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Please could someone out there give me some advice whether to finish with my current boyfriend and get back with my ex or stay with him...

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Question - (19 September 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 September 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Help. I'm currently in a relationship with my boyfriend and we have been together for 9 months now. Latey we are arguing quite a lot. Since we've got together his family have treated me outstanding as if I'm one of them and me and his sister have become best friends but... I had a phone call the other day off an ex boyfriend to say he had finished with his girlfriend and wants me back. We have been in love since I met him and even cheated just to be with each other but then we lost contact because his girlfriend stopped all contact with me as you can imagine.

I was single at the time and told him I would wait for him but a few months down the line I got with my current partner. At this moment in time I'm really confused and don't know what to do, I want to get back with my ex because he treats be nicer than my current partner and I know for a fact he loves me unlike this one. Also my ex treats me the same in front of everyone, my current boyfriend doesn't, he's different when with his family then different again when with his friends then different again with me and it does my head in! Please could someone out there give me some advice whether to finish with my current boyfriend and get back with my ex or stay with him... Please help me!!!!

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A female reader, red1982 United Kingdom +, writes (20 September 2007):

Hi honey

I would say that neither of these guys sound's right for you. Waiting around until a boy dumps his girlfriend to be with you is not a good thing to do. If he's cheated on her with you - he may cheat on you with someone else. And if he took that long to break up with her then he obviously liked her a lot.

If your new boyfriend doesn't treat you nicely then dump him. There are a lot of great guys out there so go out and have some fun, find one that treats you nicely and isn't a cheater.

Take care

xx

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A female reader, SusieQ1970 United Kingdom +, writes (20 September 2007):

You don't say why you broke up with your ex.

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A male reader, aftamath96 United Kingdom +, writes (20 September 2007):

If ur ex made ur happier then go 4 it!!!!!!!!!!

Gaz

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