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Archived questions from: 14 September, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

My LONG story and current situation!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

14 September 2009 (M - Right this is a VERY long one.. Back in October last year i was seeing another girl casually, i had been single for a long time and well we began talking and a few things lead to another we never slept together though i told her i didn't want sex,...

My girlfriends still in "friend mode"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

14 September 2009 (M - I'm in a relationship and some help. Here's how it started i asked her if she liked me more than a friend and she said no, Well she already knew i liked her. Well the next day came and she told me she loved me. A day after saying she didn't like me. ...

Arguing with my friend is leaving us hurt!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

14 September 2009 (F - Right, this is going to sound INCREDIBLY boring and immature, and this situation is something I don't normally find myself in however, recently I have been intangled into a very immature situation. Since about April I've been talking to a fri...

How can I clear my head over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

14 September 2009 (F - Hey im driving myself mad here and i hate myself for it. Im not joking yes i know im probably over reacting but i seriously cant carry on like this, ive tried to get over this guy but it just aint happening, hes one of m best friends and i never ...

Did I completely kill our friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

14 September 2009 (F - Hi Well...theres this guy i've been crushing on for MONTHS. He said from the beginning that he cant see anything happening. But I continued to like him. Then it turned sour today. This is an extract from our MSN conversation: [HIM] said: I ...

He says to suck it up! am I being selfish?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5344 days ago

14 September 2009 (F - Hi,I am simply seeking an outside opinion to a situation with my boyfriend. My boyfriend has a friend that I have yet to meet in person but I have had the opportunity to witness communication via yahoo chat between the two of them and find th...

Secretly going out with a waiter, my friend likes him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

14 September 2009 (F - hey, i have been going out whith a waiter who works in a Restaurant we go to quiet alot but no one no's about it i went there at the weekend with my family and my best friend and her family and he was working but didnt serve us my best friend n...

Do I have normal expectations or am I being ethnocentric?

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14 September 2009 (F - My bf and I have been together for quite some time, are in a long-term LDR and reside on different continents. We have all of the normal couple issues but thus far they are something we seem to have been able to work through. Many of his closest ...

I get excited when I think about my best mate OR his girlfriend!

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14 September 2009 (M - i think i fancy my best mate and his ex... when even i think about when i've seen him topless i start to think about kissing him ect ect But whenever i think of his ex girlfriend, i get hard instantly,, whats going on?...

What can I do to overcome this shyness?

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14 September 2009 (M - How come when I see girls I wish to go out with, or get to know better, I have trouble talking to them? What can I do to overcome this shyness? ...

My boyfriend and friend don't get along... Help!

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14 September 2009 (F - hi, I'm kind of stuck between my friend and my bf. I've planned to go out with my friend in 2 weeks time, my problem is that I've recently got back together with my ex and they dont get on with each other, i don't know why. It's very hard as i r...

He deleted my email without reading it, but I really want to see him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5344 days ago

14 September 2009 (F - I've got a very close friendship with an old colleague and we often email each other and occasionally speak on the phone and we are quite flirty (and I think he's lovely). We live miles away from each other, so always try to catch up if either of ...

How do I get over him but keep him as my best friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

14 September 2009 (F - Hello, aunties! I've had feelings for a guy for what's now approaching 3 years. 34 months. We dated for nearly 5 months. I genuinely believe I've loved him for 9 months. (Though I do understand that my perspective is very limited, as I am only in ...

Why do I always wait for my FWB to make the first move?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

14 September 2009 (F - I'm in a friends with benefits relationship with a guy. Since it began, he's always been the one to call/text me about wanting to hook up, which I hadn't noticed until he pointed it out to me recently. I don't have feelings for him, nor do I see ...

I feel stuck with an impossible choice: him or friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

14 September 2009 (M - I am in a long term relationship with an older man. The age hasn't been an issue until recently. I am in my mid 20s and he is in his mid 40s. We had led a quiet life together which we both liked. I had a bit of social anxiety and was unwell for a...

We flirt when she's not around, and he likes me too!

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14 September 2009 (F - hi. i like my bffs boyfriend. WE always flirt when shes not around. i really like him and he says he likes me to...what should i do!!!!!...

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