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Crush? Or something more?

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Question - (31 May 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 June 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 18-21, anonymous writes:

Ok - I like this guy but I can't decide whether its a crush or something more than that.

I have known him for about three years now. I know I was immediately attracted to him - but now I have got to know him better and we are fairly friendly and and still have feelings for him. I have thought several times that I was over him and we were just friends but everytime I see him the feelings just keep coming back.

I have the general sort of infatuation that I know goes with crushing on someone and I can't stop thinking about him...and I don't know whether it makes me happy or in pain. But I also feel so happy with him, and safe and I it feels natural to just joke around. Though that could be just because he teases me lots!

Can a crush go on for this long? He is a couple of years older than me and I think that its very unlikely that we'll ever be more than friends to be honest.

I don't know...just please give me some thoughts on the matter! Thankyou! xxx

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A female reader, porpison United States +, writes (29 June 2009):

i have a friend who has liked a guy for 5 yrs. we are in 10th grade she still hasnt gotten over him. crushes can last forever!

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