Is it good for the relationship if they hang out every day?
Q. should a boyfriend and a girlfriend hang out everyday is it good for there replashionship????...
A. 4 September 2008: No problem with it. Some boyfriends and girlfriends live together and have to see each other every day and it's fine. It's about what suits you best.... (read in full...)
I am attracted to my aunt and I want to have sex with her! What do you think?
Q. My aunt is 42 and she's hot and very beautiful. We have a good relationship. We have never been totally alone, but we talk all the time when we see each other. I have noticed 2 times when she looks at me, she looks at me with a sexy-look, and w...
A. 24 August 2008: You should do nothing. If you do anything it'll be incest which is illegal. Just stay how you're meant to be - Nephew and aunt.... (read in full...)
We disagree over our tastes in music, how do I get him to understand?
Q. There's this guy I talk to online. I met him 2 years ago. He's pretty cool. He's 20 now and I'm 17. I used to have a crush on him. We've gotten pretty close...on MSN, I mean. He has a girlfriend that he's met on there, and I know her as well. B...
A. 24 August 2008: If someone's going to be like that to you just because he dislikes a certain few bands he's not worth it. To be honest it's a bit lame he should be so picky over music.
I'm not a fan of some of the things my girlfriend likes and vice versa bu... (read in full...)
I have a problem with my lips turning white, when I kiss my girlfriend, could wearing chapstick have anything to do with it, any way to prevent this?
Q. hi, Random question here, Every time I kiss my girlfriend my lips end up turning white in areas. I've figured it's only either dead skin or bacteria being killed(similar as to what happens when drinking vodka and the tongue turns white). ...
A. 21 August 2008: And thanks to lexilou too.
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I have a problem with my lips turning white, when I kiss my girlfriend, could wearing chapstick have anything to do with it, any way to prevent this?
Q. hi, Random question here, Every time I kiss my girlfriend my lips end up turning white in areas. I've figured it's only either dead skin or bacteria being killed(similar as to what happens when drinking vodka and the tongue turns white). ...
A. 21 August 2008: Thanks for the answer. I'll try your techniques. I thought it might be something as simple as that but thought I should ask. thanks again... (read in full...)
A rhetorical question, in the UK, if two people under 16 consent to sex, is it legal?
Q. This is just a quick question. I know that in the UK the legal age for sex is 16. Does this mean that if 2 people under 16 consent to sex is it legal? I mean, I know that it's illegal when a person above the age of 16 has sex with somebody below th...
A. 20 August 2008: In a word, no.
It is still illegal for anyone to have sex under the age of consent.
The older one, if under 16, won't be arrested but will be in a rather large bit of trouble and could be kicked out of school, put into a boot camp and his or ... (read in full...)
How can I get over being depressed about not being in love?
Q. why is it so hard to get over a love for somone that will never happen. everytime i see people kissing or holding hands it feels like my heart is splitting in two. i know ill never see him again because he lives abroad and he likes my friend. ...
A. 20 August 2008: I've been in exactly the same position as you. I'd been single since November last year until about 4 months ago. At the time of meeting my now-girlfriend I wasn't even looking much. I wanted a partner but when I looked, it never happened then wh... (read in full...)
These girls say no to EVERYONE. How can I be the one to get one of them to go on at least one date?
Q. I want to know what I have to do to turn a bunch of Catholic School 7th grade Girls that refuse to have boyfriends into girls that will even go on at least one date, I mean all the grades ahead of us had girlfriends in 5th grade and alll the boys in ...
A. 20 July 2008: I'm afraid it's impossible to change the way a girl chooses to go. They're all 11 or 12 years of age - they've only just begun high school.
Only they can choose when they want a relationship. It'll come to them when it happens.
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Can I love him even though it's over the internet and he's older?
Q. I pretty sure I'm in love with an amazing guy I know from the internet, he is three years older then me, and I always have to reasure him it doesn't matter how old he is because three years is nothing really. The question is, can I love him? Id it ...
A. 19 July 2008: I'm with RFD on this one - be careful with people on the internet. You don't know who you're talking to even if they insist they're this "fit" 18 year old who works out 5 days a week.
Just be cautious and don't tell him any personal details ... (read in full...)
Does this guy get confused if I wear my glasses?
Q. I have noticed a guy staring and smiling at me . But I am a bit confused as sometimes I wear spectacles sometimes i don't. I Just got confused one day when he entered my class to meet his friends. I was just right in front of him ,going o...
A. 19 July 2008: He may have been a little shy to look at you too much when you were with your friends or maybe he got distracted by something. A friend of his maybe.
We all do it. Sometimes we'll stare at someone or something for a long time, other times we'll ta... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is cheating - what should I do?
Q. Hi - my gf cheated on me twice with the same guy an I'm worried she has feelings for him. She says she doesn't but I'm not sure I forgave her the first time. I just found out she has done it again. I don't want to lose her because I love her so m...
A. 19 July 2008: 2 words: Dump her.
I'm sorry but if she's going to cheat on you twice then she'll do it again most likely.
I'm one to go with the line "Once a cheat, Always a cheat"
You may love her but her feelings are obviously somewhere else I'm afrai... (read in full...)
Any hope for ex's getting together and staying that way?
Q. Is there any hope for Ex’s getting together and not having it strained or end up completely broken? I have recently had my heart hurt by my EX and while I still love and care for her I like to say I want to be with her in the future, however ...
A. 19 July 2008: I think ex's can get back together but the "spark" won't be as bright as it was before because, back then, it was fresh love and you didn't think such a thing would happen but it did and when you get back with your ex you worry about it happening ... (read in full...)
My husband left after I cheated - Help me get him back!
Q. My husband of thirteen years left me about two months ago. I cheated on him about a year ago and he said that he will never forgive me. Since he has been gone, I have acted like a nut case. following him, calling him at all hours of the night, ...
A. 19 July 2008: I'm sorry to say it but I'm afraid it is too late. You've acted like a stalker to him and on the edge of being psychopathic and he has a right to not want to be with you.
You've annoyed and upset him to the point or him filing a restrain... (read in full...)
Did my sister and mum overreact to my jokey comment?...
Q. i have a problem with my sister .. well before two days i was eating dinner with my friend then my sister walked in and said yay i want some i winked to my friend and said to my sister there is a little you can't eat -i was kidding- then she got mad ...
A. 18 July 2008: Is your sister overweight and/or worried about her weight/size? If so then you may have offended her and, in a way, called her fat.
You'll need to just have a quiet word with either your mum or your sister or both. I'd say it's best to tell you... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's parents don't want us to go out, how do I approach them?
Q. help my boyfriends parents told him yesturday that we could go out but today he rang me up and told me that they have decided we cant any more i dont no why but me and him are really upset over this they rule his life. They told him that they di...
A. 17 July 2008: I'm guessing your boyfriend is the same age as you?
If so then his parents will be like that as he isn't even past school yet and is technically a child. They're only pretecting him like they should.
When you're both 16 it'll be better becaus... (read in full...)
What pet names can you call a guy?
Q. A guy calls you 'baby, huni, sexy.' But what can you call a guy? ...
A. 15 July 2008: You can call him anything you want (nice of course) but if it's going to be 'sweet' names, don't embarrass him by using them in public.
Be creative and think of something you've never heard before... (read in full...)
Would you cheat on a boat with George Clooney?
Q. If you were married and knew it was going to be the end of the world and you were on a boat with George Clooney, would you cheat? What movie star would get you to cheat?...
A. 15 July 2008: Amy Lee - yes
George Clooney - no
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My mate has cut contact with me completely since he has a new girlfriend, should I give up contacting him?
Q. Right, this is probably gonna be a long one I'm afraid so bear with me. I met my "mate" at the end of 2006 on a 12 wk course I took and we found became close to best friends. We were both into the same music, played guitar etc and we'd hang out tw...
A. 15 July 2008: Thanks for the help. I'll send one more text at the end of this week and then give up. Like you said - if he's a good friend he'll reply.
Thanks again... (read in full...)
Should I moan? Or should I try not to moan?
Q. Okay. So, I just gota ask. When my boyfriend fingers me, and I moan just a little quite moan..Does he like it? Or should I try not to? Help!! ...
A. 14 July 2008: You should moan like you do when you do it yourself because that way your fella will think he's done well and given you one of those orgasm things. You'll make him feel happy and he'll want to do it more.
But don't be all mega loud and exagerat... (read in full...)
I love them both for different reasons and don't know who I should be with!
Q. I am 26, engaged to a my bf of 8 years, when i entered my first job at 25 i started to see someone else from the office who had many qualities that i felt were missing from my bf,currently i am techincally with them both becuase i dotn know who i ...
A. 14 July 2008: when you get in a relationship you make a commitment to stay loyal to that one person and that persopn only.
You should break it off with the one you're not engaged to.... (read in full...)
He wants to have webcam sex. How can I tell him that I'm uncomfortable with showing my body?...
Q. I've been dating my online boyfriend for 5 months now, and he wants to have webcam sex. I'm willing, and I'm up for it but I feel insecure about my body. I'm slightly over-weight and since he hasn't seen me in real life yet he's unaware of that. ...
A. 14 July 2008: Just tell him the truth. it's the best way. If he's an understanding person then he'll understand and not pressure you. But you never know, he might like your body.
I'd say just go for it, if he's not shallow then he'll like you. He's the one aski... (read in full...)
Is it normal to have sex five times in two days?
Q. The only time I get to spend with my boyfriend is on the weekend. We live far away and we work on the weekdays. We’re both in our late 20s so we are not little kids. Is it normal to have sex 5 times over 2 days? It feels like we’re making ...
A. 14 July 2008: Yep. perfectly healthy and good for you. Sex is the best exercise - fun, hot and pleasurable.
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I feel like my boyfriend only wants me for sexual stuff!
Q. I'm 14 and my boyfriend and I have been going out for a month and I started too really like him. A couple weeks ago he asked for head and I gave it to him but yesterday he asked me again and he asked to see my boobs. I said no but I feel like thi...
A. 14 July 2008: If he's in it for just the sex then you shouldn't be with him because he is breaking the law and is performing statutory rape: sex with a minor. Any form of sex with a minor is illegal and he could end up behind bars for it. If your parents fou... (read in full...)
Is this a big age gap??
Q. im 13 and there's this boy that i really like but he's 16. We hang out alot and we always enjoy each other's company. but i want to know is it a big age difference? and should we stay friends and don't be more than that?...
A. 8 July 2008: 3 years isn't a massive age gap but at 13 you're still too young for anything sexually and as has been said before - he may get sexually frustrated and move on.
If you are the good 2 then it'll be worth waiting until you're legal although... (read in full...)
I woke up to find him having sex with me. Am I still a virgin?
Q. i need to know if im still a virgin!! i have been with my boyfriend for 4 months and he stopped at mine on thursday and we both fell asleep but then when i woke up he was in me, ive never had sex before and i didnt feel him on me but he was actually ...
A. 5 July 2008: I'm sorry to say you are no longer a virgin and have been raped like the other aunts and uncles said.
Get some tests done just to be on the same side and take the morning after pill.
He did what I believe is called Somnophilia - sex with a sle... (read in full...)
I saw my 44 yearold mother having sex - surely she is too old?
Q. I am 24. My mom is 44 she had a divorce after long married life of 28years.She was shattered and had lived a lonely life all alone for a year in her small parental town. When I got setelled with good job in a bigger town she came to live with me in ...
A. 5 July 2008: 44 isn't too old at all. IMO there's no such thing as too old - only too young.
You have no reason to be ashamed and/or depressed. To use a cliche: Sex is a perfectly normal thing for two people to have.
If you really are depressed you sh... (read in full...)
I want a boyfriend and sex
Q. i am only 11 and i am single. wich im not happy about. also recently i have wanted sex loads. ihave been thinking that i will find a boyfriend, go to his house one day and he will ask me for sex with comdoms and i will say yes.... ..in my dreams...
A. 5 July 2008: Yeah, it's been said before but I'll say it again: You are waaaayyyyy too young to even consider having sex. Like others have said it isn't all perfect. You should wait til you find the right person and when you are above the legal age (16 in... (read in full...)
Fooling around with my older cousin...is it bad??
Q. Well, first started 2yrs ago i think. i was trying to sleep at my cousin's house, Kristen, but then he came along and went in bed with me and started to sqyeeze my breast. It's hard to explain because it was long ago. One month ago we went to ...
A. 5 July 2008: In a way I believe he kind of raped you because he did sexual things against your will (the fingering etc).
I'm not sure about the Us but here it's not illegal to do these things with your cousin but it is still considered taboo to some if not m... (read in full...)
Are girls who grew up without a father attracted more to "bad boys"?
Q. My question put simply: Do Girls who grew up without knowing their father (i.e the father left home when they were born) have a tendency to be attracted, and go with "Bad Boys" who dont really care for them, and ultimatly cheat on them and treat th...
A. 4 July 2008: I can safely say this isn't true with all girls. I've been dating someone for just under a month and she didn't know her dad.
I'm not a "nice guy" but I'm not a bad boy and she accepts me for that.
I read some of the links posted and they ... (read in full...)
Friends with benefits? What are your opinions on this?
Q. I've fancied a guy for ages, but i know he's got a reputation, and he is a bit of a player. I know he likes me but i also know he doesn't do relationships and just wants friends with benefits. What is people's opionion on this?...
A. 3 July 2008: If he wants to be a swinger/player then that's just him really and it won't really change.
You may like him but as has been said, he's a player and thus your relationship probably wouldn't last I'm sorry to say.
It'll be best if you just stay... (read in full...)
I love my family, but they keep giving me lectures on everything I do! How can I stand up for myself in a good way and not hurt them?
Q. Hi aunts and uncles. Long time no question. Firstly, let me say I am very close to my family and I know they'd do anything for me and likewise to them. (to cut a story short: I got stranded in Donnington and had to take the bus to bristol then tra...
A. 3 July 2008: Thanks for all the help. You've said what I ws thinking of doing so in a way you've confirmed it's possible.
I think what I'll do is just say that I know how to treat the girl I'm dating and to keep her safe, do nothing and will make sure she gets... (read in full...)
After 6 months together we've entered the "comfortable stage". What can I do to bring back the wow look on his face??
Q. ok guys... i have been with my boyfriend for 6 months. things r startin to get a little weird for me cuz its in the "comfortable" stage. so i want to do something to make him say omg again or just see that wow look on his face. and im not talkin ...
A. 2 July 2008: I'd say if you are living with him, one night you could prepare a nice meal for him to come home to with the candles etc and try some new stuff in the bedroom (What do you think the internet was made for?)
Pasta is a good and simple meal with can... (read in full...)
My best friend snogged my ex since a couple of months! Is this a betrayal of a friend? I don't know what to think!
Q. Me and my ex boyfriend were together for about 2 years and split up just a few months ago. My best friend told me today that she snogged him today and i really don't know how i feel. I still love my ex to pieces but don't want to tell him this. To ...
A. 2 July 2008: It was a betrayal, yes but not of friendship. It was a betrayal of trust between your friend and her boyfriend. You'd be best to stay out of this as you'll only get stuck in a bad position and the blame could go to you because it was your ex she ... (read in full...)
I feel like everything but his girlfriend, should I leave him??
Q. We're both 21 years old and I have been living with my boyfriend for 10 months and for a while now I have been feeling more like a chauffeur, a mother, a roommate, and a maid to him. The last thing I feel like is his girlfriend, unless he wants to ...
A. 2 July 2008: You'll need to sit down with him and tell him how you feel and that you think the relationship is going nowhere (if you think that).
Tell him about the financial strain and that you're paying ll the bills and buying all the food and that if he do... (read in full...)
What do I choose, stay in the current badlife I have or take a chance on the may be goodlife??
Q. hi everyone im hoping you can help me here,im currently in a relationship with a man whom im in love with yet he treats me bad most of the time,im going away soon an whilst im away im going to see a guy whom as loved an wanted me for the best part ...
A. 2 July 2008: The good life all the way.
Think about it. Do you want to be miserable with a guy who treats you like crap or happy with a guy who would never do anything seriously bad?
I know I'd go with the 2nd were I female.
Just go with your gut... (read in full...)
How do I know if my boyfriend loves me? Is there a way you can tell for sure?
Q. i just wonderd if anyone could tell me how do you know if a boy loves you?? well my boyfriend kisses me and we spend ages looking into eatchothers eyes and he puts his arms round me you think he loves me?? ...
A. 2 July 2008: ChiRaven said it well. Love is indeed more than being held close by an arm or a kiss. It is also a mental/psychological thing.
Love is trust, loyalty, caring, affection, saying things and meaning it, standing up for your partner, commitme... (read in full...)
I'm confused about what my boyfriend really feels for me
Q. me and my boyrfrien have been going out for quite a while now i only ever see him on the weekends becuase of school and things, so i spend more time at home than with him, we both have msn and bebo but he never reply's back to me or nothing, i have ...
A. 2 July 2008: If he's going to be like this it could mean he has another girl on the side. He's showing signs of it I'm afraid.
Next time you see him just ask him if he's seeing another girl. If he says firmly but not hysterically/over-reactively "No" then he ... (read in full...)
Any advice about polycystic ovarian syndrome?
Q. i have been trying for a baby for over 4 years i have polycystic ovarian syndrome, my husband and are really wanting a family, can anyone help?...
A. 2 July 2008: A while ago I found a site that might be very helpful to you the URL is www.pcosfriendly.co.uk
It's a non-proftable site made by fellow PCOS sufferers. If you join I'm sure you will find help there with others.
Good luck... (read in full...)
I've been out with 2 guys and now I can't choose which one I like the most, please help me out!!
Q. Grr this isn't fair! I'd been getting close to guy A about a month ago, we were good for a couple of weeks then i didnt hear from him again, its been another 2 weeks. So i gave up on him, now iv been great friends with guy B for a long time, always ...
A. 1 July 2008: It is confusing, yes :P
I know this is going to be tricky but maybe you should talk to guy A and even just go out with him for a coffee or to the cinema. See how that goes.
Think about how you will be if you are always guy B's partner or how i... (read in full...)
What does love feel like?
Q. How do you know when you're in love?...
A. 1 July 2008: It's very hard to know if you're in love with someone for real. Like Mr. no issues said, read all about it. Even if poetry and love novels aren't your things still have a read of it, even if they're short. Listen to some love-rock or pop. Albums ... (read in full...)
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