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Why does he stare if he doesn't care?

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Question - (12 May 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 12 May 2009)
A female Canada age 30-35, *oftlipz writes:

I've been friends with this guy since September 2008 and i like him, i think he likes me but then again i'm not sure. He's always talking to me, touching me(arm,thigh),complimenting me on my clothing, staring at me in class and when i walk by him in the hallways, teasing me, we held hands a couple of times. But he's also close with this other girl, they talk a lot too but they don't flirt and play around like we do.I decided I was going to tell my crush how I feel. I went up to him and said “Hi, can we go somewhere?” Then he said “No.” After that, I told him that I needed to talk to him and he started to smile and asked “What about?” With poor timing, this guy interrupted us, so I didn’t get to tell him. After that, I spoke with my friend about it; she said that I should go tell him. I was scared and she could see the way I felt. She went up to him and told him that I wanted to talk to him. He responded “I’m coming soon.” To my dismay, he never came, and the only exchange between us from that day on has been silence. I noticed that he’s everywhere I go these days. He’s by my locker area and I tend to catch him staring at me when I’m talking to my friends in the hallway. I just don’t understand.

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A male reader, anon22m United States +, writes (12 May 2009):

when i was in high school a friend of mine was in a similas situation. the guy was stringing her along. im not saying thats what hes doing, but beware.

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