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Archived questions from: 9 September, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

I'm struggling to see if this could progress into anything further!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm 42 and I've been in an intimate relationship with a 43 year old man for 3 months now. He lives an hour from me and I rarely see him. He only comes to me if I invite him for a reason, such as a firework display etc. I go to his place most ...

How do I reconnect with the girl I love and met online?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (M) - I met this girl online last year and she is just so amazing. I told her about 6 months ago that I loved her and she said she loved me too. We would message each other all day long and we really opened up and got so affectionate. It was really ...

Who do I believe... friend or boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - If your friend for about 1 year said that she slept with your boyfriend and your boyfriend for about 1 year and 3 months swears he didn't, who would you believe?...

My friend was raped and is now pregnant and I'm assuming the "father role".

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

9 September 2009 (M) - My female friend who likes me is 14 and was raped, she is now pregnant. I have assumed the father role, i love her. I held her for 3 hours after she was assaulted, trying to calm her. My question is am i doing the right thing? My heart says yes but ...

When is the right time to ask a girl out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

9 September 2009 (M) - When is the right time to ask a girl out at school? Because I can never get her alone to talk to. I'm always texting her but recently I've given up because she never seems interested in msn and stuff. Please help me I want to talk to her In person ...

I'm just now sure if he really likes me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - My friend I think likes me, I can't tell for sure though, he hugs me and we always laugh together and he looks in my eyes. I really like him and he pokes me a lot and I was like I dont love you any more, he was acting like he was about to fake cry ...

I feel a bit left out...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 September 2009 (M) - I am just starting grade 12. I have my group of friends that I always hang out with at school. I recently found out that for the past year and a half they have gotten together on saturdays at one of their houses and I have never been invited. ...

Fallen out with a good friend after he betrayed me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - I have had a major fall out with a good Male friend and colleague. He recently betrayed my trust. Long story short. We were good friends really trusted each other and did business together under our separate companies. I am married and he is si...

My friends wont accept me for who I am

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - I have friends who I don't think I can be friends with anymore. They don't accept me for who I am and I am sure they talk behind my back! I am not good at confronting people. What should I do?...

How much time do I give him? Or do I just give up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - I really like a boy who i have been spending a lot of my free time with. We IM everyday and we talk about a lot of things. We ended up making out at a party but he didnt say anything for the whole week after. Then at another party, a lot of people a...

Should I encourage her to keep her options open or just stay out of it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - A friend of mine has been with her boyfriend for a long time. She loves him and he loves her. They have issues though. I've told her they will never change because he is unwilling to change the drinking addiction he has. He is also unemployed ...

I’m completely infatuated with this guy who barely knows I exist.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - Hi all. I would really like some help. I’m completely infatuated with this guy who barely knows I exist. We’ve been texting a lot but when I see him, he acts as if I’m not there. So I’ve now starting doing the same to him and just blanking him. I d...

Every other aspect of my life is good but I find it difficult to make friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 September 2009 (M) - I am a 23-year-old man with Asperger's syndrome. My social skills are good [not being boastful], I am told, but I consider them to be average. Recently I've started to go to a particular gay bar in my local city during the daytime in an attemp...

Help! I've fell in love with my best friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - I am in college and living with 4 other girls..two of which are my best friends...however, one of them I am very very close with and she knows everything about me and I know everything about her. She is by far my very best friend. Only one ...

I've fallen for my best friend. What should I do? I don't want to ruin what we have

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 September 2009 (M) - Alright so ive known this girl for about 2 and a half years and ive always had a little bit attracted to her. weve always been really good friends. But within the past few months she has gone through family issues and has become very dependent on me ...

I want my b/f & best friend to like each other!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5350 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - Hey my name is Kate and I am 22 years old, my best friend for the last 10 years has been a guy named Derek. and when I say best friend I mean my everything, the person who I could spend hours watching movies with but neveer saying a word to, telling ...