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Archived questions from: 17 May, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

I don't know how to break up with her in a peacful matter that'll work out fine for both of us.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5470 days ago

17 May 2009 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for almost a year now. We're both still young. We moved into an apartment after about four months of dating, it's both of our first times on our own and we're completely dependent on each other. The entire spark, the ...

How do I get rid of his current crazy girlfriend???

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17 May 2009 (F) - I dated this guy named Rj, before we started dating we were the best of friends. I knew once we got in a relationship, it would ruin everything. He would constantly ask me out, saying i was the perfect girl blahblahblahblah and he didn't wanna lose ...

It's like Romeo and Juliet, a family fight forbids our love... help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5470 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - I am 15 and he is 15. We have fallen for each other deeply but we can't be together because our familes got in a fight and completly hate each other and even hate the fact that we go to the same school but can't move due to the economy... we only ...

What can you all tell me... am I pregnant or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - I recently had a 3 day period, very light and more like spotting. 2 weeks later I'm having pain in my side, vomiting, sleepy a lot, I don't eat pickles or cereal, and now I can't stop eating ice or icys! I took a pregnancy test maybe a week ago ...

What's going on with him here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - Ok, so, some background: me and my boyfriend have been together a year and a half. I was at his house this evening and for dinner we had burgers and salad [with onions]. Later on in the evening, we were sitting on his bed and, im not sure how it ...

Help... my friends keep ganging up on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

17 May 2009 (?) - Since im the quiet one out of all of them and they are all so confident they sometimes gang up on me. I give up trying to stand up for myself because i never win anyway. I tried going off to find a different group of friends and i managed but then ...

Can you offer any tips on how to improve my technique?

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17 May 2009 (F) - I'm a woman who's not quite sure how to move when I'm on top. Can you offer any tips on how to improve my technique?...

I feel I can't hold in how I feel about him much longer.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - Okay so I really like this boy, he has a girlfriend, who he has been with for 5 months. They have broken up a few times, and whenever they have he came to me and I listened to him. He complained about her several times to me, but then goes and makes ...

I don't want to hurt his feelings... what do I do?

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17 May 2009 (F) - Me and my friend went out for like 3 months and we broke up. But then he started talking to me again and he is like i cant live without you. And i really liked him and then we always talked and now its been 10 months since we met and started liking ...

What do I do... tell her I like her or keep it to myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5470 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - I really, really like one of my close friends, who also happens to be a girl. I've only admitted to one other person that I like her and that I could possibly be bisexual, and only because that person was open-minded enough for me to be comfortable ...

Self esteem issues

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - hello . i am a 14 year old girl. i currently live with many issues. i have very low self esteem although im told im not ugly. im told im too skinny i weigh 100 lb. i have scoliosis and wear a brace but only to sleep. i think i have hyperhidrosis ...

Just found out that my boyfriend got me AND my best friend pregnant

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - hi iam 16yrs old and i have just left my bf after i found out he had another child. the childs mum is my best friend the child is 1year old. me and my ex bf have been together for 9 1/2 months, so he did not cheat on me. he says he loves me but i ...

Worried that he wont like me when he sees me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - ok so here it is. i am really nervous.. this boy (a friends, friend) and i have been talking on msn and he asked me out. ive said yes and we are going to meet in a weeks time. i have met him twice like with my friends always liked him but didnt kn...

How do I get through this break up and still be her friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

17 May 2009 (M) - I'm sorry if this is too long for you to read, but I'm just giving the whole story so you can give a more cogent, well thought out answer. Okay, so in the beginning of the school year (september 2008), this new girl came to my school (which on...

He says if I can change he might be with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - ok this is really complicated so i really need help me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years. and during a break in these 2 years i had "a thing" with this other guy. then me and my boyfriends got back and now hes finished it with...

I have feelings for my best friends brother

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17 May 2009 (F) - I really like this guy, but I am not sure what is going on or what I should do. Opinions, comments please. I've known about this guy for about a year, I never really had time to talk to him though, I really only started to get to know him and han...

We fight soo much!

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17 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a long time- almost a year and a half. I love him to death but we fight SO much. I feel like if i am with someone i love then i should be happy, but i'm always upset or mad, rarely happy.We broke up last ...

Pregnancy concerns, even been to doctor about it

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17 May 2009 (F) - I have lately been worried about pregnancy. I haven't had my period in more than two months now, though my cycle is every 6 weeks. My boyfriend and I do have sex, but few times and we use a condom each time. When my period was late, i took a ...

Move with parents? Or stay with my guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - Hello I have a problem that I need help with. My parents are moving to Alberta very soon (end of June) right after I graduate from highschool, and heres my problem 7 months ago I finally started dating someone who I've had a crush on since I ...

Should I ask him to come back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - im 14 i had a boyfriend he was 15 we broke up 3 months ago and two weeks ago he calle me and asked if i wanted to go with him to a disco... offcourse i sai yes because i love him... and in the disco he star dancing with me ten he huge me and woul...

My voice hasn't broke yet

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 May 2009 (M) - hi. i am 14 and my voice hasn't broken. My friends said not all peoples voices break is this true and when will my voice break. Thanks...

He treats me well but I've caught him in lies

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - okay right i've been with this guy for a year yesterday he treats me so much, like yesterday he took me shopping with £300 he spoils me so much. the last 2 months, we've been going down hill. he's lied to me over our relationship. At the begi...

Why do people stare at me wherever I go?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2829 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - When I go out with family or by myself, people look and stare at me like i'm an museum exhibit. This really irritates, upsets, and angers me. They stare at me for more than 3 seconds. When i'm at a restaurant with my family people just stare at me ...

How can I break down this wall.. and let someone else in again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - How do I get over my trust, controlling, and commitment issues, so I don't ruin things with this guy that I really like! I'm fifteen years old, and I've had two what i'd like to call 'serious' boyfriends since 2007. The first relationship I h...

I NEED a girl in my life...!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5471 days ago

17 May 2009 (M) - I can never seem to find the right girl. I can't stand being alone. My mom left around age 9, so I think thats a factor to why I need a girl in my life. I always feel alone, unloved and need someone to be there for me. Basically like a mom, but ...

Would you talk to the girl you liked?

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17 May 2009 (F) - So I've liked this guy all year. I've heard from multiple people that he likes me too. We have had the same class together all year, but he won't speak to me. Even if I say something to him he will give a short answer, but he won't look at me. He's ...

Boils - Do you have a remedy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - Hello there! This is abit of an embaressing issue really. I get Boils on my bottom and i was wondering if anyone has any tips / remedies on how to get rid of them or reduce them because i have low self confidence because of it. Help please! Than...

Suddenly there is this distance between us. I don't know what went wrong!

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17 May 2009 (F) - I m 18 year old.n in luv wth a classmate of mine for past 8 year. nothng changed but i dont know why a distance grew betweem us. he is the same but i dont know what went wrong? ...

How do I get him alone?

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17 May 2009 (F) - i am 15 and so is he. i really like him and i think its a possibility that he could like me back. what i really want to know though is how to get him away from the group. we are going on a camping trip with a load of friends and i want to make the ...

He's so 'hot' and 'cold' with me, I don't think I love him anymore..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - over the past 5 months I have been having an on and off relationship with my boyfriend. Although he's been acting really off lately and hardly talks to me anymore, leaving me to start conversations. I've asked him if he's okay and he seems fine. I ...