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Archived questions from: 22 May, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

I've had Unprotected sex...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - I'm using yasmin pill but have missed yesterdays and had unprotected sex that nite, I took the moring after pill this morning, but after taking that I have had unprotected sex again, what can I do? ...

What do you think? Is there such a thing as love at first sight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

22 May 2009 (M) - I have a question for all those people out there, do you believe in love at first site, true love or phony love? I believe in all of them....

Help needed. I want to ask this girl out but I'm afraid of rejection...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

22 May 2009 (M) - I am what some people call a nerd, I play video games a lot and endlessly scan the internet. I want to ask out this girl but i think she might reject me because i am a "nerd". What should I do? ...

How can I help him? I hate seeing my friend so down...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - right this isnt exactly my problem but i need advice on how to help him through it. My friend is 20. hes got all sorts rong with his health, at the moment he is unable to eat and is on liquid meals. he recently met a girl and they went out , he wa...

I don't want my date to meet my parents.

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22 May 2009 (M) - Honestly when I start dating I dont want my girlfriend to meet my parents. I think they are odd. It isn't the girl I am worried about but my parents. How do I make somewhat casual and calm when I bring a girl to my house?...

I'm really upset he lied to me about her liking him.

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22 May 2009 (F) - Ok, so lately I've been looking at my bfs facebook page, and this girl writes on his wall, pretty much every day, with flirty little messages. (Bit of background - she lives in New Zealand, where he grew up, we live in the UK, but moving back to ...

How do I tell mommy and daddy that I'm ready to date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

22 May 2009 (M) - I am 13 and I think I am ready to start dating. How do I tell my parents?...

The biggest kissing problem.

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22 May 2009 (F) - My man will not kiss me... do I let him kiss me or do I kiss him and if I kiss him how do I start? Do I look in his eyes and kiss him or do I leen and not look at him? And if I kiss him will it be weird? Do I run away or stay with him? I have ...

My mom will NEVER accept my boyfriend!

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22 May 2009 (F) - My new boyfriend treats me like a princess!! and i'm sooo happy with him.. we've been talking for about a month and recently made it official last week.. He's perfect.. we're so compatible, we barely fight, he pleases me, anything i wish for he ...

Girlfriend's PMT Stresses Me Out, Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

22 May 2009 (M) - Ok i've just met a wonderful girl, and i'm madly in love with her, i know this because it's diffrent than the feelings i've had with ex gf's, i am 17 and she is 16, shes slept over a few times now, but recently she has come on the PMT it really ...

How can I fool my hunger?

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22 May 2009 (?) - Hello. Ok, well basically I have a very important fancy party in three days and I have been eating non-stop. How can I fool my hunger? I have been drinking plenty of water but i just cant stop eating! Even my bf said I look like I've gained weight a...

How to move on from a seemingly never-ending infatuation???

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22 May 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am completely and hopelessly infactuated with this boy in the year above me at the college I attend. Were both part of the college debating society and so I know him and he knows me but were more collegues than friends, if you ...

Do girls just date people because they can?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

22 May 2009 (M) - Do girls just date people because they can? There is a girl that i know that is dating someone that (at least i think) she does not even like....

I've Got Standards, But My Boyfriend However Doesn't, Or Didn't.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - Hey Guys, So here goes. I'm a 16 (almost 17) Year Old atractive female. My 17 year old boyfriend and I have been dating for a few months now and I'm very happy. Although... I have only had one other Semi "serious" boyfriend, Being sexualy...

He broke my heart, but I'm still in love with him, what can I do to move on with my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - ok im 14 years old and madly in love with my ex bf whos 15. but again hes my EX BOYFRIEND.....and its got me really depressed why: -hes got alot to handel all the time because hes got a hard life and hes not as strong as he comes across (but i...

He wastes his money, I don't want to be a nag, but how can I get him to spend more wisely, we're broke?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5463 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i haven't been together very long and have already moved in together, and it looks as though i am pregnant too. I'm happy with him, i love him to pieces and he feels the same way about me too. He's nine years older than me but ...

Confusion big time, he flirts, but backs off around his friends, sending mixed messages, how do I handle this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5464 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - okay does this boy like me ro does he want to be just friends...................??????????what do i do when a boy shows flirtation to u but never talks to you when people are around?? like his friends are around he will stop flirting with me.. adn ...

Had sex with my sister, she says if I tell she will cry rape, what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

22 May 2009 (M) - When my sister and I hit puberty we started masturbating together because we were curious how it would feel. It turned out to feel great; but, around two years ago she started to do oral sex on me. On my seventeenth birthday weekend when my parents ...

I like him, his sister is my friend, his mom my soccer coach, out of bounds if I make the first move, he acts like he fancies me as well?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5224 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - Okay this is gonna be long so brace yourself. There is this guy that I have a crush on. Sometimes I think he likes me and sometimes I'm not so sure. He is the brother of one of my friends on my soccer team. He is also my soccer coach’s son. At the e...

Guys, I want to kiss him, he said he doesn't want a relationship, will it hurt my chances, if I kiss him anyway?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - Hiya! So there's this boy i met this year that i really really like. I kinda told him i'd been interested in him a few months ago; we've come to be decent friends, and he ended up asking me to senior prom. Sometimes---i like him so much---i feel the ...

Pregnant with boyfriend's child, but attracted more to his best friend, any thoughts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5465 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - I havent been with my boyfriend for very long but we've already fallen madly in love with each other, he's told me i'm the best thing thats ever happened to him and i'm really special to him. I know how much he cares about me and loves me and i feel ...

Should I ask her out again, after she turned me down, or ask someone else out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

22 May 2009 (M) - Im 13 and I like a popular girl in my grade. She turned me down so I thought of going out with girl of my "level". Should I ask the popular girl out again or should I go out with the other girl? ...

Is it Instinct to Just Let a Kiss Happen?

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Should I try to be cool or just be myself?

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22 May 2009 (M) - Since the girl I like turned me down my friend wants to make me "cool". A High Schooler on my bus , who is a girl, says to be myself. I dont know what to do be cool or myself. ...

I've never had a girlfriend so I'm struggling to give advice to my friend! Help please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5465 days ago

22 May 2009 (M) - My friend says he is in love with his ex and now he is allways talking to me about it. I still dont have a girlfriend so I really dont know what to say. I tell him to ask her out or just forget about her. What should he do? ...

He's all I ever think about... am I in love?

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22 May 2009 (F) - Dear cupid, I think I'm in love. How do I know for sure though. I've been seeing this guy for five months. Three months into this whole thing he would tell me that he loved me but I would quickly change the subject because I wanted him to te...

My friend told the whole school about the girl I like!

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22 May 2009 (M) - Im 13 and my friend asked me who I like, I told him and the next day at school he tells everyone! I asked him why he did it and he said it was about reverse physcoligy and that would make her go out with me. He said he'd ask her out for me and when ...

Am I hetrosexual... or bi???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5464 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - I am a 16 year old female, I will be 17 on the 3rd of next month. I have many bi friends myself, there's nothing wrong with that. I've noticed like a week ago that I was starting to be bi-curious, I've asked my friends if I happen to be somewhat ...

Does feeling a "real" penis make the difference???

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22 May 2009 (F) - My partner's stopped wearing a condom because we want to start a family. The third time we had intercourse this way I experienced my 1st ever orgasm - it was unmistakable and I really had to cry out with the pleasure. I was just wondering whethe...

She's got a b/f, but I really want her

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22 May 2009 (M) - Moderator's note: Two questions from the same sender were combined 15 nearly 16. I only know one girl that'll give me a chance and she already has a bf... What should I do?!... I'm 15 nearly 16. There's only one girl that I want to lose my virgi...

Plain confused

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

22 May 2009 (M) - So, let's say we have girl.A(her) and guy.A(totally not me)... They are teenagers in school Girl.A is somewhat of a sadist, and has done "bad things" to guy.A before(physically, not emotionally or anything else)for no apparent reason Girl.A's...

Should I hold out for a great relationship, or just experiment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - I'm only 16 and I know that's still kinda young but I've only dated 2 guys over the last year. The second lasted quite a while but eventually things just got really messed up between us. It ended back in feb. So I've been single for about 4 months ...

How do they do pregnancy tests at a clinic?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

22 May 2009 (M) - Hi there, My Girlfriend found out she was pregnant around 8 weeks ago now and told me she had an abortion 6 weeks ago (she didn't want me there) She said shes had her period a few weeks after the abortion too. I do believe her however this was ...