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Archived questions from: 16 May, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

I don't know what to do! My girlfriend is rude and very insensitive to me..Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

16 May 2009 (M) - Hey there, My girlfriend is always very rude when I want to talk to her about my feelings or stuff that bothers me. She sometimes makes me very sad or angry, and she doesnt seem to care. Today i had a fight with her about this , and she kept...

We're both shy, but I think she might like me. Any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

16 May 2009 (M) - Hello, im only 15 and i really want to go out with a shy girl I told her i liked her and have asked her out inside of our school yearbook later after class she told me she didn't no she liked me and that she couldn't date becasue her parent...

She doesn't believe me! She wants me to prove it! She wants more! What do I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5471 days ago

16 May 2009 (M) - ok, idk what to do so i was thinking someone might be able to help. ive been with my girlfriend for 5 months, but she “doesnt believe me” when i tell her i love her. (i do). but its a little more complicated than that, she wants me to show her i ...

I'm so easily aroused! Is something wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

16 May 2009 (M) - hi im a bi-guy ....and i dont have an account here..so im using my friends account.. so im really 17-18, not 14-15 so any ways...im not a virgin and i regret it..i lost it at 15 and i wished i hadent....but my problem is..i dont know ...

I don't know if he cares about me but I still love him after everything.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5471 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - hey, i lost a guy who meant the world to me a while ago he was my first love and best friend for four years, and he left without saying why. the only one i can think of is that hes moving away, and he is trying to help me let go because he saw how ...

I'm a guy. Should I shave my legs?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

16 May 2009 (M) - i am 15, 16 in a week and my legs are full of hairs i just want to know should i shave them because i am an amature footballer and i know that some footballers shave their legs? also i was woundering if i should shave them for the girl i like ...

I forget about b/f when his uncle is around!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - Well i've been with my boyfriend for a year and four months. Everything between us is great all the time, except when his uncle is there. His uncle is 24, i'm 14, and my boyfriend is 15. Before my boyfriend and i got together, I had a really b...

Help!!! Torn between the two...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5471 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I been dating this boy for 5 months and the relationship is boring. He acts different around his friends and at school he acts like he doesnt see me. For the past week this other boy came along and he is always there. He likes me and I...

She's been with some "big" guys. What if I'm too small for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

16 May 2009 (M) - My girlfreind and i have been dating for almost 3 weeks but about 5 months ago we dated for about 3 weeks.(because she broke up with me) and weve gotten a lot closer since then. She thinks that sex is very important in a relationship. I love her ...

I'm not allowed to hang about with her any more...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - My good friend just started dating someone who is not that great of a guy. He smokes, he does drugs, has sex and is only 15. My mom told me that if he is hanging out with her I'm not allowed to hang out with her but I want to, she's my friend....

I'm 16 and want a boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5471 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - Im 16 and need a boyfriend i know, i dont NEED one. i just feel like a failure for not having one, im not pretty, but i dont think im THAT ugly either - pretty short, brunette, size 10-12 (8 in like mum type shops). I just want tips on how to g...

I get an erction when I'm thinking of men not women

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

16 May 2009 (M) - MOD NOTE: Poster is 13, not 28... please help me i dont want to be gay but im so attracted to a man not a girl im 13 years old boy please help me im so depressed im not so attracted to girls but but im so attracted to guys how can be this?pls...

I'm 15, think I might be gay

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

16 May 2009 (M) - Hi, im a 15 year old male, and i am confused about my sexuality, i have always been aroused and have always fancied girls and i prefer to masturbate to women but the thing is i cant climax very well when i think about women or watch lesbian porn. ...

Scars and very self conscious about them

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - hey i have scars on my legs and knee and i am very self conscious about it especially when its summer and my friends wear skirts because of this i dont like wearing skirts and shorts or going swimming what should i do...

Do I need proffesional help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - this sounds pretty silly, but i think i need help. i've tried explaining to my mum how i feel about things and i said to her that i need to speak with someone proffesionaly but she just laughed and said i was a teenager and that i would feel like i ...

We kissed loads and loads and that's it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5471 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - I met this guy a while ago, and the last time we saw each other (about a month ago) we kissed. I went away for 2 weeks, came back and thought I would text him to see how hes been. He texted back saying did I want to meet up, so we did. We ended up ...

My period cycle just ended, I'm worried my b/f could be bothered by the smell!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - So ive had sex once with my bf last week, and im pretty sure we will do again today for the second time. I want to, but the thing is i just had my period, like it literally finished in the night, and im wondering cos it might smell a bit, would my ...

Does he really have a crush on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - ....i met this guy at a camp, and well he seems to have a crush on me...i dont though, well the thing is i dont really know... ok, lemme describe it....hmm, ok this guy keeps on looking and looking and looking at me......well, in the camp(badmint...

How can I believe he loves me when he hurt me so badly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - I've been friends with this girl for the longest time- we've been through every situation possible and I love her to death. A few years ago, I told her that i was really starting to like this boy. She looked shocked and a bit mad, but said she was ...

He changed after we had sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for one year and three months. I love him, a lot. He claims he loves me, and he was always so sweet and just felt like I could talk to him about anything. But, we had sex after being together for about six ...

My ex b/f is trashing my reputation

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5472 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - My ex boy friend is mad we broke up so he’s treating me bad..... of course he does this to every ex girlfriend but he been doing this for over 2 months and when I go out with some one else he starts rumors and drama he also convinces my boyfriend at ...

Is this considered illegal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, If someone over the age of eighteen (this is in America, by the way) engages in an ABSTINENT relationship with PARENTAL CONSENT from both sides, is it still considered to be illegal? ~Wondering~...

We're already going out, but he hasn't asked me to the dance

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - How to you get a guy to ask you to the roaring 20's dance and we are in love but how do i get him to ask me in like 5 days befor the 20 of may please help me i don't know how to i'm lost....

How do I become a HOT DIVA?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - how do i become a diva.alright im going to highschool and i really really rreally wanna loook hot for the boys.but how do i become a popular diva girl.please help!!!!...

Does my crush like me or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - Does my crush like me or not? please answer Ok here it goes when i came to this school i didnt like or have a crush on him but for the past 2 weeks he keeps looking at me each time i look at him back he looks away but barely he stays eye con...

Why do people strive to fall in love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

16 May 2009 (M) - why do so many people strive to fall in love? whats the great thing about love? and what are the set backs? it doesnt really make any cents to me anymore....

I love him but I don't know if he's worth it...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - I want to break up with my boyfriend i still love him with all my heart but our relationship has been falling apart he says he doesnt want to leave me but i dont understand how is it that he loves me sometimes he says things to me that hurts me or ...

I've been on this emotional roller coaster for too many years, I want to get off. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - Hey everyone! Ok, so I've had feelings for this guy for 4 years. He's been sending me mixed signals consistently. I'm so confused. Thus far, I've been attempting to get over him, except he lives in the neighborhood right across from mine. And every ...