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How should I take this friendship?

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Question - (12 May 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 May 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *b47977 writes:

My guy friend at school that I've known since september is weird. At school he stares at me, makes me laugh, texts me occasionally, and sometimes he mentions a teacher I hate that he loves just to make me talk to him. Today I was talking to his cousin who is my best friend and he didn't try to talk to me. I think somethings wrong but I think he doesn't want to talk to me. He has been distant from me and he use to like me and I liked him. How can I make him notice me again?

Me and him have noticed that we have a lot in common and I thought it was bonding us but now I feel our friendship is no longer together. Sure he says were friends but he doesn't act much like it. He makes me laugh when he talks about family guy and imitates the character Peter. I love when me and him talk about something we really have in common. Its like me and him are close then we drift apart for a couple of days.

How should I take this friendship? Should I pretend to ignore him and act normal and pretend that his strange behavior isn't bothering me to pieces?

He still flirts with me! Sending mixed signals I think.

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A male reader, Mr.Insignificant United States +, writes (13 May 2009):

Mr.Insignificant agony auntThe two of you like each other, that is obvious. The both of you are also playing games and being coy about things.

It is at times like this that I ask myself, "WWPD" Or rather, What Would Peter Griffin Do?

Peter would probably point at you, run up to you and fart on you, and then laugh with all of his friends. Then milk would come out of his nose!

So don't do what Peter would do, do what Brian would do.

Ask to have some time alone with him to talk. When you are able to talk, tell him how you feel and that you would like to explore having a relationship. Don't be afraid to ask him how he feels.

If all else fails, just say, "Giggity! I like where this is going! Alriiight!"

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