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Archived questions from: 2 May, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Sex and STD's

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - So, I've been hearing more and more about (young) teens beeing worried about pregnancy and STD's, not just on DearCupid but also at college and from friends. I'm not going to talk about pregnancy but STD's.... Everyone knows that Sex educat...

She's younger and I'm wondering..if it would be right to date her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

2 May 2009 (M) - I'm in year 11 and theres a girl in year 9 who I Fancy. I know she likes me as well but the thing is I've had relationships in the past, which have involved foreplay. I'm wondering whether it would be right dating her?...

I like them both.. Who do I choose?!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - Okay so I am caught between guys there's this guy I really like but he lives five hours away from me and we were involved but then there's a guy who lives five minutes away and we go to school together and we are both interested in each other. I ...

He's too old and my Mom says 'don't date him'...how do I get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - i had a crush but he is too old for me (5 years older) so we thought (he loved me too) it was a good idea not to date until i was much older. my mum said it would be a good idea not to see him at all. i can understand why and im not angry at her at ...

Scared to have sex with him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - i really love my boyfriend.. he wants to have sex.. but i' m scared... even with protection... but i dont want to say that i am scared or that i dont want to do it .. because i am ready to do anything for him.. I dont know what to do right now....

Can't figure out if he likes me or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - I have this crush on this boy in my grade We share 6 out of 7 classes together. Well, in Spanish the other day, my friend and I finished our project, followed by our other friends, quickly. I went over to him and his friend, ignoring his fri...

I want to make a move..gain back what we had

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 May 2009 (M) - i am an average kid (junior in high school), not too popular but not a loser.. i am just friendly with everyone in my school weather they are popular or losers. this year i met this girl who kinda seemed like one of those stereotypical popular ...

Is my teacher flirting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - Hiya guys. I understand that there are many of these questions regarding teacher 'crushes' and many people saying they're 'in love' with them but I know what I feel about the guy, and it's kinda like a love him as a friend and I know at least wh...

Is your first friend on facebook your most important one? (ie boyfriend or girlfriend)

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - Can you date someone from face book by just meeting them on face book? It's a general question. If you make someone your first friend on face book list does that mean they are girlfriend or boyfriend or is that rubbish, I thought it went ...

I told my parents that my little sister has been watching porn on the net. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

2 May 2009 (M) - I checked the history and saw that my little sister was checking out porn, but I didn't say anything and didn't tell my parents. I just gave her a blinded/empty warning.. I wanted to see it with my own eyes before I tell..... So yesterday I caught...

Late period... Advice needed.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - This month I'm late with my period by about 10 days [or 4] somtimes it depends when I get it. Some months i've gotten it the 22nd or so, while others when the month is about to end but this time it hasnt come yet. Pregnancy is somewhat out of the ...

I was told he likes me but he's with someone and can't see them breaking up any time soon...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - My crushes best friend told me that my crush likes me but he likes his girlfriend more. Recently he has been acting more interested in me but he doesn't act like he's gonna break up with his girlfriend any time soon. What can i do?...

Is she going through some kind of phase?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 May 2009 (M) - I like this girl and I'm pretty sure she likes me too. She has the top average in my grade. In recent years, she wants to be "popular" and acts stupid and bubbly when I know she's not really like that. We like each other, but her style butts heads ...

How can I tell my dad I've slept with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - Hi, So i live with my dad and step mom. My boyfriend and i have been together for 7 months and we have had sex. (both our 1st times). I want to tell my dad because i tell him everything, but im the only child so he's sometimes overbearing. But my ...

I can't live with him... but I can't live without him either.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for about six months now and at the current moment it's a constant struggle. It's long distance and i only see him at weekends yet that at the beginning was totally fine as i am at Uni during the week and he works etc ...

Opinions on age difference please.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - Last night I met a boy... and we had fun and he was so nice! At some point he squeezed my knee tenderly and i got tinkles in my stomach! But there's one 'problem', or I think it's a problem! He's 16 almost 17 and i just turned 18... and i can'...

Dream for math teacher

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - Ok this is weird. I know you guys may think this is another question about liking my teacher, but its def not. I used to have feelings for my teachers because i made them up to be these great people with amazing lives. But as i have gotten to know ...

Am I?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and me had unprotected sex. About three days after i thought i had gotten my period(but it was too early for that to start) My periods usually last around a week, this one lasted about four days... emplantation bleeding or period? Im ...

Not sure what to expect

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - Its been one week since my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex. I cant take a test now because of it being too early. I'd like to know what symptoms could start happening in the first week or two, if any, for pregnancy. Every woman is differen...

Why did he do this if he likes me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - Hello About the boy I told you that I thought he fancied me the signs he gave me my brothers friend Well my brother and his girlfriend told him and I came outside and he told me in my face sorry but nah he don’t fancy me I said to him that’s co...

Understanding a dream?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - In simple terms, I want to know what my dream means. The people in the dream were me and the 4 guys that I have fancied since I have been going to secondary school. I have been out with 2 of these 4 guys, 1 of them I am going out with now, but ou...

How can I get my relationship back on track?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - Lately, me and my boyfriend of seven months have been arguing a hell of a lot. He's usually very sweet and caring, and considerate of my feelings. As of recently, however, he's been thinking of himself more than me. He'll do something even if he ...

My football coach is getting too cosy for my liking.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - I posted a question a few months back concerning this. Now i have more to think about. I like my football coach and i think he might know. He is the number one person i trust in my life - he knows everything about me and vice versa. That's no...

Is there a chance he might actually like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - i like this guy in my class we allways joke around but his always mean to me..he calls me ugly then i call him ugly back and then he says i should shave my face cuz its hairy and i get mad and stop talking to him then he says he's sorry..i call him ...

Is he completely over me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - please read the whole thing and help me outttt a few months ago i liked this guy he said we should hang out i asked him if he meant by asking me out he never wrote back.then on new years i sent him happy new years and he asked me to sent him my p...

I have to lie to my parents to be able to go to a bizarre party, I'm nervous, what do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5486 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - okay tomorow well pretty much today im qoinq to this party at some popular girls house with my friends. theres going to be alchohol and lots of high schoolers and smoking and i dont know what to do. ive really never been to a party. and i have to ...

I skipped the depo shot that was due in April, how long before I can start ovulating again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5486 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - I took my first depo shot in jan. My next one was due in april ,but I didn't get it, because me and my boyfriend want to start having kids. Well, how long untill my body goes back to normal and I can start ovulating again?...

How do I know or find out if my friend still likes me like he did a year ago?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - Soo heres the thing. At least a year and a hald ago, my best friend asked me out. At the time i couldnt date, so i had to say no, and he understands that. Now that i can date, i would reallly really really! love to be his girlfriend...but i dont ...

He was flirting with another girl, what should I do next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - Ok I don't understand my crush at school, i'm pretty sure he likes me, but then today while he knows that he was in my sight he was flirting with the girl that he was sitting with..they were kind of play fighting, I can only think he was trying to ...

I'm scared, I don't want to have feelings for my ex, I love my b/f!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 May 2009 (?) - Hello all! My two best friends are my whole world, but here's my problem. One is my bf, and the other is my exbf. Tonight, my bf (whom I love very much) was out of town, and I had tickets to a play. I invited my girl-friends first, but I ended up...

I want to know, will I be a bad person if I have sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - I need help....I am 14 and i have been dating this 17 year old for almost 9 months and we have did oral....And I think im ready for PROtected sex. I want to know will i be a bad person if i do this? ...

He dumped me for another girl -- what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - k well it all started when my ex-boyfriend...let's call him "Tom"....well anyway I loved Tom but I could see he was losing interest in me. He started hanging out with this other girl let's call her "Kelly". Kelly and Tom started hanging out more ...

I'm becoming less and less my true self

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - Hello, Okay, here's the deal. I have this friend, let's just call her "Alice". So Alice has epilepsy because of a cyst on her spine she had as a child which has given her permanent nerve damage and a bad back. People often think she's retarded...

Does it sound like I'm prego, or what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - Im 15, i've been on Birth Control for 3 months now, my mom forced me but im pretty bad at remembering to take them so id say i miss 12-15 pills per month. I always get my usual week long period, normal nothing strange. On 4/25/09 tho my boyfriend ...

Is flirting one step away from cheating???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - I went on my boyfriends computer and i was going to check my Myspace. But he was already logged on and it said he had 9 Messeges. I was curious so i clicked. (I didnt find 9 new messeges) But i did find a conversation he was having with some girl T...

How to make a somewhat long-distance relationship work out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about two months now, and we live 2 1/2 hours apart so it has been kind of hard. We usually get to see each other on the weekends, but occasionally have to skip one or two. It has been kind of hard on our ...

My boyfriend's friend doesn't like me... how do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - we've been 7 months with my boyfriend.. and it's the first time i can feel that one of his church mates was not just into me. I mean, doesn't like me for him. there's this one time when i checked on my boyfriend's friendster account and read one ...