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writes:I am in love with my dad's best friend.The guy i love is 28 and i am 14.I love him so much but i dont want to tell him because i am afraid of my dad and i am afraid of losing the guy i love.What makes it worse is that my dad's bestfriend 23 yeal old brother has a crush on me.So help i dont know what to do!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2009): Stay away from both of them. You will only regret it later if you get involved with either.
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reader, Olivia(Y).  +, writes (1 June 2009):
 Don't go with him.
Believe me it will mess up your life.
1 - If your school or police find out then this guy will be charged and if they find out he does anything with you he will put on the sex offenders record and be given a police sentance which means he will lose his job and find it hard to get another one and will be labeled a pedo for life.
2 - Your parents will have to be checked over by social services and will be particually intrested in why your dad didn't spot his best friend and his daughter. The chances are you will be taken into care because they will see it as an unsafe enviroment.
My Best friend went off with a 22 year old as you already know. You really should see her life now. Don't let the same happen to you, keep it as a crush and find someone nearer your own age.
Livia
xoxox
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI also have a crush on the 23 year old.
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reader, Olivia(Y). +, writes (31 May 2009):
Just keep it as a crush. Don't act on it, it will just cause problems.
A 23 year old man shouldn't even be looking at a 14 year old girl! My best friend was 14 and went out with a 22 year old and someone told the school and they got the police involved, she got taken into care not by her parents choice and has lost everything. This guy has charges pressed against him. Don't let this man take advantage of you!
If you want to date older boys limit it to people under 18 because if anyone finds out they could press charges against you and then you parents could be in trouble for allowing it to happen to you. Its more trouble than its worth.
Find someone closer to your age and who won't take advantage of you. Do you really think this 23 year old man really likes you? Of corse he doesn't all he wants to do is use you for sex, i know i sound harsh but if you could see my best friend now you wouldn't take one look at either of your dads friends, shes lost everything.
Good luck
Livia
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2009): I dont think you should pursue this. It will cause more trouble than needs be, it is legally and morally wrong and vile. You could be taken advantage of and i dont think it will make him feel very comfortable if you do anything about it. Your still a little girl, go and play with your friends. Don't grow up faster than you need to.
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