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Archived questions from: 6 October, 2009 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

My ex reappeared after telling me to back off, only to leave when I asked questions!

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6 October 2009 (F) - My ex kicked me out of our home 6 weeks ago, but after a week gave the impression he wanted to work on things we saw each other, and slept together, only for 2 weeks later to turn around and tell me he didnt know his feelings anymore.In that time I ...

I'm not sure if he really is into me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - I am 21yrs an hav a 7mth old baby, my baby's daddy an i are not the best of friends now, but presently i occasionally see my ex beginning since over a year ago, i havent seen him since i was pregnant though but we do hav plans to see each other ...

How can I get over being so controlling? Is it justified?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

6 October 2009 (M) - This woman was my first real relationship. Real as In a person I could see myself marrying. I grew up with no father and my mom a abused me and ditched me. My best friend who was also a chick ditched me. And my first real girlfriend used me cheated ...

Should I go back to her or move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5318 days ago

6 October 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid Im stuck and dont know what to do, I'm in a realtionship I thought I was happy in and now my world has been turned upside down. My ex has come back to me wanting me back. Now the long story. We been together 3 years, Was very goo...

Ex doesn't believe the baby is his and treats me very badly

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - My ex was supposed to pay half a deposit for a pregnancy antenatal visit. He had agreed (prior to breaking up) to pay half then 1 hr before the appointment today he decided to go back on his words and not pay...meaning I am now trying to get any ...

I can't stand his ex!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - I am obsessed with my partners ex girlfriend. I keep on looking at her web site, her facebook and myspace account. I call her on private number and text her pretending to be someone else to try and get information and to make her think that i don't ...

My ex and I are trying to rekindle our relationship, how can I show him I wont hurt him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - im in a very complicated situation with my ex boyfriend. we are having a baby together. the baby is due in february. and right now we are trying to rekindle our relationship. right now, it feels that we're only doing that for the baby, which isnt...

After being in an abusive relationship I'm scared that maybe all guys are like that and I deserve that kind of relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - Okay, I am 16 and I was recently involved in an abusive relationship with a guy a year younger than I am. I normally don't date younger do to their immaturity level because however I am on a higher level then most my age. Everything was perfect ...

Did he think he was going to get sex again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - My ex and I recently decided to be friends again after one year of no communication. I quit talking to him because he didn't want to commit, stringing me along and messing with my feelings. He contacted me asking if we could still be friends and we ...

Could this really be it after 8 years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

6 October 2009 (M) - ok after 8 yrs my girl said its over .yeah we had or problems in the past just minor stuff arguing nothing crazy shes the girl that changed everything about me over that time. she has always gave in when we argued before but now she wont even return ...

How can I get him back without pushing him away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5321 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - I need help... I'm in love with a guy, our past is pretty messed up... (he's cheated once while drunk, etc) ... we've fought off an on since then about petty crap and the same issue (cheating). He made amends when it came to cheating, though...

How can I end this cycle?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - I'd been seeing this guy i work with for about 2 months when he decided to go back to his ex. We weren’t sleeping together because i don’t believe in it, and this was an issue for him. We’re different in our backgrounds-reli...

I just can't be with him anymore. How can I get him out of my head?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - I need to move on and I know that. The man I was seeing (fallen in love with) was separated and going through a divorce. He asked me out and I accepted and we had the most fantastic 5 months together. His ex started threatening to move away with ...