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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:my bf's ex, who is also a friend of mine is unbelievable. i had gone out with him first, then she did, then he came back to me. we used to be really close but after she started going out with him the friendship just died from there. i was reluctant to take him back but he really showed me that i could trust him again. he knows that i dont like her around him, and he is only friendly with her in group situations. now she is taking advantage of this and she is texting him all the time, flirting with him and telling him how much she misses him. everytime shes upset she goes to him, and just last weekend, he had a few of his friends sleeping over. she came over to his house at about 6 in the morning and woke him up when he was kinda passed out from a drunken night, got into bed with him and started crying to him when he was just in his underwear! he realised this and got out to put on some clothes, and when he lied back down on top of the blanket since she was under, she tried to hug him and all of that. him being a nice guy tried to comfort her, but after a while he was like get out of my bed. she insisted on staying, and even said 'no one will know'. so later he just left his room, but later he needed to lie down to rest his head so he kicked her out of his room. im so angry about this. this girl and i used to be best friends, but after she went out with my guy and i only found out from someone else a month later, i just lost all that trust for her and i didnt want to be friends with someone who would hurt me like that. but i have stil remained on nice terms with her, as she is friends with my other friends. but now hearing this i feel utterly sick. i cant be mad at my bf because he did tell me all of this the morning after without me even asking, and he did try to get her out of his bed. but i feel like i should go right up to her and slap her in the face. even a friend would have common respect or courtesy not to go over to her friend's boyfriends house and get into bed with him whle he was in his underwear when she could have just gone home, or just talked to the rest of the guys who were sleeping there at his house.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2009): do you think that if shes meant to be your friend taking your boyfriend away is her being a good friend? if you ignore it she will likely to carry on doing worse things, which you dont want. face it if she is willing to risk your friendship for your boyfriend, she will carry on if ignored. the best thing is to try and confront her and ask her why she is doing it.
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