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How should I tell my parents I'm bisexual and have a girlfriend?

Q.   How do I tell my parents that I am Bisexual? In the past two years, I have been experiencing feels towards, not only guys, but girls too. Now I may only be 14, but I know my feelings. but I don't know how to tell my mom and dad. they have always s...

A.   22 June 2007: i think that you should just folow you're heart with what you think that you should do. if you're scared, but you know you're parents are cool with it then, maybe subconsciencly you are ashamed of her. maybe deep down you're feeling guilty because ... (read in full...)

My ex has started seeing a new girl but is still calling me

Q.   Hi Im Amanda and for about a week i was getting phone calls from my ex boyfriend.We had broken up several times and after about a month apart he'd call and sweet talk until i'd agree to go back out with him.After he'd been calling for a week i found ...

A.   22 June 2007: i think he's just you're average player. does'nt care about anyone but himself. he's just playing games with your head. i hope that he leaves you alone because you may end up falling for him again. well good lluck!! ... (read in full...)

I love him but he doesn't seem to care either way

Q.   i have split up with my partner two days ago because of the way he treats me. we don't live together, however, i know his not cheating on me. he dose not come down to see me, instead he tells me to come down to see him all the time. he has said some ...

A.   22 June 2007: i think that he's showing all the signs that he doesn't love you , but it's really up to you to decide if you're going to do something about it. i know the pain that you're going through and i wish you the best of luck. i hope that you two work ... (read in full...)

I feel depressed and don't know why

Q.   Hi, I am a 21 year old female. I have been dating my boyfriend for 15 months now .our relationship has recently become serious. We have slept together, he said he loved me 4 months into the relationship and says he wants to marry me someday. He i...

A.   22 June 2007: do you know if you could be pregenant? it's something to consider. i hope that you figure out what the problem is. GOOG LUCK! xoxo rachal... (read in full...)

How do you french kiss? All tips welcome.

Q.   how do u french kiss? i really need some tips/advice cuz its been about 4- years sence i french kissed someone and i forgot how, my boyfriend asked me if i knew how to french kiss and i said no the he said he wuz ganna french kiss me until i said i ...

A.   15 June 2007: you shouldn't be kissing boys at your age anyway. but you should just go w/ what feels right. i wish you the best of luck. xoxo rachal... (read in full...)

Is he scared to date me because I'm a freshman and he's a junior?

Q.   I like this guy in my high school. One of my best friends asked him if he likes me back and he said sort of. Sometimes my crush does things to get my attention. He does things to be near me. He stares and stalks me. The problem is he says he has a ...

A.   15 June 2007: i think that his "girlfriend" is just a wall that he put up so he wouldn't get too attached. because as people mature they tend to want a long lasting relationship, and once he is 18, you'll be around 16 and illegal. so yeah to answer your question ... (read in full...)

I dont want to date her anymore, let alone go to the dinner party, how do I get out of it politely ?

Q.   I've been invited to a dinner party ona date yet to be confirmed with the girl I've been seeing. I suggested dates I could make. It's primarily her friends attending the dinner. I no longer want to see this girl and I don't want to go to the ...

A.   14 June 2007: i think that you should just tell her the truth instead of waiting for along time. the longer you wait the harder it will be to break it off. GOOD LUCK! XOXOXOXO RACHAL ... (read in full...)

Should I get him a fathers day gift even though hes not the biological father ?

Q.   hey. well im 15, i was 15 in march just gone and i have the bestest boyfriend in the whole wide world. ever. and i love him lots and lots. we have the sweetest most beautiful baby girl, who is just 6 weeks old named taylor and she is adorable. we ...

A.   14 June 2007: yes i think that you should get him something for fathers day! i have a step-father and he treats me as if i were his biological daughter. i love him dearly and know it would crush him if i didn't get him something for father's day. it doesn't ... (read in full...)

Was I in the wrong for doubting her after receiving a tip off ?

Q.   Well, its me again. I was the one who received the email about my girlfriend cheating on me. To recap: I received an email that said look in her myspace inbox in september. I found some incriminating evidence, it supported the accus...

A.   14 June 2007: i think that (not to be rude) there was trust missing from the relationship on both ends. my opinion is that a relationship s built on trust, and w/out that as the foundation, it crumbles. i'm sorry that you had to break up w/ her, but you had a ... (read in full...)

He's depressed! How do I apologise and get him back?

Q.   hi what am i to do??? he is so depressed and is pretty much staying indoors or working only not seeing his mates or anybody.... yet i want him back... i apologise.... how do i convince him i mean it??...

A.   14 June 2007: i think that you should do something like really out going to show that you really care about him. i mean do something that no one else would even think bout doing. it will make him start thinking about your sincerity. good luck!... (read in full...)

Is it bad I lack experience, sex wise... never done anything with boys

Q.   Im 16 and i have Never had a boy finger me or me do anything for a boy.. seems like everyone else has and i feel embarresed to say that ''i lack in sexual experience'' when personally i dont care but when people ask me.. i get ambarresed.. is this ...

A.   14 June 2007: no it's not a bad thing! in fact i give you props! all my friends are like the rebels at our high school (don't ask me how i got in their crowd) and almost all of them have done everything[and i mean EVERYTHING] but when they ask me, we all end up ... (read in full...)

He needs space before the next step and I am so confused!!

Q.   My boyfirend of three years has asked for some time. We are supposed to move in together this December and i am starting school by his house this summer. He said that he loves me but just wnats to be sure that this is it. We still talk a little on ...

A.   14 June 2007: i think that you should give him time. he may not want to rush into things because your friendship w/ each other could be jeopardized. wouldn't you rather wait and have everything turn out good, instead of rushing and everything turning out ... (read in full...)

I keep telling myself that I don't like him but it keeps getting harder... there are two problems!

Q.   There is his boy who i think that i may like, but im not too sure. He's sweet and funny and last night we talked on msn for 8 hours! I keep telling myself that i dont like him but its getting harder now. Also there are two problems. One is that i ...

A.   13 June 2007: i think that you should follow your heart. i used to like a guy that everyone( including my parents) thought was ugly. i shouldn't have listened to them because their thoughts andopinions became MY thoughts and opinions. just do what you think is ... (read in full...)

I turned 15 in March and have a baby girl. I've now found out I'm pregnant AGAIN!

Q.   dear cupids. well im chelsea, and i know ya gunna think im a slag whilst reading this but i am just after advice not a lecture. i was 15 in march and my boyfriend is 17 in july we have been together for nearli two years and we have a georgous...

A.   13 June 2007: i don't think that you should get an abortion because that is tecniquly KILLING the baby. at least consider telling them that you are pregnant, but are going to put it up for adoption. i mean you were the one having sex, not your baby. dont make it ... (read in full...)

Is my husband making a mountain out of a molehill by complaining about these things?

Q.   Been married for 5 years together for 7, I have a 19 1/2 year old son and a 171/2 year old daughter, their real dad (a lowlife but they love him) only lives 20 minutes away. My current husband, I feel targets my 20 year old constantly with tedious ...

A.   13 June 2007: yes youre right there are worse problems that your son could be getting himself into. i think your husband is an ass for taking out thing like that on you. accidents happen. and if he is on everyone else's case then that is just showing that he has ... (read in full...)

Do guys sometimes develop feelings with their close female friends?

Q.   Do guys sometimes develop feelings/crushes on close girl friends over time? I was wondering especially if this happens when you're young (in your teens), and what sort of things can provoke this change? I am not asking this with any intention of ...

A.   13 June 2007: i think that if a guy is good friends w/ a girl then he's around her a lot, so he'll start noticing that they are more compatable then he first realized. he might just start liking her w/out a probable cause and w/out warning. guys are some... (read in full...)

I'm sick of people telling me I shouldn't go out than someone younger than 18 or 20.

Q.   I am 22 year old male and have a fair few 16 year old female friends. Now I have been told that this is stupid as they are all jail bait for relationships. Am I wrong if I like a 16 year old lass and would that be classed as being a pervert. I just ...

A.   13 June 2007: i'm 15 and i have an older friend who is 19, and he's hit on me a few times so i flirt back, i think that as long as you don't try to force her into doing something that she doesn't want to do then you should be fine. and it's only illegal if ... (read in full...)

What are the dating rules for belching and farting?

Q.   I need your help. I have started the process of dating after being widowed. I am now in my mid 40's and dating has changed significantly... I recently met a man online and we have been seeing each other for 2 months now. Things are going...

A.   13 June 2007: OMFG! that is so discusting! ifeel terribly for you. the man may be maly and what not, but that is just unexcusable. i think that if he refuses to quit, and if you asked him a numerous amount of time that he just doesn't have any respect for you.... (read in full...)

He is giving mixed signals. Is he attracted to me?

Q.   Is he attracted to me? I really feel like a goofy teenager again. I started a new job and have developed a crush on one of my colleagues. Its started off as a few harmless pranks I played on him, but under the laughter I realized I fancied him. He ...

A.   12 June 2007: i think you should just let him make the first move. my last bf was the new kid in school, but already had a lot of friends so there was no reason to open up to just me. well he really liked me but would'nt make a move because of problems that he ... (read in full...)

I miss the way we were, the way he was towards me when we first started dating.

Q.   HEY.. Me and my boyfriend have been together quite a while. i fell for who he was and he fell for who i was. More i got into the relationship i kind of got really attached . I'm always pissed at him for little things, like little things that...

A.   12 June 2007: i know what it's like at the beggining of the relationship. you feel like you're on top of the world, but then things start to fall apart, he starts letting you slip from a priority to a thing he'll get back to later. believe me, you need to just ... (read in full...)

Why is my ex suddenly contacting me?

Q.   So, now my ex and I are at a point where I've tried getting over her and i was slightly successful (very recent breakup). But out of no where she begins to contact me once or twice a day for about 6 days straight. I'm here thinking, oh my god, maybe ...

A.   12 June 2007: i think that you should just forget her. but believe me i know that it's not going to be easy. i think it was pretty rude of her just to assume that she was always on your mind. but things wil get better. just give it some time okay? good luck.... (read in full...)

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