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Archived questions from: 13 May, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

I need opinions here. Does she fancy me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

13 May 2009 (M) - There is this girl I like in my class (only class we share) and i want to know if she likes me before I ask her. It started in one of first lessons when a couple of her friends told me she fancied me, although these girls have been known to wind ...

They pick on me..do they like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5473 days ago

13 May 2009 (M) - I am in highschool. A freshmen. There is this girl that started to pick on me. Then she tells me to shutup when i talk. Then she tells me she hates me than that she is just joking. But she finds anything to say to talk to me. Does rhe like me. ps. ...

She showed up late, made me pay, then texted another guy during a date

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

13 May 2009 (M) - Heya, this is going to sound rather stupid but whatever. Not too long ago, I went to the cinemas with a girl who comes into the shop I work at. I was very optimistic about how the evening would go, but I knew it was going to go bad when she sho...

I don't want to feel rejected...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - I broke up with a boyfriend who i was with for a year and a half as you know. We both still get jealous when we each date, but im assuming that is normal. Another guy asked me out and i said yes partially to make my ex jealous. i don't have any ...

Lost in lust and letting guys use me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - Ok well i have this problem, i tend to let guys use me, and i dont know why, i say no but there so hot and good looking that i cave and be sexual with them, but then i end up falling for them and want more but then they stop talking to me and dont ...

He likes me, he likes me not, he likes me, he...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5473 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - well i have had a crush on a boy for 7 months now and we have been on a rollercoaster over the past few months. in the past, he has told me that he has liked me but after 5 days, he says that he doesnt mean it. However, when out at a social ...

I'm oblivious to the study of law, yet I want in

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - Hi, I wanna go into Law in the future. I was wondering if anyone knew what I would do if I had to defend someone who was guilty of domestic violence. Would I have to defend him if people knew he was guilty? Is it bad? Thanks...

I explode very fast

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

13 May 2009 (M) - Hi there. I'm 18 and have been having sex for over a year now. On average I last about 5 seconds!!! I've tried everything to last longer in bed. I've strengthened my PC muscle, start and stop etc. On mine and my girlfriends one year anniv...

Friendship not enough for me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5472 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - please help ? there is this lad and he started texting me because he took my number off his mates phone i had met him once before when i was the girlfriend of a close friend of his, he was flirty and lovely and i was dissapointed to find out he h...

Love politics at school is killing me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5473 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - Please help I'm 14 and really like this boy (connor) and i think he likes me too but i'm not sure. We haven't actually talked to each other which i know sounds stupid but everytime i see him i just like freeze. I only see him round school a couple...

How can I get my old crush to talk to me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5473 days ago

13 May 2009 (?) - ok well the story basically is that i used to have a crush on him and i told him and we were friends but then i told him i didn't anymore because i thought i didn't and he started to be horrible and then i asked about it on yahoo and i got a lot ...

Can I lose my belly in a couple of months?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - i am going on holiday in july and i admit i have a belly, but its not really big. (i weigh7 and a half stones) but if i go gym every day and do loads of sit ups, and a balanced diet would i loose my belly in the 2 mounths. and is their any other ...

Have I definately lost my virginity and was this actual sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - im 15 years old and ive fancied this boy from school for a while now whos 16 but in my year (11). hes fancied me for about a year we talk all the time out of school but hardly ever while we're there. i was a bit scared of asking him out because ...

I think I'm turning lesbian!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - Hi I'm kikki and I'm 15 I think I might be turning lesbian but not sure. I have a bf but I don't enjoy sex with him anymore it's like he just cares about himself. Recently during p.e at school I have noticed my nipples going hard getting changed in ...

Friend is a teacher and students behavior is very disturbing to her

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

13 May 2009 (M) - A friend of mine teaches in a middle school. Two increasing practices worry her. One is that boys are pressing girls to give them blow-jobs. Good girls who resist are made fun off, by both the boys and the girls. The other practice is that gir...

Oral sex replacing hugging and kissing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

13 May 2009 (M) - I read in a magazine recently that some people are saying that among teens girls giving casual blow-jobs to boys is replacing regular petting. In other words, hugging and kissing is being replaced by oral sex. Is this true? Is this a dangerous ...

I want to sing but have a confidence issue

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - Hey guys, I'm sorry that this isn't much of a relationship issue, but i couldn't think of anyone else to ask... Right, my issue is, i want to do something different with my life, i want to sing! And i don't mean in the local forum etc, i mean b...

He takes everything so seriously that a big war breaks out

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5473 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - I'm really in a confusing mode..Between love and friendship..talking about love there are always silly fights in my relationship.. i really dono what to do..every small thing that happens he takes so seriously that a big war breaks out...re...

Why does sex hurt the first time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - why does it hurt the first time you have sex? how do you know your ready? how do know when the right time is? how do you know he's ready, and not doing it to make you happy?...

Boyfriend in the army?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - well i have a problem is about me and my ex-boyfriend. well he is going to graduate this year and im going into my junior year. nd well he had broken up with me bcuz he had to go to the army nd well i dont know, bcuz we still have feelings but im ...

Stay or leave?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5474 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - I have been talking to this guy for 4 years. We stoped talking only because he was respecting the fact that I was in a relationship at the time, and I was a little too young (He didn't want my parents to be mad.) We just recently got back together ...

I need some insight on this issue of mine!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - I need some insight on this issue of mine. There's a boy that i like. One day a girl in my class shouted across the room to one of his friends that he had asked a certain girl in my class out. (this is what i thought she said) I was heartbroken....

Getting to Second

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

13 May 2009 (M) - I'm 13 and im having trouble getting to 2nd. every girl ive dated never wants to go that far. Do you have any tips on moving from 1st to 2nd?...

How can I fix the way I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - My grades have dropped, im tired all the time, and it seems ive been eating A LOT!!! Every time i start liking someone, i get so confused that i seriously just wanna go to sleep and forget about EVERYTHING and i actually just realized that ive been...

Should I wait or should I give in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - I am a high school student. i am 16 and my boyfriend is also 16. i have been with him since oct.23.08. it's been about 6 months.I truly do believe i am in love with him. I also belive he is too. he says it. he shows it. and i fall for it. he can be ...

Do people eventually fall out of love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5474 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - I recently read an article that said the "infatuation" stage of a relationship normally goes away after about 6 months and it turns into "love". Well, along with infatuation are the butterflies in your stomach and the losing-your-brea...