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| | chrissy32789's profile:HI everyone i am an 18 yr old female, i am married to a really great guy, i live in pa.... i grew up a hard way when i was 10 yrs old i was raped by a 18 yr old guy and i was raped again when i was 12 by a 36 yr old guy, my parents got a divorce and they never cared what i did or what happend to me, and relationships forget it i was hurt so many times but then i finally met the right guy, i am on here to help anyone who needs it, i try my best to give good advice... |
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His family wants nothing to do wiith me until I'm his wife. I'm very insulted!
Q. Ok, so here's the thing, my boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 1 and 1/2 years now and I've only met his family one time. He goes back to his hometown where he grew up and visits them, but doesn't invite me and when I told him that I ...
A. 21 July 2008: Honestly it sounds to me that he is hidden something from you because i never met a family that was like that, and for his uncle to say what he said, how would his uncle know if you took you to a friends house with out someone telling you? Do you ... (read in full...)
My new girlfriend asks "How can she be with me when my son always comes first!"
Q. hi my name is paul. im 32 years old and i have posted before about the sameish subject, only thing is things have changed and im in termoil, could realy do with helpfull advice. i have a 5 yr old boy who i dont live with he lives with his mum some ...
A. 21 July 2008: If she can not accept that your kid comes first then show her where the door is, she is always around you and when you do get to see your kid she should have no problems with that when your son needs money she should stay out of it because your kid ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my parents that I am gay?
Q. I am a 15 year old gay who has no idea when or how to tell my parents I'm gay. When should I tell them and how. All of my close friends know so I have something to fall back on if they don't take it well. Thanks to anyone who has any ideas....
A. 18 July 2008: You dont really have to tell them that you are gay one day they will find out when they never see you with girls ect. but if you really want them to know then sit them down and tell them " we really need to talk about something and i dont know how ... (read in full...)
I need tips on how to please girls sexually. I'm bisexual.
Q. ok, well, here goes, i am 14, and i AM for a fact bisexual, ive accepted that fact, you might think,. "oh shes too young", but i am more experienced and have seen more than you think. my problem is, i have been fingered by a past gf, and had sex and ...
A. 18 July 2008: its really simple.
fingering:
make sure your finger is wet some times it hurts when its not, put your finger in here and go slowly in and out thats pretty much it for that
eatting out:
go down on her with your tongue lick around on her cl... (read in full...)
I feel like my boyfriend only wants me for sexual stuff!
Q. I'm 14 and my boyfriend and I have been going out for a month and I started too really like him. A couple weeks ago he asked for head and I gave it to him but yesterday he asked me again and he asked to see my boobs. I said no but I feel like thi...
A. 14 July 2008: Hunnie you better leave him now....it sounds like he uses and abuses girls....ive been there with guys they act all nice to you and tell you that they love you and you do all this stuff for them because you think they really care about you and ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend messes around with another guy!
Q. I have a girlfriend I've been with since May and we had been messing around for about 8 months before that. We were supposed to be messing with only each other but she messed with someone else. Then she asks to be friends with him. I told her no. ...
A. 14 July 2008: Honestly you should sit down with her and talk to her about this and ask her if she would ever do anything with this guy again and see what she says. it sounds to me like you two was kind of together before but not really and if thats the case then ... (read in full...)
I have some questions about fertility drugs!
Q. Hi everyone i am 19 years old and married, i have been trying to have a baby with my husband but it has not happend yet i have been going to my doctors and she feels i need clomid, i have been trying to figure out things from the internet but i have ...
A. 14 July 2008: Maybe i should of been a little more clear on why my doctor wants me on clomid...I dont get my period i get it maybe once every 2 years if that. My husband has been checked for low sperm count but everything came back normal for him... (read in full...)
All my friends talk about oral sex - but I don't know what it is!
Q. What is oral sex? I am too young to even think about having it, I just want to know because everyone knows and I don't. So when they talk about it I just have to go along with it, and what if one of these days they ask if I know what it is...I ...
A. 14 July 2008: Oral sex consists of all sexual activities that involve the use of the mouth, which may include use of the tongue, teeth, and throat, to stimulate genitalia. Cunnilingus refers to oral sex performed on a woman and fellatio refers to oral sex ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to have anal sex more often but it's very painful for me but I want to satisfy him, what can I do so it won't hurt as much?
Q. Well my boyfriend wants to have anal sex more often but it's very painful for me but I want to satisfy him, what can I do so it won't hurt as much? ...
A. 26 February 2008: Hey sweetie, I have had the same problem as you, but i found this lub called anal-ez and it works really well it numbs you up it hurts for a couple of seconds but then it starts to work...... (read in full...)
Could she be fired after testing positive as a result of second hand smoke? She works in healthcare, rewarding job.
Q. This is kinda of a relationship question.My gf has a great paying job in healthcare.We are far apart and she just failed a drug test there.She had told me a while back that her grown son smokes a lot of pot.Mind you she told me this like in ...
A. 20 February 2008: It is a good chance that she could get fired for this but it also depends on the rules of a job some places if you fail a drug test then they get fired and some only get warnigs, but if she has gotten a hand book from them then it will say in there ... (read in full...)
I was suggested a threesome with my mother and her lover, when this woman found out I was bisexual!
Q. Hiya all so iam 18 years old and i realy badly need HELP!! when i was 11 my mum left my dad for a women at her gym. I live with my dad and he realy hates the both of them so i now live with my mum and her lover. we talk about...
A. 20 February 2008: I am not here to judge you are make fun of what you think, i dont belive in relationships with your family but heres the thing if you are going to feel ok with having sex with your mom and her lover then thats your choice, but do you know if someone ... (read in full...)
My teacher is a lesbian, should I ask her how she feels about me?
Q. i love my science lessons because the teacher is stunning. am bi and have a stunning girlfriend but my science teacher gives me the same looks as my girlf does. she never shouts at me she jst says dont do that please. i know she is a lesbi...
A. 20 February 2008: Listen sweetie i think it is better that you dont try to get with your teacher no matter how much you two like each other because not only do you have a girlfriend but your teacher will get in trouble and do you want that to happen to her? do you ... (read in full...)
What happens when you take the pill?
Q. I'm considering going on the pill, but I'm not fully sure what happens. Do I have to stop taking it for a week, or something, to have my period? I'm confused where to get it from too. Can any of you give me some advice on where to get the pill, an...
A. 28 January 2008: hey sweetie first of all you are under 18 years old so you will need a parent to go with you because you have to go the doctors and tell them that you want to go on the pill. The pills are all diffrent ways of how you take them but you dont have to ... (read in full...)
What happens when you take the pill?
Q. I'm considering going on the pill, but I'm not fully sure what happens. Do I have to stop taking it for a week, or something, to have my period? I'm confused where to get it from too. Can any of you give me some advice on where to get the pill, an...
A. 28 January 2008: hey sweetie first of all you are under 18 years old so you will need a parent to go with you because you have to go the doctors and tell them that you want to go on the pill. The pills are all diffrent ways of how you take them but you dont have to ... (read in full...)
How can I be sure I took her virginity?
Q. Before I met my girlfriend she was almost raped,a guy forced himself on her,but didn`t penetrate very far(just about the head),she was a virgin and she bled. A year ago, my girlfriend and I had sex for the first time,she told me afterwards that i b...
A. 4 January 2008: There is no way to really know if you took it from her beacuase some girls bleed and some dont so you are just going to have to take her word on it, but she was raped and no matter how far he did or did not go in her she lost her virginity, but that ... (read in full...)
He anally raped me, treated me like a toy. Should I finish with him?
Q. me and my boyfriend were having sex the other night, and he asked me for anal. I've done it once before with him and didnt really enjoy it but it didnt hurt so i thought it would be fine again, not realising last time i dont it i was very drunk ...
A. 4 January 2008: Hey hunni, sometimes guys get very out of control and dont relize how bad you are in pain. But is this the first time that he has really hurt you this bad? because if it is maybe you should work it out and tell him i dont like it anal and you really ... (read in full...)
My period is starting just before I'm suppose to meet my boyfriend for a romantic trip away. How can I tell him I can't sleep with him?
Q. Hi! I was just wondering if anyone had any advice. I'm meeting my boyfriend for a romantic night away in 2 days but my period is just about to start. I have a really irregular cycle at the moment so there was no way i thought it would come this ...
A. 1 January 2008: hey sweetie there is no reason to be embressed most girls get there period, but you should just tell him now that you have your period and you dont want to do anything. And i am sure you can work around it.... (read in full...)
Everytime we have a sleep over, we end up kissing! Am I a lesbian?
Q. hi i have a best friend we have been friends for 5 years we are still at school and in year 7. and we often have sleepovers and everytime she comes and sleeps around mine we end up kissing and i dont know what to do i think she really fancies ...
A. 1 January 2008: Hey sweetie why dont you talk to her and find out about what is going on ask her when she kisses you what does it mean to her, and tell her not to be afraid of telling you the truth and then tell her what it means to her but keep the orgasm out of ... (read in full...)
I'm not gay, I have a girlfriend, but I'm turned on by gay men, why is that?
Q. I am a 14 year old boy and I am "turned on by gay things". I dont want to be gay I have had a girl we have been going out for over a month and she wants to have sex so do I but im scared i want be preparied for....
A. 1 January 2008: hey sweetie you are young still so your hormones are racing like crazy. Not alot of boys or girls admit that they think about the same sex but alot of teenagers do its not just you and if you dont want to be gay then dont push yourself towards it ... (read in full...)
I'm going through puberty but I can't ejaculate, why??
Q. I can't ejaculate yet im already growing pubes though And I'm 15 How much longer will it take do y'all think?...
A. 1 January 2008: Most boys begin to ejaculate semen when they're between the ages of 12 and 15, although some begin ejaculating at a later or earlier age. You can still masturbate and even have orgasms before you're old enough to ejaculate. If you are not able to ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and in love with a 30 year old and don't know what to do
Q. I'm in love with a guy who is 30 im 14 I really love him he isnt married but he has a girlfriend with a 5 yr old son I loveee his son to death his girl I wish she would drop dead hes my cuzins friend I'm always at my cousins house seeing him he ...
A. 1 January 2008: Hey when i was 16 i was with a 30 year old guy he was a single dad because his wife past away from cancer. I was there for him and his kids but it did not work out because of our age diffrence and if one person found out about use he would be ... (read in full...)
My Mom snoops when I'm on the internet, I find her lack of trust very irritating, how do I get her to stop?
Q. hi i am 14 and in year 10 and my mom keeps on being nosy about what i do on the internet.i am not doing anything bad or wrong all i do is go on msn and myspace maybe play on games. she clearly thinks i am up to somthing which is wrong she always a...
A. 1 January 2008: Hey sweetie, I know it really pisses you off that your mom is always trying to see what you do on the internet but now a days you cant trust other people on the internet, i am sure she wants to respect your privacy but she is also worried about what ... (read in full...)
How can I tell if I'm too loose down below?
Q. i hear some of the guys out in the pub talk about girls being really loose down bellow, how can i tell if im 1 of them? do you get it from having 2 much sex?...
A. 31 December 2007: No you dont get loose from having to much sex that usally only happens when you give natural child birth, you shouldnt really worrie about it i am sure you are just fine, dont worrie about what guys talk about.... (read in full...)
Do condoms really work?
Q. Okay so im really in love with my boyfriend and we want to have sex. Im scared the condom may break and so is he. He has everything going for him amaazing soccer player, super hot, and smart. He feels like it would be one of those " he had ...
A. 31 December 2007: Hey sweetie condoms do work but sometimes they do break thats why you cant always just trust condoms. but here is the thing i know your young and you will not listen to anyone when they tell you to wait so if you do have sex when your boyfriend is ... (read in full...)
I ejaculate too soon, please help!!
Q. Hi I've just turned 17 and me and my girlfriend have started having sex. Everythings fine and i have an erection and then we start doing it and i ejaculate in less than 1 minute. I dunno whats going on. Sometimes i can only last for 30 seconds a...
A. 31 December 2007: Hey sweetie, dont worrie about this alot of guys dont last long during sex specially if this is the first girl you have had sex with. What you could try doing is get yourself off befor sex that way you have already got off and that may help you last ... (read in full...)
I've not had unprotected sex but I seem to be showing signs of pregnancy...Help!!
Q. ok so im really scared i have never had unprotected sex but i keep getting random waves of nausea and my stomach is really hard and it hurts im afraid i might be pregnant?? i need help and advice!!...
A. 19 December 2007: well sweetie you never really got into how long ago you had sex and when these symthoms started so its kind of hard to tell if you are preg. or not so why dont you just get an at home pregnanacy test and see what the results are or just leave more ... (read in full...)
I need to know how to give her the big 'O'
Q. I've been with my girlfriend now for a year. Although we both care for each other, a situation arose last week. We started having sex about 2 or 3 months ago and have sex 2 or 3 times a week. One day when I had to go out to get something, I came bac...
A. 14 December 2007: Dont get all upset about this because some ladies dont have have orgasms during intercourse so why dont you try new things i know you two are new to this but why dont you go to a porn store and buy a vibrating cock ring and put it on while having ... (read in full...)
Confused and Hurt!! Help!!
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for about a year and half. He's a senior in college and I graduated last year and am now working full time. This past semester I have gone to visit him up at school almost every weekend.(about an hour away) I know he's ...
A. 13 December 2007: well sweetie maybe he isnt going to call you back right away maybe he wants to see if you will call him again to see if you really wanna talk to him... (read in full...)
Confused and Hurt!! Help!!
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for about a year and half. He's a senior in college and I graduated last year and am now working full time. This past semester I have gone to visit him up at school almost every weekend.(about an hour away) I know he's ...
A. 13 December 2007: Hunni you did a real good job on what you did i know it was hard for you to just blow him off like you did but thats what you have to do sometimes to make him relize how much he misses you and wants you. If you keep talkin to him then he will just ... (read in full...)
I don't want to ruin my relationship with my brother.
Q. im 17 and this guy iv been seeing for 6 months is my brothers friend and is 22! we are really into eachother and lvoe being with eachother, and want to have a nromal relationship without sneaking around!! howver i do not want to ruin mine and my ...
A. 13 December 2007: I use to date my brothers friends but the thing is he would get mad at me sometimes about it. But i told my brother befor ii dated one of his friends the thing you should do is go and talk to your brother about this and tell him that you really like ... (read in full...)
My husband's friend slept with my husband's younger sister... despite being warned away!
Q. My husband's best friend is a well-known womanizer. My husband has made it somewhat clear that it wouldn't be a good idea for him to "date" his younger sister. He even expressed this concern to his sister. She agreed that she would steer clear. But ...
A. 13 December 2007: Well seeing that your husband lets everyone walk all over him I dont think if he goes and talks to his friend and his sister it would do any good. But it happend they have already done things together so i dont think it is going to do anygood to ... (read in full...)
I'm ashamed of my big clitoris!
Q. I am a woman of 25 and I have big clitories. I am so shy of this to have a relationship with men. I have shown to one of my girlfriend the other day and she said I have to see a doctor so they can circumsize it. do you think it is a good Idea?...
A. 13 December 2007: If it is that big of a deal for you then i would go to a doctor and get checked and see what they can do for you. All women are diffrent in that area, but if you are really shy about it then go for it it wont hurt you to see what a doctor would say ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to occasionally use porn?
Q. I met my wife 10 years and married for 2. I love deeply and think she is one of the most attractive women that I have ever seen. Occasionally I watch porn.By occasionally I mean I may not watch it for a few months then I may watch it say 3 or 4 tim...
A. 11 December 2007: I dont understand what the problem is with you watching porn. Because if she gets off by thinking about other guys then that is a bigger issue then you watching porn! If I was you then i would really sit down and talk to her about this just because ... (read in full...)
How do I shave my pubic hair?
Q. how do i shave my pubic hairs? ive tried multiple times before, but i cant get all of it and when i shave its all stubbly, is there a technique i need to use? thanks....
A. 21 November 2007: Hey sweetie. When you shave do it in the shower and use lots of body wash or shaving gel those two work the best and get a real good razor those really cheap ones dont work use a mans razor they work the best. And start at the top and work your way ... (read in full...)
Would it be terriable to have sex with him?
Q. I known it is wrong, and i probably shouldn't do it, but A everygood guy friend of mine. WHo happens to be a virgin, whats to lose his virginity and have girlfriend. I am in a good relationship and i love the guy alot. The only thing is i've had a ...
A. 15 November 2007: Honestly sweetie your friend maybe all upset and things now but if you have sex with him then things between you two will never be the same i had a best friend and i fell in love with him and then we broke up and nothing was ever the same. YOUR ... (read in full...)
Can u marry your second cousin
Q. can you marry your second cousin?...
A. 13 November 2007: Sweetie i belive you can but you should really check it out with the states some states you can and some you cant, so go to google and google and see what states you can marrie in. well good luck and i hope it all works out for you..... (read in full...)
I have feeling for my aunt.
Q. well i have feeling for my aunt i know its not lust i love her and i know its wrong but we both kind of flirt with each other and i was wondering if it would be wrong to seduce her oh also she is almost 30 years older than me but i love her so much...
A. 13 November 2007: hey sweetie, you should not come on here to see what people think or say because we are not you you are you and your the only one who knows what your heart feels but if you both flirt then go for it follow your heart it will take you where it wants ... (read in full...)
Doctors say my husband and I are fertile and we've been trying to conceive for 3 yrs now. Suggestions, pills?
Q. Hi ladies this is a more of a question for you and guys if you can give advice that would be ok too. Well i am 18 years old the first time i have got my period was when i was 10. But i have irregular periods. i have been to doctors after doctors and ...
A. 9 November 2007: Thank you to everyone who gave adivice.... (read in full...)
12, I haven't had a period in 5 months and worry I could be pregnant. Any advice?
Q. Hey Guys. I Hope You Can Help Me. I Am 12 And Im Gunna Turn 13 In Januaryy... I Started My Periods About 2 Years Ago...... But I Am Scared i Am Pregnant As I Had Sex About 5 Monthes Ago And I Havent Had A Period Since... I Have Tried Pregnancey Te...
A. 19 October 2007: Hey sweetie. dont worrie if the test keep comming back that you are not pregnant then dont worrie, i am 18 years old and i go a year sometimes with out my period its just the way some bodies go through, but go to the doctors and get put on ... (read in full...)
This lump on my left breast has become painful. My mother says my body is changing. Should I see a doctor?
Q. i found a lump on my left breast a couple of weeks ago and didnt know what it was so i just left it as i thought it might go away by its self. but its still there and its become painful. i told my mum about it and she sed it will just be because my ...
A. 17 October 2007: Honestly i would go see a doctor about this because it could just be your brest are growing but it could also be something else its better to get checked and be safe then let it go and and be sorry. If you are still in school, go talk to your nurse ... (read in full...)
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