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--x--.::. Hiya .::.--x--

.: Here's a tad bit about [me!] :.

xox Age : 17 (nearly 18) in feb

xox [Loves] : [Partner (gawjus boyfwend)], chocolate && Pepsi max

xox Smoke : no

xox Drink : sumtimes ;)

xox Drugs : Never have and [never] will

xox Lives with : Mum, mum bf and brother.

xox [Fave] type of music : all sorts =]

xox I'm in a [Long-Term] relationship with my [partner]. We have currently been together 2 years and 10 months (this sunday). I [love] him to peices! We love each other so much and every moment we spend with each other is the best moments of my life. We have decided to move on in life together which some will have noticed, i know i am young, and my partner is 22 now :), however we are ready and will be able to support a child with care and give a child love, and a house xox

xox I am [glad] to help anyone =] i think it is [important] to get help, especially from people you [dont] know (it's easier to 'open up' to them). I would like to add, if you have a problem with me, please do not mail me calling me names as i dont think it is mature. I will report you! xox

xox Ive had my fair share of problems in my [life].. I have many things that still [hurt] me now. I was raped at the age of 12.. which is another reason to why i want to help people xox

xox If you ever need someone to talk to or maybe just even a friend you can mail me on this site.. =] xox

xox I hope i can help you =] xox

.x. From [Love-Him] .x.

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How can I bring her to orgasm without actually having sex?

Q.   This is more a question to girls than guys but if they have any tips please share them. I've been with my girlfriend 4 months now. We've yet to have sex but we have done other things. Has anyone got any tips on how I could make her orgasm without ...

A.   5 December 2008: Heyy.. Ure both very young however if you are both happy and are oaky with it, then people telling u, that you are too young wont do anything.. many girls struggle to have an orgasm to realy dont go out expecting it to happen with sex either.. the ... (read in full...)

One up the bu*, no harm done. Is this true??

Q.   so I'm kind of confused about anal sex.. me and my girlfriend were joking about it when we first started dating (how gross it is). but then a few months ago my girlfriend told me she wanted to try it with me.. i kind of want to try it, yes because ...

A.   2 December 2008: Heyy 1. The best position for this is the 'doggy' position.. it would hurt less (make sure you use a lot of lube to minimise pain) 2. Just noticed the lube question lol.. durex do a lube in a purble tube (cant remember the name) something tingling... (read in full...)

Need to end relationship, want to minimise hurt.

Q.   Hi I've been dating now for 5 months, a girl i met online of all things, we chatted for a very long time as friends before dating. Things have got very close, we have told each other we love each other and i do love her to bits, its a distance r...

A.   2 December 2008: Heyy, You shouldnt be with someone who you do not wish to be with, and you are not happy with them. You also shouldnt be with someone just because you are upset for finishing her. However i understand fully how you are feeling and how worried you ... (read in full...)

Could this cramping mean I'm pregnant?

Q.   I am new at this so bare with me? I have been cramping for 5 days now and my period isn't due til the 13th! I can't figure out what is going. Is there any chance that I could be pregnant even if I do take every precaution condom, im on the pill!!! ...

A.   2 December 2008: Hey hun, cramping can mean a lot of things, including; periods being close, implantation cramps infection If the pain is bearable and you can cope with it, i would advise you keep an eye on it, wait for your period and if youy dont get it, tak... (read in full...)

Me and my boyfriend have been trying to get pregnant for the last 2-3 months and its just not happening. Should I take a test?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been trying to get pregnant for the last 2-3 months and its just not happening. I guess there is a possibility that I still could be pregnant. But im not sure. I have had my period every month, but I have been getting some ...

A.   2 December 2008: Hey, for the past 7 -8 months i have been trying to concieve with my partner, and the same, has happened, no look. Make sure you and your partner have a healthy diet and try and cut out alcohol and smoking. I hope i helped, feel free to mail me x x ... (read in full...)

Is it normal not to have a baby bump at 8 weeks?

Q.   I am pregnant, my last period was around October.8th so I'm about 8 weeks pregnant right now. My symptoms have got better REALLY fast, tho i still puke at least once a day when i first wake up or at night when i get tired. I thought before my belly ...

A.   2 December 2008: Hey get it checked at a doctors, however, if anything at two months pregnant, some people dont show anything, as the foetus is around the size of a bean. If you are worried, seek medical help. I hope i helped, feel free to mail me x x x... (read in full...)

I'm trying to conceive. Could I be pregnant now?

Q.   Me and my partner have been trying to concieve for the past two months, as i hardly see him, its hard to concieve on that exact day. Last month, we were unlucky as i had my period 3-6th July. Ihave 27 day cycles. i used this website to determin...

A.   23 July 2008: Heyy, sorry i was having a bad day when i read the answers, the day started off well, however things happend. I have updated my profile which was well needed. I appreciate all the answers and have taken them all into consideration. xXx... (read in full...)

I'm trying to conceive. Could I be pregnant now?

Q.   Me and my partner have been trying to concieve for the past two months, as i hardly see him, its hard to concieve on that exact day. Last month, we were unlucky as i had my period 3-6th July. Ihave 27 day cycles. i used this website to determin...

A.   20 July 2008: can i just ADD i am 18 soon .... (read in full...)

I'm trying to conceive. Could I be pregnant now?

Q.   Me and my partner have been trying to concieve for the past two months, as i hardly see him, its hard to concieve on that exact day. Last month, we were unlucky as i had my period 3-6th July. Ihave 27 day cycles. i used this website to determin...

A.   20 July 2008: I am with my 22 year old boyfriend and have been for the past 2 years three months. ALL I WANTED was advice. not people telling me i shudnt be doin it. i DONT have a dead end job AT ALL.. cant you people just give ADVICE on the QUESTION and not on ... (read in full...)

I had my copper coil misfitted and did have unprotected sex before my first check up - your advice, please!

Q.   Okay, 6 weeks ago, i got the copper coil, which was painful to have put in, (im 17 and never had a child) and then at my check up yesterday they found it actualy was half way out meaning i wasnt protected at all. I have been having a lot of unprotec...

A.   11 June 2008: Thanks for your answers :) yeah i will make an appointment at my doctors but they are realy slow so it will be a while before i get seen, however the family planning is weekly and walk in, however i will see the same lady.. I will see how it goes, ... (read in full...)

He has problems with condoms and I have problems with the pill, are there any alternatives?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and we've been having sex for about 5 months. At first we used condoms eveytime but a lot of the time he would go soft just after he put one on. We stupidly did it a few times with him pulli...

A.   30 April 2008: HEY!! Ive just last night got the IUD coil, and i will tell you my experience.. I just got the T SAFE 380 last night, i am 17 and have never had a child. It hurt so much!! I didnt scream, but i kept saying ohh please do it quicker.. I didnt ge... (read in full...)

My boyfriend always wants to have sex, what should I do?

Q.   What should i do?? My boyfriend always wants 2 have sex... And i dont wat should i do??...

A.   18 April 2008: HEY!! You need to tell him you dont want to.. if anything, make an excuse up, say you are too tired.. Dont let him pressure you into anything!! GOOD LUCK!! Feel free to mail me about anything x x x... (read in full...)

I had a period, but could I still be pregnant?

Q.   I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend 4 days before my period was due. He came in me. 3 times. I did get my period, but I'm still a bit worried that this doesn't definitely mean I'm not pregnant? Is there a chance I am? ...

A.   18 April 2008: HEY!! Go to your doctor and they will take a test.. that is the only way you can be SURE.. :) GOOD LUCK!! Feel free to mail me about anything x x x... (read in full...)

I can't erect when with my girlfriend please help!

Q.   so this just started like 2 weeks ago. now i never had a problem getting rock hard before and i can get hard to beat off but just not when we wana have sex. i dont know why or whats wrong. if i watch porn it goes right up and everythings ok but with ...

A.   18 April 2008: HEY!! Ive heard this problem a lot.. are you under stress at all? you could try medication.. but i suggest if you are going to do that then go to your gp.. Think about your lifestyle and see if there are any bits which have meant you have chan... (read in full...)

I fantasise about my teacher... should I tell him?...

Q.   hiii well i'm a student and im 15 taking my GCSEs and im going to be leaving school in june and going to a diff college. Anyways i really like my english teacher but i'm not sure what to do, i really do like him ive even had dreams which repeat the...

A.   16 April 2008: HEY!! Babe do NOT tell him!! Trust me it will only make things soo much worse!! i know you think it isnt a crush, and you may prove us all wrong that it isnt, but not while you are still at the school and under 16.. It will get you both into trou... (read in full...)

My boyfrind might be gay! What am I going to do? Can I make him straight?

Q.   Im so worried My Boy Friends Gay, Im his first GirlFriend and he always used to get teased and called gay, and resently he told me hes not so sure him self! I dont know what to do! he says he loves me, but if he was gay i dont know how id cope ...

A.   16 April 2008: HEY !! You can't make him straight.. If he is gay and not BISEXUAL then there is no future in your relationship, but that doesn't mean you can't stay good friends and support him with coming out ?? GOOD LUCK !! Feel free to mail me at any time x x ... (read in full...)

Anal is painful whereas in our previous relationships we both have enjoyed it, what shall I do?

Q.   Hi i am a 21 year old male and i have a very embarassing problem that threatens to wreck my love life and my sexual life. My boyfriend's penis will not fit into my bottom which is causing a lot of stress for us both. We both do oral sex but anal sex ...

A.   16 April 2008: HEY !! Like all the other answers, the best thing to do, is use a lubricant which is designed for anal sex.. Relax.. Use small toys and gradually get bigger.. I hope i helped, GOOD LUCK Feel free to mail me at any time x x x... (read in full...)

I'm thinking of having anal sex with a man so I can experience what my GF feels with me...

Q.   I'm thinking of having anal sex with a guy so i can experience what my gf does with me .will i get the same sensation?...

A.   16 April 2008: HEY !! Don't cheat on your missus !! It will hurt her a lot.. If you are experimenting then you should break up with her for a while and then experiment.. That is the only way i would find it okay.. From where you have said 'what my gf does with... (read in full...)

Why won't he get help for his problem? He isn't into sex much anymore...

Q.   Okay here's my problem -- my boyfriend of over three years isn't into sex much any more and occasionally will lose his erection when we do have sex. I have tried everything I can do to help but nothing works and I am starting to feel like I'm the ...

A.   16 April 2008: HEY !! Is he going through quite a bit of stress at the moment ?? My partner of two years has been under a lot of stress at work and has completely lost his sex drive (at 21).. Does your partner masturbate regularly ?? This could affect the erec... (read in full...)

What can I do about my bf's crazy ex?

Q.   My boyfriend has this crazy ex girlfriend who told him she was pregnant after they broke up, she wasn't. They've been broken up for about three years and did not talk during that time. She found him on myspace a few months ago and gave him this ...

A.   16 April 2008: HEY !! I know what you mean!! talk to your partner and ask him why he has renewed his friendship with her (if he has) and why not change his number? or is it on a contract? The only way i can think of, is if he ignores her.. she will eventually go a... (read in full...)

Are blood pregnancy tests accurate?

Q.   Are blood pregnancy tests accurate?...

A.   14 April 2008: HEY !! Yes they are if they are done by a professional person :) x x x... (read in full...)

Should I press rape charges against my cousin (I got a rape test done 3 years ago), especially now that he has 3 little sisters? Afraid of my family's reaction.

Q.   Okay, about 3 years ago my cousin and his friend raped me, and I really want to press charges ( I got a rape kit test done) however, i'm not sure my family would approve being as he is my cousin and all......now I know I should do it because he has ...

A.   14 April 2008: Hi, firstly.. who realy and truly cares if his family.. dont like the fact that you will press charges!!! he raped you and they should be disgusted in you.. so take that out of your mind!! You need to let your parents know or a good best friend ... (read in full...)

Is this what I get for being a good woman? It's not fair!

Q.   I wish I was like my BF, truly... He hates my past. He also dislikes the fact that I lied a bit about it, but he has lied to me too, so he can't really criticize me for that. But he is practically disgusted with some things I did. Now he s...

A.   14 April 2008: HEY!! From what you are saying, he is like what my partner was at the begining of our 2 year relationship.. how long has he been acting like this (the love thing)? you need to say to him.. look.. the past is the past.. let go of it.. when he says... (read in full...)

What would you do??? Feeling nauseous ever since I read his ex's f'book messages..

Q.   i looked at my boyfriends ex-girlfriends facebook profile last night and was very surprised to see that he had commented on her wall (a space where you leave messages)... he must delete the posts she makes on his wall so i cannot read them or ...

A.   14 April 2008: HEY !! Do you have access to his personal part of face book? he may have had the wall private.. and you MUST confrunt him.. if you dont it will eat you inside and make you feel worse than ever!! Tell him what you have found.. i know it will hurt... (read in full...)

Is it bad to still be a virgin at 13?

Q.   I'm a 13yr old girl and I'm still a virgin.Is this bad?I'm worried about me because my friends are already having sex with boys at 13 and 14....

A.   28 March 2008: HEY!! Babe it is realy bad for you to have to ask this!! Of course it isnt bad, it is healthy, legal, and means you respect your body!! Mail me if you would like to talk x... (read in full...)

Is it best to wait forever to lose my virginity with someone important to me or just go for it within the next 6 months...?

Q.   I'm 16 I'd like detailed answers to this question please: Is it best to wait forever to lose my virginity with someone important to me and therefore probably never lose it as I am so unattractive, OR just go for it within the next 6 months even...

A.   18 March 2008: HEY!! Babe! not everyone goes for looks, HONESTLY! please dont just think that you should lose it whenever, because you may regret this in the future!.. Think carefully, and if i was you, i would wait until that special person, and if it never happ... (read in full...)

Is he with me only for sex, if he has an erection every time he sees or touches me?

Q.   My boyfriend gets an erection each time he sees or touches me, is that a good sign? or does it mean he is with me just for sex. i need much response from the male sex....

A.   11 March 2008: HEY!! Babe he finds you attractive.. a compliment!!! Feel free to mail me at any time x x x... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is premature - anything we can do?

Q.   My boyfriend suffers with pre ejaculation, what can i do to help stop this?...

A.   11 March 2008: HEY!! Just wondering.. but is saying premature right? anyway.. He may be under stress so that may be one of the reasons, meaning try calm him down more.. use a lot of fore play towards you.. to get you 'nearly there'.. things like that :) my boyf... (read in full...)

Should I tell my parents about the stress and that I have a BF already who supports me?

Q.   well... im 12 and my boyfriend is 16. ive been through hell at this age and he's the only one who's there for me. i'm not sure if i should tell my parents or what. please help me. and if you think i'm too young, my mind is much more adapted then you ...

A.   10 March 2008: HEY!! I honestly think you should not tell them the age of your boyfriend because they will have very strong feelings against him.. he is 16 and you are a young age of 12.. if anything sexual happens it is illegal.. But yes tell them about your stre... (read in full...)

I'm pregnant, but torn between two men. Which do I choose?

Q.   (Well first of all I have to mention that I am pregnant with my first child and this makes this issue so much hardier. ) I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 years and we always have problems and bicker at eachother constantly. When we moved in ...

A.   9 March 2008: HEY!! You have just said that he beats you, then that should be enough to make you want to leave, but do it now, before he finds out about you playing around.. it would be safer for the child, and the father should help financially for his chil... (read in full...)

Annoyed and I need HELP!

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 4 months about to go on 5. Well, I never really got annoyed about this before but all the sudden lately I've been just wanting to yell at him to STOP!. He always says "you silly girl"... or just "silly ...

A.   7 March 2008: HEY!! My partner of two years calls me stupid and stupid b***h.. Tell him you arent happy about him calling you and saying that your silly..! GOOD LUCK :)!! Feel free to mail me about anything x x... (read in full...)

We both have braces... could we get "stuck"?

Q.   I am about to get braces and this guy that I'm with has braces also but if we both have braces will we get stuck? or caught?...

A.   7 March 2008: HEY!! Not sure if thats just a myth, but just to be sure.. Kiss lightly, dont kiss so hard that your teeth clash togther.. If you understand? GOOD LUCK :)!! Feel free to mail me about anything x x... (read in full...)

He wants to take friends on vacation with us!

Q.   Lately the man I'm dating this year has asked me to go on vacation with him for some days. We haven't made definite plans but we discuss this. Sometimes he mentions that it will be fun if we go for a trip and have some of our friends with us. I ...

A.   7 March 2008: HEY!! Talk about it, and make an overall decision which hopefully you both agree on, meaning, this time maybe on your own, next time, with your friends? GOOD LUCK :)!! Feel free to mail me about anything x x... (read in full...)

I am almost 9 months pregnant and caught my husband cheating with text sex...

Q.   I am nearly nine months' pregnant and caught my husband cheating with text sex. We've been together eight years and married for nearly five. He's 10 years younger hadn't had any serious relationships before me and wants to live by himself but still ...

A.   7 March 2008: HEY!! Look after yourself babe!! Make sure you are okay :) Feel free to mail me about anything x x... (read in full...)

Is it normal for a relationship to start to change after just 3 months? What I mean is less phone calls, fewer texts and fewer "I love you's?

Q.   Is it normal for a relationship to start to change after just 3 months? What I mean is less phone calls, fewer texts and fewer "I love you's". I should start by telling you that I have self-esteem issues,i'm overly sensitive,abando...

A.   7 March 2008: HEY!! If it starts off with all the love etc straight away then yea it can decrease.. but that doesnt necesarily mean she doesn love you still.. just isnt telling you as much.. GOOD LUCK :)!! Feel free to mail me about anything x x... (read in full...)

Confused about what to do...

Q.   I have been married for 7 years and I have not been good to my wife. I want to work things out but everytime I try I screw up. I have made my wife's life hell ever since I got back from Iraq. My question is what do I do? Do I keep going down this ...

A.   7 March 2008: HEY!! You are so very brave and our country are proud of you xx you should try and talk to a councillor about your problems and hopefully that will help your relationship.. WELL DONE and GOOD LUCK :)!! Feel free to mail me about anything x x... (read in full...)

How can I get him to stop hating me?

Q.   hi all, my ex and I split up about 6 months ago and he still hates me and wants nothing to do with me even though we were really good friends before going out. I feel like I must be a really horrible person to make him act like this (and he has...

A.   7 March 2008: HEY!! Let go of him.. im not sure why he hates you so much? Not all men will be like this with you, but also i dont know that many men who would stay friends with an ex because it causes too much heartbreak and rememberance.. GOOD LUCK :)!! Fee... (read in full...)

What are some good sex positions?

Q.   wat are good sex positions?...

A.   7 March 2008: HEY!! Go on google, and search kama sutra.. :) But DoubleM is right, for the US you r too young i think :S GOOD LUCK :)!! Feel free to mail me about anything x x... (read in full...)

A girl wants to meet with him and I'm really upset!

Q.   i have been in a relationship now for 3years and i jus took my bf's mobile from his house and it turns out that there is a girl wantin to meet upwith him tht he and i both know i want to smack her, i am seriously upset and i jus dnt no wot to think ...

A.   7 March 2008: HEY!! Talk to your partner about this.. the same thing happened to us, my partners ex wanted to get with him and meet up with him.. Just ask what he is going to do.. and see what happens.. When you see this girl, dont use physical violence.. just... (read in full...)

My girl is my world...but she wants a break...what should I do?

Q.   My girlfriend and I have been having problems for about a month or longer. We have been fighting and carrying on but recently she told me she wanted a break. This absoloutely crushed me to pieces. The only way that I was able to cope with this ...

A.   7 March 2008: HEY!! She has gone about this in the wrong way, but if she has actualy told you she has fallen out of love, you need to accept this babe! i know it will be realy realy hard for you but this sort of thing does often happen in a relationship.. You ... (read in full...)

I am almost 9 months pregnant and caught my husband cheating with text sex...

Q.   I am nearly nine months' pregnant and caught my husband cheating with text sex. We've been together eight years and married for nearly five. He's 10 years younger hadn't had any serious relationships before me and wants to live by himself but still ...

A.   6 March 2008: HEY!! You shouldn't have to deal with this, not only because you are pregnant but also because he is meant to be your loyal husband. Talk to him, tell him you know, and you want the truth.. He has risked a lot by doing this! GOOD LUCK!! Feel fre... (read in full...)

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