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Archived questions from: 23 September, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

How can I let my friend know that I care?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - A very good male of friend of mine emailed today and really opened up about how he was feeling miserable (he didn't get a job that he really wanted) and that he is finding it difficult to cheer up. I was really upset when I read his email because I ...

Am I doing something wrong or does he only like me as a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - I get sad If I don't see my guy friend. Me and him have been friends since last year and I thought he liked me! The problem is when its just him and me on the bus we talk a lot and I like that but if his cousin grace, my best friend, sits next to me ...

What else can I do to get him to notice me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - I'm in need of some advice.. i have been seeing this guy around town, well, he works for the law, if u like and i had a complaint, and he and his colleague delt with it, this was about 8 months ago. however, since then i have seen him around town, ...

Help I'm lost and confused... torn in between what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - help.. I'm love with a guy that has a history of cheating he cheated on his last girlfriend with his ex and and cheated on her with a mutual friend from before... Im wondering am i just another pawn in his belt buckle i am a virgin he knows that and...

Was he just toying with my feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - well,i liked a boy a lot for two years.he was my first love. I was sure he liked me as well and everybody thought the same. he was always after me, showed all the possible signs that he was into me, but as time passed by he never really asked me ...

He still wants to be best friends, but won't explain why he broke up with me. I still love him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - Hello, I'm just looking for a bit of advice really. My boyfriend of a year broke up with me recently giving me no reasons why. He said that I was still the most amazing girl he has ever met and there is no one else he is interested in, a...

I don't understand what she meant!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

23 September 2009 (M) - i have been friends with a girl for quite some time and hoping to get serious. I asked her as a joke how come you don't have a boyfriend and she replies i don't know you well enough to answer that. how am i supposed to understand this?...

Help! Where do I stand?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5335 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - Hi there. I have known this guy for 18 months, we have been best friends and lovers. After 9 months he emigrated to Australia, and though I thought that was it he's come back once and I've visited him once, things have blossomed into true love. Lo...

She's used to the single life. I'm not sure she would be faithful if we started something. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

23 September 2009 (M) - I met a girl this week. I've been coming over to hers, we've been having dinner together and lot of sex. However, having spoken to her about the concept of starting a relationship, she's hesitant. She has trust issues, as she's had a number of guys ...

I need opinions from others. What's he playing at?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - Hi This is a long story so hear goes... Well there was this guy I met at a club. He saved me from another guy who was trying to basically attack me. We hung out for the night swapped numbers. He contacted me we would talk on the phone for hours,...

How can I pluck up the courage and talk to him again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - I really like this guy at church but I've never had the confidence to chat to him before, but recently at a friends suprise birthday party he started talking to me. We spoke for a long time and he was making a lot of eye contact with me but i was so ...

How can I be there for him without making a bad situation worse?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

23 September 2009 (M) - How Do I save My Best Mate? As a single male I'm concerned for my male married friend and Neighbor.We have known each other for two years, he knocked on my door one day with a petition to sign. Since then we have become good friends we have the...

A little help for the guy stuck in the friend zone

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

23 September 2009 (M) - I'm a guy that always has girl-friends but never in a relationship I'm starting to believe I'm every girls straight gay friend you know. I can talk to a girl for weeks or months and go slow find out more about them and try to show them that I'm ...

I want to be friends with a married man but he has feelings for me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - Hey guys, This problem is to do with a guy who previously ran a community music group in my area. We get along really well, he's married. I wasn't really interested in a romantic relationship at all, he's just cool and we like hanging. I should m...

My friend is living a different life and I am concerned about her family!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - Well, this post is about my friend/co worker. I have been very close to her and share most of the fun she is into. She is younger than me and is very beautiful, most men who see her would always second glance at her. She is almost perfect. And life ...

Should I leave her to experience and learn for herself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - so i have a good friend and she started going out with this guy about 3 months ago who is an absolute arsehole.. he actually reminds me a lot of my exboyfriend whom i was with for 3 years which only ended in heartbreak... its so hard seeing her put ...

It's been 43 years, I want to contact and comfort an old gf, but I don't want to hurt my wife

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

23 September 2009 (M) - I was friends with a girl and we even dated off on over a two year period. We just drifted apart. I married and realized I was still in love with my old girlfriend. I tried to keep in touch with old friend but she refused to have any kind of ...

Do I tell his fiancee about his flirting with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - I have a bit of a problem at work. It started out with my boss flirting and making suggestive comments. He does this with several people at work. He does it in a playful way, and we have a good relationship, so I didn't mind. As inappropriate ...