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Archived questions from: 1 May, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Should I give her the note?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

1 May 2009 (M) - Hi, and thanks for help in advance. Forgive me if this sounds way too cliche. Well, there's a girl I started to like Saturday. At first I thought it was one of those things where it passes in a day. But, when I woke up Sunday morning, she was...

Should I just count my losses and give up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

1 May 2009 (M) - If a girl doesn't call or text does that mean she doesn't want you around any more? This girl and I have been talking and hanging out for about five months and we really hit it off but then all of a sudden she just stopped. She no longer calls or ...

I feel unable to let him go...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5486 days ago

1 May 2009 (?) - Hey, I would really appreciate some advice here! I have been obsessed (this is an understatement) with this guy for a year now and for most of this time we have not been on speaking terms. He claims to hate me and my feelings towards him vary ...

I have reached the age of legal consent and wanted to have sex with my long term girlfriend but I couldn't get it up.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

1 May 2009 (M) - I turned 16 ten days ago, and that means I'm legal in my country (UK). I thought that when I was 16 I would not have a problem with having sex, as I did not have to worry about the law etc, but my girlfriend of 8 months and I tried having sex ...

My boyfriend hates my family because they're FAT!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5486 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend hates my family and I need some advice on how I can get him to lighten up and be nicer to them. My boyfriend was raised in an extremely wealthy family and also has the perfect body. My family is not super rich and my sister and my mom ...

Porn and virginity

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - I know this is a stupid question but I was asked to answer it and I actually couldn't answer. If a virgin watched porn and reacted to it, can this rip her hymen?...

For the boys: Innocent or not innocent? Tall or short? Athletic or not?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - i want to know what the guys out there look for in a girl.. do you (guys) like girls that look more innocent or not innocent? do you prefer girls that are tall? or short? do you prefer girls that are athletic or not athletic?...

Is he just joking about? Is he trying to make me jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - okay, theres this boy i like and he likes me aswell. all week hes been saying hi to me and smiled and the usual stuff. then he said to everyone he really really likes me and blushes when he hears my name. and today he wrote on his hand our names to...

How should I do it? Do you think I should break up with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5486 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - In simple terms - my relationship with my boyfriend, feels like a friendship. I don't know; maybe I jumped to conclusions deciding I liked him, maybe I did at the time but not now, maybe I should have waited to get to know him better. When he a...

Why did my best friend ask me if I would have sex with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5486 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - One of my best guy friends and I have known each other since the third grade. For an entire five days of the end of eighth grade, I'll admit, I thought he was hot. But that was it! After that, we didn't do/think/feel anything, didn't confess ...

A question about virginity for all the boys out there

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - This is mainly aimed at boys but girls can answer too, i would like to know, if a girl said that she wanted to lose her virginity to you but didn't want to be in a relationship with you, would you mind? Or would that be a problem for you? Thanks....

His friends say mean things about me and my boyfriend laughs along with them!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - well... lets start simple.. im 13 and i recently got a boyfriend (about a month ago),,,and ill just add its not my first he is really sweet and has on his myspace that he loves me and that im his girlfriend and all of that kind of stuff. bu...

I want to pretend I'm someone else online when I talk to my crush!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - so,my crush likes me back and stuff,but in the past month we haven't talked at all.he tried several times to greet me,but i acted like he wasn't there(totally ignored him,i know what a horrible thing i've done),so he avoided me and acted like i ...

How do I go about asking out a girl I barely know?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

1 May 2009 (M) - There's this girl at my school, I barely know her and yet I like her. The only things I know are her name and year (She's 2 years younger than me) because we both did an afterschool activity (I think she doesn't do it anymore though). I'm think...

Sometimes I feel that it is all too much, do I still love him or...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - do I really still love my boyfriend? I mean don't get me wrong he is a great guy and we love each other but sometimes he can be really annoying. He is my second boyfriend and I'm his third girlfriend. We weren't friends that long before we started ...

I think I'm ready, but how do you know if you're ready for a sexual relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - Hey, Theres been alot of boys who have asked me for sex, hand job, head job etc... But im still a virgin, i havent given head job or hand job or been fingered, the firther-est ive been is like kissing and its really embarressing. I feel that im re...

He's sooo clingy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - Here's the thing. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months and let me tell you it was love at first sight and all. Its an amazing relationship. But something is starting to go wrong. He's becoming too clingy. My goodness is it annoying. I mean I see ...

I really like him, he used to like me, and I'm getting obsessed

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5487 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - Hi!! Ok so im only 14 and theres this guy that i REALLY like and ive liked him for a long time i think he used to like me back when we were 10 but well ... We were too young!! Anyways i cant ask him out because our family's are friends and if he ...

I'm obviously in love, but I want to know for sure

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - Whenever I remember something that I did with my boyfriend, I get this sort of warm feeling in my chest. What is this feeling, and what does this mean?...

My girl broke up with me for my cousin!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

1 May 2009 (M) - my gf of 3 years broke up with me :'( cause of another guy who is my COUSIN!!! i hate him i hate him i hate him. im crying right now and i miss her even though she hurt me and cheated on me with him twice and she just told me. gosh. what do i do. im ...

What can I say to my brother to alleviate his guilt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - Please help me... My big brother is a nursing student and while he was on duty one of his patients died and now he blames himself even though it's not his fault and it keeps haunting him and now he wants to quit and it's his last year......

He gave her his number. Is he just seeing if I will react to this or is this a sign that he is not serious?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - I've been dating a guy for about three months now. I am 18 and he is 27. We recently talked about our relationship and come up with the conclusion that we are exclusive but we realize that our relationship is limited due to our age difference and ...

Opinions needed... I don't know if he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - okay this is the continuation to my previous question basically i have this guy friend who i knew since last semester and we have 2 classes together this semester so we've gotten pretty close. I was convinced that he likes me because he's always ...