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Archived questions from: 24 May, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

I had sex with my ex...I think I might be pregnant. I need your 'compassionate' advice!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - Hi I'm 16 and think I may be pregnant, Me and my ex boyfriend had sex 2 weeks on Saturday but I started taking my birth control pill (I know BIG MISTAKE)but now I don't know if I may be pregant. We did not use protection but I went and got the ...

I made the talent show but I'm nervous, any tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - ok here is the deal, i finally made my talent show this year and i am singing but i noticed that when i sing when nervous my voice changes so i was wondering if anyone knew any techniques that i could use to help me not be so nervous?...

Female teacher. Female student. I have deep feelings for her, but I've got to move on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - I am 16, 17 in September and I have finished school and I am halfway through my GCSE's. I had a few issues with one of my ex-teachers; as I am not coming back to my old school next year, she is now an ex-teacher. The story is long, but basica...

I'm having the hardest time talking to my crush and school's about to end! Help...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - I've been having the hardest time trying to talk to my crush. Even saying "Hi." feels like the ultimate thing to do. I've liked him since the end of last year. We used to talk and goof around a bit but we were never really friends. But this year, he ...

What can I or my boyfriend do to make the taste of his semen better?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

24 May 2009 (?) - I am a male who enjoys giving fellatio to other men. I usually put on condoms on the men I am giving the blowjob to. I do this to prevent the spread of disease and because of the taste of semen I did not like. I have found a man that is healthy and ...

Dumped him, shouted at him, made him think I'm an idiot and now like him again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5463 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - I went out with a guy quite a while ago - well a few months. I haven't had a boyfriends since but he's had one girlfriend. When I dumped him a few months ago, he acted really childishly and we had a few big arguments. I said some things I didn't ...

Family and relationship problems. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - [Moderator note: There are 2 problems here} wow ok i need ALOT of advice, i have no clue what to do on so many things. first off my mom is an alcholic and she drinks like every other day and i cant stand it...she divorced my dad for being a drun...

Who does he like better... me or my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5463 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - Hi! I'm writing this for my friend. She's kinda shy about talking or asking questions to people over the internet. My friend is in the 11th grade and she has a crush on 11th grader like me. (Lets call him al)Anyway keeps telling me about him here ...

My friend keeps thinking she's a vampire!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - I'm 14 and my friend *Emma has just turned 15. The thing is she keeps thinking she is a vampire. It started around halloween last year like pretending she was a vampire and it was a laugh but she continued with it. When she started to read Twi...

Is it wrong for him to like me even with the age difference?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - I like this guy who is three years older than me. IF he did fancy me and he wrote on here to ask what to do about it, or even whether to do something about it, what advice would you give him? Would you think that it's wrong for a 19 year old boy to ...

How do I show him I really like him without being too forward?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - I'm 16 (soon to be 17) dating a 19 year old for nearly a month. We aren't official yet, but it's getting there. The age doesn't concern me, my problem is the fact that I've NEVER been in a relationship before, I've never even kissed a guy. This guy ...

I am constantly catching a cold, how can I build my immune system?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - Hey This has absoluetly nothing to do with relationships or anything like that but I do need advice or I might go mad. I keep getting the cold all the time like literaly I have had it twice in the last two weeks, I mean you would think I would ...

Friends told my teacher I liked him, not true, I told him that, should I say more to clear the air?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - Hey everyboy!!! Well my problem is that my school is finishing up for the summer in four days and I was wondering what to say to my teacher. I have known this teacher for three years now and we have become sort of like friends. A whlie ago my frien...

He changed, we broke up, was it the right thing to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend, who is fifteen, just broke up with me a few days ago, right before our year anniversary. He said that I was too emotional and needy, which I probably was, having gone through an extremely tough year. However, the break up came ...

Can't get my boyfriend to stop watching porn, what can I do to change this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - Oh boy, where do I start. I've been with my boyfriend for a year now, he's everything I've ever wanted in a person; faithful as hell-we basically see each other everyday or every other day and he does so much to prove how much he care for me. ...

Mom and dad separated, but dad still lives with us, people talk about him behnd his back, what can I do to help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - ok...real problem in my head right now... my mom and dad are seperated but he still lives in our house because he has no where else to go... but he's really making my mom mad because he takes stufff without asking, and acts all high and mighty ...

From two different cultures, but love each other, what now?

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24 May 2009 (F) - I am so confused. I'm 18 years old girl i've got a 24 year old boyfriend he's muslim i'm sikh. we've only been dating for a month but knew eachother 2 months before and we have even had our little up and downs but i love him so much and vice ve...

I love you is overrated

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - Well with my last few boyfriends, they have always said "I love you" in the first few days of us going out. It really bugged me, and I did kind of love them but it was more of a crush/fancying them at that stage. How can I stop guys I date from ...

I'm not even 16 but he won't stop talking about "doing it"!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - I've just finished year 11 at school. It was a great day everyone had fun and most the girls and some of the boys cried. Then there was the leavers party that night. It all went well till two of my mates left at 8 and I was left to hang out with...

I feel like vomiting when I see them around each other!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - I'm in a complicated predicament. So, I was with my boyfriend for a bit over two years, we broke up for a while and he started dating my best friend. This tore me to pieces, it was the worst emotional pain I have ever felt to see them as a couple. ...

Will I get him? Our families are against our love

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24 May 2009 (F) - i'm a hindu .i'min love with a muslim boy. his paprents wont allow us to marry . he loves me lot. my parents too wont allow us to marry . he also want to marry me but all his friends and cousins are against it . hey cupid our,s is true love . will i ...

He was staring at my butt

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - MOD NOTE: Poster's age is 19, this is highly unlikely after reading the post. Hi.I know this kid he's rides my bus.And I want to know if you guys think he likes me so here it is.My story.The kid who rides my bus is soooo cute.He sits just across...

Still a virgin and also, how do I help my friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

24 May 2009 (M) - I'm 16 years old nd still a virgin. I've been called romantic and sensitive. Isn't that what all girls like? I can't seem to get a girl. Even if my life depended on it. Help!!!... Also, my friend has a cheating boyfriend. I love her more than any...

I'm insecured and it's driving my boy away!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - And its making my boyfriend of 13 months to nearly give up on me after giving me my last chance to change! I hate to admit it but i get bugged when he goes out with his friends because there might be a girl, i get mad when he talks to a new girl for ...

Is it me or is it because of his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5464 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for awhile now and we spend the entire week together cos we attend the same school. But recently, we fought because I saw his ex-girlfriend blog, writing stuffs about him and that he is still contacting her. I ...

Hand-job Disaster

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - Okay sooooo my 1st bf and i (i'm his 1st gf too) very recently just experimented by taking things to 3rd base..i did the basing. to be precise, i gave him a hand job, a pretty weak one seeing as i had no clue what i was really doing. but it did do ...

Just how often does the average male masturbate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - Just how often does the average male masturbate? my guy freind told me it was like 4 times a DAY..is that true?? and do they really use pictures that often to do it? for some reason that really creeps me out, the thought of a guy doing that while ...

He has shown sexual interest, but how soon is too soon to have sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - I'm going on a date with a guy I really like. He is almost ten years older then me but that doesnt bother me at all, however he has indicated that he is interested in me sexually as well. I feel the same spark as he does and would do it in a heart ...

My soccer coach and I have bonded but what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - Help! I don't know what to think right now. So I feel like I've gotten to know my soccer coach well this season. I think we've bonded well together. During and after games, he'd always congratulate me by patting me on the back, he'd joke around...

Am I letting old feelings get in the way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - k... here's the story. Me and this guy have been going out for a while now. He really loves me and i'm not sure if i feel the same way anymore. It is starting to get really boring and he is starting to get annoying sometimes. the only problem is ...

How can I break things off without damaging our friendship for good?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - I am in a bit of a conundrum. A very close male friend and I have been sleeping with each other on and off for that last year. I have deeper feelings for him, and he does not reciprocate them saying that because his job is moving him in July, it ...

The long run? Or just one thing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - ok so this is a total mess and i'm writing it on here to get 'advice' NOT 'critiscm' please. im almost 16 by the way (next month) but extremely mature for my age, i look about 18-19 (so people say) anyways that was just for those people that will ...