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Archived questions from: 15 May, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Why did sex hurt the first time?

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15 May 2009 (F) - So i had sex for the very first time last week, but it wasn't my boyfriends first time. It hurt i know thats normal for the first time and it was hard to get in at first cos i must be tight, but what i was wondering is does it feel different for the ...

I don't want to scare her but I LOVE her...

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15 May 2009 (M) - I really like a girl and i finally got the guts to tell her i like her she is a close friend and ex girlfriend to my best friend i don't talk to her at skool because we both hang around in different placs. she said it was sweet that i liked her and ...

I think I'm in love with someone but I don't know what to do...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - I am 16 and a half and in the middle of taking my GCSEs. An IT tech at my school turned 40 2 days ago. What's the problem? I think about him all the time and love being around him. He's really funny and we have similar interests. My friends...

What do I do during sex, I've no idea?

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15 May 2009 (?) - Me and my gf are planning to have sex for the first time soon. (We are both virgins and 16) Im not sure what im supposed to do, do I just do what ive seen in porn?? If not can you please advise??...

How do I find her G spot?

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15 May 2009 (M) - hi, Im a fifteen (soon sixteen) years old guy with a serious girlfirend. We have had sex since... I dont know when... earlier than last summer at least. well, enough about me, I came here for a question. By GF and I have sex quite often and... w...

Why doesn't he notice me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - Ok I really like this guy but he doesn't pay attention to me. It's like I don't exist to him. I don't want to like him but I can't help it. I would just catch myself staring at him for like a really long time. Right now he is going out with another ...

If we go on a date, should I shave my pubic hair, just in case?

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15 May 2009 (M) - ok i like this girl very much and i am sure that she has feelings for me bu the thing is is tha imsure if we every go out or even as friends she said t would be funto have sex together. as any boy im ok wih that but the thing is that i ...

He knows I like him now and is not talking to me, what do I do to change this?

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15 May 2009 (F) - At first it was just my little group of freinds who knew I fancied him, then my English teacher (who likes to think she's cool!) decided to ask what the latest gossip was. Then somewhow, it ended up with my teacher quizzing all my friends; trying t...

He's my best friend, but I love him otherwise, how do I approach this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - Hello! im 16 years old girl and im inlove with my bestfriend! he's a great guy and all of our class's are together and we talk and see each other like 24/7 and he keeps saying i love you but i know he means it as a (friendship kinda love) he k...

Is marketing a good option to major in, I want to do something special with my life, not just get a job?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

15 May 2009 (M) - Hi, is marketing a good option for a course beacause ive thought long and hard deciding and my family and friends just laugh when i say what i want to do, they just want me to get any type of job, but i want to do something with my life!...

I need help communicating with a girl I want to take out, what do I say?

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15 May 2009 (M) - where can i take a girl out!! we've only been out once together and that was just at a party and we went for a few drinks n that together. what should i say if i ring her up? how can i ask her to go out? why am i not ringing her, am i scared incase ...

I love her after two days, don't want to scare her, what do I say?

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I desperately need help with answers to what I should do after the birth of my child?

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15 May 2009 (M) - ok well my wife got me looking for this anwser now idk i just want to know...well what do u do after your wife gives birth i mean like i know u are soupoce to like fill out a birth curitific or something but i mean i know after they get the baby out ...

I like him, but he calls my breasts saggy and grand-ma tities. I'm losing my confidence, help?

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15 May 2009 (F) - I'm 16 years old and guys say im hot and im wanted by many(sexually) my breast size is 36 c..and this guy that i really like commented that they're getting saggy and he calls them grandma tities and no one else does! and now i think they're saggy (H...

Why don't I ever have long relationships???

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15 May 2009 (F) - Hey! Every relationship i have never lasts more than a month and a half..( thats really lucky) and i have been in relationships in the past 8 months and all ove thought about is my ex now were back togeher nearly for a month i dont see any point in...

How do I snog with tongues?

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15 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend wants to snog me at my birthday disco with tounges (tonight) and i don't have a clue how!!!...

Is he into me or just likes the other girl or trying to get me jealous?

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15 May 2009 (F) - Hello, I have dropped by to say and ask for some advice. Well, First of all I *fancy* my brother's Friend. My brother’s friend is 16 years old but 17 this year. We both kind of did like each other but I told my brother and he did freak out but ...

I want to get out and live!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - Ever since I was about 14 I have always been in serious relationships! when I was 15 I got into a relationship that lasted 3 years and I got engaged! I finaly left him due to problems that had been going on for a while and had, had enough of it! but ...

Boring relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

15 May 2009 (M) - I am in a relationship with a girl that is really boring and talks a lot about herself, she likes spamming me with text messages during school. post your comments on what to do please...

Can I have an abortion without my parents knowing?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - Ok heres my question - At the age of 13 if you got pregnant can you go have an aboursion with out your parents coming with you or even knowing i would really like to know it would really help a situation i am in Thanks x...

Skipped almost two periods now...am I pregnant?

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15 May 2009 (F) - Okey i really need help im 13 nearly 14 and i think im pregnant. the last couple of times me and my boyfirnd had sex we did not use protection as he pulled out before he came so i thought it would be okey but now im realy worried because i have ski...

Help me to be thin!

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15 May 2009 (F) - hello. i have a problem. please help as best you can. well i am 14, 5'4'' and weigh 9 st 9 lbs. i am really fat. i want to weigh 8 st 7 lbs so i am going to do a pro-ana diet and lots of exercise etc. now someone told me that ana can make you pu...

Legal boundaries for students/teachers

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15 May 2009 (F) - Yes, yet again another student-teacher relationship question/s.................. I was just wondering what the exact boundaries are for students and teachers? Just for the purpose of this question, disregard the age gap issue even though I know th...

Crush on my teaching assistant!

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15 May 2009 (F) - I have a crush for a teacher assistant at my school; what to do?! He really only talked to me and rarely other students because the kids he teaches with in my class don't really like him. I try to avoid him now because I thought I was being a little...

She's against the idea of a LDR. How can I change her mind?

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15 May 2009 (M) - I've been going out with my girlfriend for a little over a year and I really, really love her and she loves me similarly. She's 14 and I'm 15. The problem is that both of us have a parent in the military, so us being apart is a very likely ...

My dad makes me feel ugly

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - So i have albinism. I can not tan at all. One day about maybe two years ago i had this two piece bathingsuit and my dad got wicked mad. He said that i looked ugly in it because it showed to much whtie. That made me feel horrible. and i didn't lis...

This guy wouldn't give someone like me the time of day!

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15 May 2009 (F) - Ok so there is this boy I like and he has a girlfriend, but she is one of my best friends. I didn't realize I had feelings for him for quite some time, and he is really cute but i'm not sure if he even likes me as a friend...but...idk! He is sooo ...

I am happy because he is happy but I cant forget him! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - Help! During uni last year I met a guy studying here from overseas, Abdhul. I initially talked to him a little bit and didn't think much of it, but as i got to know him better, i fell deeply in love with him. We got along really well, and although...

Why does it seem like certain people get all the sex in the world?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

15 May 2009 (M) - Well I am getting older and I am still a virgin. I am about to go to college, so hopefully I will meet someone at some point in the next few years. I was just wondering why it seems like there are a few people who get a TON of sex, and others ...

An intimate moment...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - I live in Texas and I recently went to North Carolina for my nephew's baptism. While over there, I meet my brother-in-law's cousin named Abel. We stayed over there for a week and I got to know Abel and I started to like him. The night before I ...

I like this girl but I didn't know she had a boyfriend

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15 May 2009 (M) - i like this girl but i didnt know she had a boyfriend. Two days ago this Friend of mines asked me if i liked her i told her that i kinda sorta had a crush on her and she told me this really you Doo :]] ok well your so awesome and well i like you ...

Now that he's no longer my teacher should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - I want to make this short because I have final exams to study for. In June of 2008, my high school closed down. I September I transfered to another school. I was in love with my history teacher, and to this day I still am. I plan on inviting him to ...

I can't be sure of what he's doing as we live so far apart...

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15 May 2009 (F) - I have a boyfriend, but we live far apart. I only see him on major holidays, like summer and christmas. We talk a lot on the phone and we don't have a lot of problems. The major problem is that we miss each other badly. I sometimes feel like he ...

What can I do to make her find me more interesting?

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15 May 2009 (M) - i really like a girl that i met on myspace so i recently invited her to my house and she came over. we talked and i think she kinda likes me but im not sure. what can i do to make her like me and what can i do to make her find me interesting?...