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writes:Recently i have been having some disturbing dreams.It all started when i was searching for something in our loft. I found a shoe box with some photos of my mother before i was born. She was wearing a really skimpy dress and despite myself i got abit aroused by it, but i quickly turned away and left. A few day later i had a very intense dream where I was having sex with someone, i was not myself, it felt like i was wearing a mask or something. Then as i climaxed, I looked at the person I was having sex with, and it was my mother from the photograph. I have these dreams a few times a week now, all very intense, I wake up in a sweat almost wretching with disgust, but i have orgasmed. Should I seek professional help, and even tell my mother?
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reader, dannabo  +, writes (12 February 2009):
 Poor Friend,
Try to realize that this is just a dream of a boy growing in his sexuality. I had these same dreams about my mother and had wt dreams too. I had to stop and think that I would never do this with my mother. Let the dream drift away and continue to know that you are becoming a good young man. If it persists you cam ask for help but never tell your mom. You are mormal. Believe that.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (28 December 2007):
 You're perfectly normal. You seen pictures of your mother when she was closer to your age and realised how pretty she looked and actually how fanciable she looked. This has stayed in your subconscious and when you dreamed you had sex with her, the mask was worn to hide the fact it was actually you... her son. You knew deep within you it was wrong and the mask hid your true identity, pretending to her you were someone you were not.
It doesn't mean you want to have sex with your mum in reality, nor does it mean you are abnormal. It was just a dream proving you have a perfectly normal libido. Laugh about it but forget it and move on. It's harmless.
Eve
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2007): My advice would be not to tell your mom as this would easily frighten her and she will worry for you. If these nightmares and getting worse and more frequent you should get some help to find out exactly why your having these dreams.good luck
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (28 December 2007):
 I know that you are worried about this, but it doesn't mean that you want to have sex with your Mother. You just saw a photo of her and never recognized her as a young, sexual being before and that has come as a shock to you. You probably hadn't seen her as independent from her role as your Mother. Your thoughts were all running around inside your head jumbled up and a strange dream was created out of your disturbed feelings. I don't think that it means anything or that I think I would TRY to relax and forget about it. If it happens again, then consider asking for help just so that you can sort through the feelings and anxiety that this dream is producing for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2007): Hunny dont tell your mum this could upset her, Go and talk with someone a counsellor to help you through this as it must be very confussing to say the least and you need to do something about it now. Love as it could well spiral out of control and make you quite ill so please get some professional help to deal with these dreams TAKE CARE WITH LOVE MANDY xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, anon_e_mouse +, writes (28 December 2007):
 I don't think you should tell your mother to be honest. I reckon you should just tell your mother that you've been having some really weird dreams and perhaps talk to someone about it if it's really that bad.
I can't really give you much more advice than that since I've never been in that situation myself.
Good luck :)
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