestly it grows back exactly the same its just an old wives tale. if your really uncomftable you could try waxing it (this will keep the ... (read in full...)
I'm on the pill but I have lost the rest of my pack so I have missed 2 pills. What should I do?
Q. I'm on the pill but I have lost the rest of my pack so I have missed 2 pills. What should I do?...
A. 28 May 2007: the same thing happned to me, i went to the family planning clinic and told the lady what happend and she said there practicly no risk at all of falling pregnant whilst missing a pill on the last week of your pack. she said to start off where i left ... (read in full...)
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