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| | Skeez's profile:Name: Megan.
Age: 17.
Status: Single (recently broke up with my boyfriend of 20 months)
Why are you here?: Its in my nature to help people. I am a very loving person and I feel as though I am giving a lot when I offer to help someone. It feels very rewarding and I am especially happy when people thank me for my words.
What problems did you deal with when you were young?: My life has never had any real problems and nothing seriously traumatizing has effected me in anyways, but since I was 10, I have been a very very sad person. I was diagnosed with Dysthymia at 12. Through my 13-15 years I started up self harm and drug taking to ease the upset and angst I had. I have attempted at ending my life and I have had weight problems all my life, being inflicted on thinking that I would only be popular and successful if I was skinny. I have gone through episodes of heavy weight gain to being under weight. From being 9 stone when I was 10 to being 6 and half at 15-16 and so on. I have never been anorexic, but have been considered underweight for my age since I was 15.
Want some advice about eating problems? depression or self harm and suicide?. Then contact me. I may not have the best advice, but I can certainly give you the advice that got me through everything. I am ok now. I am very much a more confident person. Im still having a s bit of struggle with eating, but my self harminga nd suicide attempts have been wiped out. My dythymia will always have an effect on me for the rest of my life, but Ive learned how to cope and control it.www: www.vampirefreaks.com/Instantly_Infected |
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My girlfriend runs after the boys I like, I try to let her do what she wants because I want her to be happy, but this one boy I really like a lot and she has her eye on him, she also lies about me to boys, what can I do?
Q. ok i told my friend that i liked this guy allot and she didnt even no him and we hung out 2 days ago and she started flirting with him...........she gave him her number and was askin him out and stuff...............and scince in knew that she liked ...
A. 13 July 2008: Wow what a horrible friend. Shes using you lovely. Shes obviously a very very insecure girl who thinks she can get evrything in her path. To be honest, I dont even think she likes these guys but is trying to upset you by flirting with them anyway... (read in full...)
Where is the best place to go on holiday for clubbing in March?
Q. Where is the best place to go on holiday for clubbing in March?...
A. 13 July 2008: Portugal is a nice place to go for Clubs and the weather is pretty nice around March. Also Greece...Corfu is a great place to go at that time and its got plenty of clubs aswell. I was going to suggest Ibiza, but im not too sure about how the we... (read in full...)
I don't know how to tell my best friend I really like him. Secondly, I'm having problems getting over my ex.
Q. The first part of the problem is that I like my best friend. He's been my best friend for a few years now and I don't know exactly how to tell him I like him, but I know I need to. The second part is that I just can't seem to get over my ex. I've ...
A. 13 July 2008: I agree with the poster below. I think you should hold off telling your best friend how you feel. I have a feeling you may only be looking for a way to forget your ex boyfriend. My ex did the exact same thing when we broke up. A girl took an int... (read in full...)
How do I make him understand that overt flirtations and his forgetting my feelings is wrong. Or should I pretend nothing is happening?
Q. I have been married for 23 years. Last year, I found that my husband had been texting and emailing a colleague (and she had responded over 200 times) with extremely explicit sexual language - It read as though they were having an affair - even ...
A. 13 July 2008: Well to be honest I wouldnt tell you to do what hes doing back, becuase thats just immature. I see you have spoken to him about if over a few years and he still hasnt listend to you, so I think you should give up on the words and start taking a... (read in full...)
Cheap boyfriend who won't share - should I just move on to someone who doesn't put money first?
Q. I am 46 and broke, my previous husband took me to the cleaners, I became homeless and had to live with another family for 6 months until I got on my feet. I have now managed to do this and have met a man who is wealthy. He won't pay for meals when ...
A. 13 July 2008: Sounds like hes a right jerk. From reading your post, all I think is that hes just using you for comfort. Seeing as he spends lods of money on his ex, knowing he obviosuly cant get her back hes usuing you as a substitute until he gets what he wan... (read in full...)
He was the most important person in my life. Now this. It's not meant to be. What can I do?
Q. I dont know what to do. heres my story. My best friend (call him simon) is bisexual and he met someone(call him josh) . They had fancied eachother in the past but they became friends..then intermate. then day by day josh took over and i was bein...
A. 13 July 2008: Have you ever tried actually talking to Josh rather than Simon?
I know this is probably not what you want to here, but from reading your post, all I get is that Simon didnt really care that much about you, otherwise he would be trying to keep the ... (read in full...)
I messed with another girl in front of my wife, I thought she was cool with it and now she doesn't trust me.
Q. I messed with another girl in front of my wife, i thought she was cool with it and now she doesn't trust me. What can i do?...
A. 13 July 2008: What woman would be cool about there husband playing and messing around with another girl?
You need to have a very good talk with her about what has happened. You didnt explain the reason why you played around with this girl, but if its becuase your... (read in full...)
Is it right that I should lie about starting my period?
Q. I'm 13 and my periods have not started, but every one in my year have, i feel like a baby. When people ask - i have to lie and say yes i have, because they will laugh at me. Is this right??...
A. 13 July 2008: I dont personally think its bad of you too lie about it.
If they were to pick on you then I would probably do the same to avoid them doing so.
I dont think you should take it personally though.
Some girls dont start there periods until there ... (read in full...)
What can I say back through text to someone I like and who fancies me too?
Q. I am really good friends with a guy in the year above me. He told me that he really fancies me and we need to spend more time together. I really like him too. He sends me really nice texts, but i never know what to say back to them. One example bein...
A. 13 July 2008: aww how sweet.
well im sure you can think of what to say.
If it was me getting that text I would say the same back e.g
'I wish I was there with you too, I love your hugs there wonderful' or something along those lines.
I dont think you need p... (read in full...)
I've got an amazing guy after me but I want to be free and single at my age! What to do?...
Q. Ive Got an amazing lad after me .!! At one point i thought i loved him back but now im not sure i said when i finish school im going to move away and he said hes going to come with me! Hes amazing hes absolutly adalises me! Theres nothing wro...
A. 12 July 2008: If you dont want a loving relationship then just stay single. tell him you cant commit and dont want to hurt him.
Then leave him alone.
He doesnt want you to play him, hes desperate to be with you and I think you should try it before u determin... (read in full...)
Wll she be interested if I talked to her about my ex??
Q. im talking to a girl whos a lil younger.. she knows my ex-gf whos really popular... do u think it'll make her more interested if i talked to her about my ex... but i like this new girl.. or dont bring her up at all ......
A. 21 June 2008: No dont talk to her about your ex. The one thing that really turns off a girl is when a guy constantly mentions his ex in every single topic. Even when its not even relevant to talk about her.
All she will think is that your not over her and wont... (read in full...)
Betrayal: An Emo Girl Heartbreak , How Should I Seek Closure?
Q. I just had a breakup with my boyfriend, he did some things that were hurtful, that I will forgive then forget who he is. He let two of his friends talk about me , his female friend said that I was fat, and one of his boys said that I was ugly. He's ...
A. 12 June 2008: Heya hunni.
Im going through a very similar situation as you.
I was with my bf for 2 years and he never loved me throughout all of it. But anyways...you need to get yourself out with your friends. Keep yourself very very busy.
Getting a job will d... (read in full...)
I really like him, but, will he continue to be a flirt if I keep giving him more chances although he knows he is hurting me bad?
Q. I really like my boyfriend, and as far as i know he really likes me. We waited about two years before we could start going of for certain reasons. We have been going out 3 months. I don't get to see him very often because of both of us have busy ...
A. 12 June 2008: you should really tell him how you feel.
Its disrespectful for him to flirt with other girls when he is clearly taken.
I can see from your ages your only between 13-15, im guessing he is too.
Hes probably to immature to be in a relationship... (read in full...)
Read this break up email from my bf, and tell me what it means, please!
Q. I got this break up email from my bf. What do you think it means? I know obviously it means he wants to break up, but do you think I have a chance to patch it back together with him? I still love him and I know we've had some problems typical ...
A. 29 May 2008: Hello hun. It sounds as though he isnt commiting enough to be with you, and is a little bit shallow to tell you this in an email. If he is not ready to get married, dont pressure him and just move on with your life. There will be someone else who... (read in full...)
HELP me, I can't tell if he likes me or not.
Q. I'm 14 and i have a crush on this 15 yr old guy. he always looks at me when we walk pass or when i'm around but i pretended not to notice him. then as weeks past, he looked at me lesser and lesser till it's like he doesn't even care about me ...
A. 10 May 2008: hello lovey.
yes it does sound as though this boy does like you.
But...the problem is...why is he now avoiding you and not lookng at you anymore?
From what you have told me, its becuase you have been ignoring him, and pretending you dont notice ... (read in full...)
Are there side effects to contraceptive pills?
Q. Hi, my doctor prescribed me some contraceptive pills to ease my stomach pain and shorten periods. I was just wondering if there's any side-effects? I need a bit of reassurance because i'm rather hesitant to take them. Thanks!...
A. 10 May 2008: Yes there can be side effects to the pill, but most of them are quite rare.
The only possible effects you might get are a bloating of the stomach and some mood changes.
More un common ones are headaches, nausea and tender breasts.
But...Ive hea... (read in full...)
I feel bloated after I eat and suspect the effect is due to the pill. Any advice on dieting?
Q. I'm 19, and am on the dianette pill. for the past few weeks i seem to be constantly bloated every time i eat. my stomach is flat in the mornings but as soon as ive eaten my stomach gets so bloated that i look pregnant! could this be due to the ...
A. 7 May 2008: i get the exact same thing as you happen to me daily.
it can be caused by a lot of things.
yes it could be something to do with your pill. i have took birth control pills and thought that was the cause for my hidiously blouted stomach.
theres al... (read in full...)
It still hurts when I think of how little my ex gave me emotionally. how do I get over it?
Q. Hello =] I broke up with my boyfriend of almost 2 years over a month ago. The relationship was pretty much a chore and I always knew he didnt love me as much as I did with him. I always used to spend my money on him but rarely got anythng back. It...
A. 28 April 2008: Thank you to everyone who responded to me. I am happy that I have moved on and Im glad i did the right things. thanks again to everyone who replied. =D More advice from others also would be greatx x x ... (read in full...)
My BF who is a very affectionate person always tells his female friends "I love you." I'm jealous and hurt!
Q. My boyfriend is a very affectionate person and expresses that by telling his woman friends that he loves them. He got me hooked because he always tells me that he is in love with me, but i believe he uses it too carelessly considering he started ...
A. 14 April 2008: He sounds really inconsiderate to me. If i had a boyfriend who did that I wouldnt just tell him how I feel, I would probably break up with him.
He needs to realise that if hes got a girlfriend, his girlfriend should be the only woman he says 'I love... (read in full...)
I want to make out with my boyfriend but I'm scared!!
Q. I want to make out with my boyfriend but i'am really scared to bc i have never done it before and the pressure is really starting to get to me bc all my friends have done but not me and i'am really scared!! what do i do????...
A. 3 April 2008: He's your boyfriend hun. He may be waiting for it too. Just start off casually kissing him. If he wants it too he won't stop you kissing him. You will be all right, but even though all your friends are doing it doesn't mean you have to rush int... (read in full...)
Does my bf want sex with my sister after our threesome??
Q. I gave my bf a threesome and a bj with my sister and both times he touched her first (guess he thought I didn't notice,but says he didn't) now its like when she comes over he looks in her direction frequently and when he talks to me he will turn to ...
A. 23 March 2008: hmm you should sit yourself down with him and get his feelings out. personally i think it was very silly of you to let him have a threesome, especially with your sister who is someone hes going to have to see quite often if hes round your house.
I... (read in full...)
Why do guys break up with their girlfriends once they are comfortable?
Q. hello guys. I have always wondered why men always break up with their girlfriends once they get settled into a relationship. I'd like guys view on this....
A. 22 March 2008: i'm asking people their opinions because i'm interested. and no i don't need to edit anything. ... (read in full...)
Why do guys break up with their girlfriends once they are comfortable?
Q. hello guys. I have always wondered why men always break up with their girlfriends once they get settled into a relationship. I'd like guys view on this....
A. 22 March 2008: no this has nothing to do with breaking up with my boyfriend. I know the real reason already. Just my friends have gone through this and its somehting I would like to understand... (read in full...)
Why do guys break up with their girlfriends once they are comfortable?
Q. hello guys. I have always wondered why men always break up with their girlfriends once they get settled into a relationship. I'd like guys view on this....
A. 22 March 2008: Iv heard that some guys do break up with there girlfriends, once they see a proper commitment is starting, and they get scared and just run away.
thats why i really asked the question. I do believe some men are just scared to stay with that one girl... (read in full...)
He sits with his ex and discusses their past while I'm sitting there! I feel very uncomfortable about it...
Q. Hi, I've been with my boyfriend now for 4 years but the problem is his ex, he spends more time talking to her than what he does to me. She came over one nite and the three of us sat there in my lounge, then they started talking about what it was ...
A. 22 March 2008: What an idiot. I'd say kick him out. Tell him if he hasnt got time for you and always prances around with this ex of his then tell him to just move in with her. You have to give him a bit of a wake up call if you want him to realise how much... (read in full...)
How to "go down" on a guy, I need good tips!
Q. I need good tips on going down on a guy. I know I never do a very good job, but no one has ever told me how so I am not sure if I am even doing it right or at least very good....
A. 20 March 2008: hmm ive heard that guys dont really like it when you actually suck the tip of the penis. My ex told me it was really nice when you make a rotating motion with your tongue over the tip. Also just moving it in and out of your mouth. Try not to scrape ... (read in full...)
Are there just some people who are destined to be alone or who are slated to be unlucky in love?
Q. Help...hoping someone has some insight here. I broke up with a long time boyfriend about three years ago and since then I have had nothing but heartache with guys. It seems like I cannot win no matter how I play it. I really have nothing bad to s...
A. 20 March 2008: Noone is destined to be alone, but perhaps yes, your just having a string of bad luck. Instead of giving up hope, why dont you just forget guys for the meantime. You dont need to be in a relationship to enjoy life. Concentrate on your future. I ... (read in full...)
My friend 'got off' with somebody...what does it mean??
Q. My friend came back from the cinema a couple of days ago saying she had got off with a boy i know. At first i thought it was sex but shes only 13 and it was in the cinema so its unlikely to be that!! I really want to know what it means though. S...
A. 20 March 2008: It means 'made out with' you know snogging and feeling each other up... (read in full...)
He can't stay hard and he is in pain but he won't get help! Suggestions??
Q. Hello, my best friend and I have just been discussing some relationship problems she has been having with her boyfriend, I recommended that we ask the question on here because her boyfriend doesn't seem to want to get help for it. Basically, he has ...
A. 20 March 2008: Just basically say to him
'Go to the doctors or we are going to have to deal with this problem forvermore and we may have to break up becuase of it' I know it does sound harsh, but he needs to realise that he does need help if he wants to stil... (read in full...)
Why won't he listen to me and take some responsibility?
Q. My guy and I are truly connected in mind alot and know alot of how the other is feeling and stuff like that. I know we both are clairvoyant too. Well we have been fine and are doing great so far one thing is bothering me that I have talked to him ...
A. 20 March 2008: He sounds like a typical man to me. Perhaps he really doesnt understand about pregnany and Birth control which is where your going to have to make him understand. Take him to a clinic and get some leaflets. Also...i noticed that you said you couldnt ... (read in full...)
He dropped me to get back with his ex and hasn't explained why to me...I'm really hurting!
Q. ok so theres this guy i have been talking to. And he had just recently stopped talking to an ex girlfriend of 2 years. we met and there was an instant connection we were talking for about 7 months until he just all of a sudden just leaves me to get ...
A. 20 March 2008: He was your safety net. I know its really horrible to accept but, perhaps he still had feelings for his ex and he knew that if he got to know someone else his feelings might change and he will forget about her. But 7 months is a long time to not get ... (read in full...)
Help! I want to marry her, she's pregnant, but she broke up with me because she said she'd waited long enough!
Q. I am SO down. About 3 months ago we found out my fiancee was pregnant. It wasn’t planned and we were scared because we are a bit younger (I am 19, she is 21). But we decided to make the best of it, so we were happy and excited, I moved in with her ...
A. 20 March 2008: Then Marry her. Thats all there is to it. Call her and explain to her how you have been feeling and why you stopped this marriage happening. If you just keep it to yourself your never going to get any further, and she might find someone else. I see ... (read in full...)
I feel I'm his toy, when he doesn't find attention elsewhere?!
Q. Hey, aright so last month this boy really liked me and i liked him, but not as much he liked me. I hookedup with another boy and he gave me another chance, then i did it again with someone else and he fully ended it, he said he didn't want me in his ...
A. 20 March 2008: You should deffinetly move on with your life. You know it upsets you and its boaring a deep whole inside of you and its getting you more and more sad. Sometimes, the people who dont like you are the ones you try most to get attention from. Its a ... (read in full...)
Did he just say yes because it was my birthday?
Q. hey there please can someone help! u see i really like this boy callum and we came friends through a sport that he loves too so we usually used to talk about it in lessons and we built up quite a good friendship. and even though he has a girlfrie...
A. 20 March 2008: Hes a kid..i dont know how old you guys are but if your still at school then, i imagine him still being a kid and quite immature. I doubt he only said that becuase it was your birthday. If he did then thats a pretty nasty way of getting your hopes ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid I won't be able to return to my current relation, if I venture into another that proves unstable. Thus...?
Q. Okay. There are these two guys, A and T.. and i love both of them, but im not sure im actually IN love with them. I've known the one im dating(A) for a little over a year, and i've been dating him for exactly a year, as of yesterday. but theres ...
A. 20 March 2008: It doesnt sound at all that you love your current boyfriend. If you did then you wouldnt have these other feelings for this other guy, who Im guessing becuase youve known for 4 years, is just your friend, but you believe you love him becuase he is ... (read in full...)
Not too sure how to ask her out on an actual date.
Q. hello, I met this girl through a mate last year, we met up 2 times last year but not been out latley. I really like her, we talk on msn when I say bye she siad love you and gave me lots of kisses and on my bebo site she said love you and also put...
A. 20 March 2008: Just ask her sweety. Shes probably waiting for you to pop the question (not marriage obvs ha ha), but I bet she would be delighted to see you again. Go to the movies, or go out shopping in town or go play Crazy Golf, thats always fun.
Just sugg... (read in full...)
I believe I'd be able to fructify a second chance, if it was given to me, but he says he's not ready for a relation!
Q. hiya, i have a really bad problem. i like this boy, and problem is he don't like me in that way, i've been out with him before and it dint really work out, but i really like him and he says he's not ready for any relationships yet please hel...
A. 20 March 2008: Hello hun.
I know how difficult it is to feel like this. My boyfriend recently dumped me, but I still love him and want him back, but i dont think hes ready for a relationship either and the thread looks thin. But that doesnt mean its going to happ... (read in full...)
He confuses me, what should I do?
Q. Hi, I have been talking to someone for about two months and we became really close, he said he liked me and now changed his mind saying he wanted space, he confuses me. What can I do? ...
A. 20 March 2008: Give him his space and respect his needs. Its probably hard and you feel as though you may have been a bit used or tagged along, but there could be two possible reasons why he is asking for space.
The reason which I really hope isnt why is mayb... (read in full...)
I have liked someone for a long time but he's moving away...
Q. I like someone fore a long time now, but i just found out he is moving very soon. What do I do....
A. 20 March 2008: Aww that must be really hard for you. I would be very upset, but sometimes you just have to be realistic about all this. You have liked him for a long time, so im guessing you mean as in Fancy him or have strong feelinsg for him, but hes moving away ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to tell if he likes me back...help!
Q. ok so i like this guy and my best friend told him that i like him but the thing is i don't know how to tell if he likes me back. he keeps trying to start arguments with me and he gives me some weird looks like i'm stupid or something, but once he ...
A. 20 March 2008: hmm i agree with what anonoymous said below...but if hes giving you dirty looks and is trying to cause arguements with you, then it doesnt to me personally sound as though he is interested in you. Im guessing he is your age, so hes probably quite ... (read in full...)
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