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We're friends but I'm getting mixed signals

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Question - (21 May 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 21 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, *oanie writes:

Im getting mixed signals from this guy i have been friends with for a while. We dated for about 4 years ago but its didnt work out and broke up. We lost touch but for the last year we have got back in touch mainly because we have the same friends and i have more time to hang out with them now. Anyway for the last say 2 months this guy as shown interest again, and stupidly i kinda thought he liked me, you know he would tickle me and wrestle with me and i play the hepless female all harmless fun, we 2 weeks ago he walks into my mates house (we are there every weekend) and he brings his new girlfriend in (gutted) but i tried not to show it. I just dont get it i honestly thought we were gonna try again even our friends thought that, i cant stand being around him and his girl. The weird tig is im 27 he is 29 and the new girl is 16. H keeps looking at me and looking away i dont get it!!! Last week a guy at work asked me out and i said yes but my friend was having none of it, when my mates asked how i got on, he kept butting in saying noone wants to listen to me and it seemed he got jelous, where do i go from here im really confused

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009):

He clearly likes you still, probably enough to try making you jealous with this new girl i reckon. (Alot of young girls are naive and will fall for anyone who says the right things)

maybe he was hurt the first time it didnt work out and doesnt want the same to happen again? Talk to him about it, see how he feels. If he's a tosser about it stop hanging out with him, and be with your new boyfriend. Also, ask yourself why you first broke up, would that happen again?

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