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writes:Hi!! Back in October a 5 month relationship ended because we decided to give each other a little space.On one weekend I went to an ex's house because he was having a get together with a few friends. Sketchy as it sounds nothing at all happened!! I know I shouldn't of gone there out of respect for who I was with and obviously the man I was with didn't believe me when he found out (people who were also at this get together told him where I was). Anyway we had a HUGE argument and we ended the relationship. I assumed he hated me and never wanted to speak to me again. And on the weekend just gone I seen him out as we were both on our work Christmas party's , and all my feelings came rushing back , I was going to tell him whilst we was out but I couldn't bring myself to talk to him.Anyway , we both ended up at different clubs and I text him saying I missed him and I still care and have feelings.I basically said I had to get it off my chest and I didn't care what he felt I just needed to tell him that I miss him. And he texted me back in the morning saying 'where has this come from?'So I said it's because I seen him. We had a normal conversation it was like we were back together. But I've not heard from him since last night but I really need to know where I stand without sounding annoying ?? What do I say? Please can someone give me an idea of where to start and what to ask him?? I really want him back !! Because really it's my fault we are not together.
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reader, N91 +, writes (12 December 2016):
 I'm sure he would of told you he missed you as well if he does. Sounds like he's moved on.
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (12 December 2016):
 The ball is in his court, so you need to step back and let him decide if HE wants to try again or not.
I'd say if he doesn't contact you over this next week, he is definitely NOT interested in getting back together and YOU need to accept and respect that.
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reader, Denizen +, writes (12 December 2016):
 It looks like he has moved on. I think he would have got back to you after your admission of missing him if he were still interested.
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