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writes:I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 23. He wears my bikinis all the time, and even says he wants to wear them in public.He also insists he's not gay, or a cross-dresser, and that wearing bikinis is right - and that men should do it.What should I do?? HELP!!suzy in florida Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2008): OK but if he does wear the top also how about the tan lines?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008): It's no big deal. If he just wears the bottoms it would be like wearing a Speedo or any men's bikini and there's a lot of men's bikinis where I live in Florida. In fact some skinny guys would probably look better in a girl's bikini because it would fit better than a guy's which are usually made for bigger guys.
If he wants to wear the top also, then I would say OK, but he probably identifies with something in his life that makes him want to wear a 2 pc bikini like a girl. If he's in shape and wants to, who cares. In fact it might start a new fashion trend. I've seen big breasted guys that should wear a bra top. I would never judge someone for what they wear. What's the big deal. It's only cloth. It's what's inside that counts.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2007): Maybe deep down inside he feels like a woman and not a man. You should ask him.
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female
reader, penta +, writes (27 May 2007):
 It sounds like he has a fetish. This may not be a problem -- he's clearly still into you. At least make him buy his own bikinis! But if it bugs you, bail. He's not going to change, and you shouldn't have to either.
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reader, DV1 +, writes (27 May 2007):
 He may be bi-curious, bi, or gay. He may be curious about experimenting. It's not normal. I think that you should look for someone who can be a man for you.
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reader, candy00s  +, writes (27 May 2007):
 Ive never actually seen a guy in a bikini before! Try and talk about this find out why he feels the need to wear a bikini. He's saying he is not a cross dresser but it sounds like he might be even if he wont actually label himself as one.
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