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female
age
16-17,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend of nearly a year and half has gone away for a week, and i miss him terribly. I've found myself doing nothing, just feeling sorry for myself. How do i create more independence in my relationship, and stop myself feeling so bad when he's not here? Reply to this Question |
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reader, satindesire  +, writes (13 April 2009):
 Find something you'd like to try, or like to learn, or do. Join a gym, take cooking classes, adopt a cat from your local pet shelter. Get a part time job. There are a thousand things you can do alone or with a group of people.
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reader, StudentOfLife  +, writes (13 April 2009):
 Activities often help your mind to think about something else.
Things like walking your dog, doing dishes, cooking, reading, hiking ... etc, could help you focus on something else and therefore give you the "I can do stuff even when he's not here" feeling, also known as "Independence".
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reader, jay12toes +, writes (13 April 2009):
 Go out with your friends, or read a book, or get a hobby.
just find something that you enjoy that takes up time.
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