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Archived questions from: 11 October, 2009 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

The guy I was dating dumped me after we had sex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - I am really hurting--but I know I have to go on and forget this. I just don't know how. I was dating a man for two months and really fell for him. I cared about him very much and he told me he was very attracted to and interested in me. One ...

I broke up with my boyfriend because of my parents but I want him back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do.I am scare of my parents.I just broke up with my bf and stay with my parents now. They don't like my bf but now I want to back with my bf. I don't know how to tell my parents.They will upset. I am scare.Specially my ...

I have been with this guy four years and he lies about talking to his ex! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - please help. I have been with my guy for about 4 years now. the problem is he is still very much in contact with his ex who he was only with for a year! he has met up with her behind my back and they are always txting and calling eachother.. he l...

What happened and why is it so hard to move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for almost 2 years . I have had a lot of loss over the last 4 years which caused me not to be in a relationship for a longtime . I felt all these years of being alone and I mean alone I didnt go out at all or date ...

Does my ex still really love me or does he just "want some"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - So me and my ex have been broken up for about two months. Ever since the break up I've regretted it and i have tried to do ANYTHING that I can to get him back. He has only told me that he doesnt feel the same way about me anymore and has pushed me ...

My ex is confusing me! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

11 October 2009 (M) - me and my ex broke up a couple months ago after she cheated on me with the same guy she left to be with me. Over time I forgave her and tried to be friends. We would text each other every now and then. A few weeks ago she texts me and says she made ...

I am cheating and want to be with my lover but it seems like he is backing off!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

11 October 2009 (?) - I am a 38 yr old women. I have been married for 18 yrs now, I have been seeing someone that is 9 yrs younger than me. I am so in love with this guy. He has shown me how I should really be loved. Just recently he told me that he loves me but he can't ...

What do you think is going on in her mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

11 October 2009 (M) - I had been seeing my girlfriend for 2 years - we broke up in April of this year - I suspected that she had been meeting with someone else for a while - as things hadnt been good for a while - she seemed to be trying to cause an argument all the time ...

How do I move forward in a positive way after divorcing a sex addict?.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - I want to know how to move forward without guilt after divorcing my husband of 20 years because of a sex addiction he had. I want to feel less guilt that I ended the relationship even though he wanted to work on it and try. He is still in ...

Sexual desire for my ex is still so strong, is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

11 October 2009 (M) - My girlfriend of 2 years split up with me a couple of weeks ago and it was very very painful. Anyway, we met up yesterday for coffee- for no other reson than to try and clear the air a little so we could both move on (we both live and work in a ve...

How can I get her to take my calls without fake blackmailing her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

11 October 2009 (M) - After breakup i called her my ex-girlfriend last night. we talked for hours. i got her taking my call by blackmailed her that i would call her dad that she was having affair with me for years. when i tried to take my call being nice with her she ...

I broke up with him because he is a mama's boy, but now I want him back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - please help! I am so confuse now. I been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we love each other so much.(I mean I do love him so much). But I broke up with him yesterday.We live in Puerto Rico and yesterday I move back in Arizona with my parents.But I ...

Am I being abused?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - I recently broke up with my boyfriend. Things in the relationship were fine at first but then he started acting very strange. He started getting very jealous whenever I would hang out with male friends but said that it was because he was afraid of ...

He said I remind him of his ex-gf!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - Okay, so there is this guy that I like but we're not dating. And one day, we were chatting on MSN and he suddenly said that I'm so much like his ex-girlfriend... =.=''' He's really nice and he doesn't talk bad about his ex, but I somewhat hav...