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Archived questions from: 4 May, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Is this a case of practice makes perfect or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - Hello! I am female and 18 years old. So last night, me and my boyfriend lost our virginity to each other. Yes I am on the contraceptive pill and he used a condom, which as far as we are aware, did not break. Anyway, even though we both orgasm-ed, ...

Why do guys like to play games with your heart?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - Why do guys like to play games with your heart? Its obvious sometimes how this guy feels about me but then it seems like he doesn't like me. It makes me sad when I don't talk to him and he doesn't care until later on. I don't like him playing games! ...

Does having your nose pierced hurt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - This isn't a relationship question but I'm hoping to get advice anyway. I've been wanting to get my nose pierced for quite some time now and I'm allowed to get it done but I'm scared that it's gonna hurt. Does getting your nose pierced hurt? Anyone ...

Ways to win my ex back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - I want my ex back. He broke up with me I dunno why. I have tried asking but he's shy and shit. I want the most effective way to win him over and be in love again....

My friend, dating my personal girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

4 May 2009 (M) - Hi guys, I have a little problem, one of my friends wants to date my personal girlfriend! Please, I need advice on what to do. Please reply as soon as you can. Do I let him?...

What sexuality am I? Confused - lesbian or straight???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - Basically ive just started to question my sexuality... ive always been straight and when i was younger had boyfriends but for the last 4 years ive just been having the odd snog on the weekend and foreplay with men as im 16 and just want to have fun. ...

He wants to do "cam to cam..."

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - hi i'm going out with this amazing guy and i would like to go the full way with him, of course not now but maybe in six months time or so, but he wants to do cam to cam and i'm willing to do it but i'm extremly worried about my pubes. What should i ...

Is it true that some girls cry after having sex for the first time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - Is it true that some girls cry after having sex for the first time? Why? I overheard some girls in the restroom in school saying this and it just has me curious?...

My g/f doesn't seem to love me even though she says so

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

4 May 2009 (M) - with my girlfriend, I love her alot but sometimes I dont know if she does. she says she loves me and seems like she cares about me and everything but sometimes she doesnt seem to act the way I think she is supposed to. she would sometimes say that ...

Being bullied about my dead brother. Why does this happen?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - my brother died last year because of meth and metamies and pot an more but people say your gunna be like your brother DEAD i need help figuring things out and im not crazy i just really need someone i could trust to tell me everythings goin...

I'm unsure...does he like me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

4 May 2009 (?) - Hello, there is this boy who is in a lot of my classes at school. I think he is really hot but I'm not sure if he likes me or not. I kind of get the impression that he does for example, I catch him looking at me a lot of the time, and when I see him ...

Scared to death..to tell my Mom, I am pregnant!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - I turn 16 last month and five months ago, I was raped by a masked man. I was a virgin before it happened and then three months ago, I found out I'm pregnant. Nobody knows anything except for my best friend (he's a guy) and he tells me that if I ...

Could you give me any tips to lose weight ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

4 May 2009 (M) - HI. I read the question about fat decreasing penis size, i really calmed me down because i understood why mine is quite small. so I'm trying to loose some weight so i look better, feel better and have a bigger penis. I need some help on how to do it...

Why don't I fall pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - hey all. every time after i have sex wit my bf i always feel the sperm sliding 0ut after 20 minutes or so. could this be why i dont fall prego? is somethng the matter with me...

I feel like I love my boyfriend more than he loves me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

4 May 2009 (?) - Hey! I was just wondering what people suggest doing in a relationship in which they don't feel the feelings are even between the parties. I feel like I love my bf more than he loves me and I try harder than he does. I'm not really that bothered, b...

How can I start a conversation without turning all red?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - Hi! I'm 15 and I was hoping you help me because I got a problem. I really love this boy let's call him 'wb' I saw him staring at me many times and even my friends did, he tried to talk 2 me because he knows 1 of my friends but every time he co...

I like my bestie's brother

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - Im in love with my best friend's brother and me and my best guy friend recently told my bestie that i had a had a major crush on her bro, right after we told her she said that she didn't mind and since i told her i feel better but now more than ever ...

Advice needed! I'm in love With My Teacher!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - Okay so.. I'm in Love with My Teacher! I've liked him since last summer. But when i first started high school.. I hated him and i dont know how i began to like him!.. I cant stop thinking about him!.. I see him nearly every day but still thats no...

I can't forget him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5481 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - GUYS... please i need help...im 15 years old ..and i was in an open relationship.. a guy with me at school .. i liked him so much and after that i loved him but he leaves me and he return to me again ..and he was saying that he loves me and everythn ...

Does my old crush still like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

4 May 2009 (?) - well when i used to have a crush on him i told him and at the beginning we got on fine and i don't know if he liked me back or not but then it sort of changed and i went off him and now he is being so annoying and whenever he sees me he always tries ...

He's a year younger..should I date him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - hey everyone,i am 18 years old.. i met this guy through a common friend.. he actually goes to the same school as me,but he is 1 year younger than me.. i like him,but i think he's too young.. should i go for it?? thanks in advance.....

What does it take for someone to be a true friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

4 May 2009 (M) - i always wanted 1 thing in life and its a true friend, but what does it take for someone to be a true friend? because i dont know if i have 1 or not... plus is it usually the same sex or opposite?...

He already has a kid

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - So Im 17 years old. I met this guy. He's really sweet. Kinda seems like the player type though. So he tells me he has a gf. But she lives in l.a and I guess its not working out between them. So I kind of try to hold my distance until they're done. ...

2 months and no period..pregnant? OR just messed up cycle?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - i am really worried that i may be pregnant. my cycle is quite long, 42 days. i have taken the morning after pill three times before on three different occasions. the last time i took the pill my period came two weeks earlier, 28 days. it has now ...

Height rating

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

4 May 2009 (M) - how do you people rate a person of height 6 5"? i am 6 4" and i feel good to be this tall but girls are too short to stand up with a boy of this height. what do girls say here?And Do rate my height....

What to do about the old crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

I am a virgin, my girlfriend is not, any tips on performance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

4 May 2009 (M) - hey. My gf is not a virgin, but i am. I want to be a good sexual partner, but I'm not really sure how to be one. First of all, is there any way to make sex more pleasurable the first time? How can I go for longer? Anything else would help. Thanks....

I am having a worsening pain in my vagina, what could it be and what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - ive been havin pain an sting like feeling in my vag area i kinda of always had on an off pain every now an then but it wasnt til today an yesterday i think its geting worse not only that but its swollen and it still hasnt went down since yesterday ...

I like my someday stepbrother

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - i like someone I really shouldn't like: my dad's fiance's 16 yr. old son: in other words my someday-will-be stepbrother. I know I need to get over it, let me say that again, I don't have to but I suppose it would be better to. I can't really tell ...