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The good ones are taken. How do I find a girl?

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Question - (11 March 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 11 March 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *ack writes:

im 14 and im looking for a girlfriend seems as everyone is taken ,how do i find a girl.

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A male reader, SlackersACE1  United States +, writes (11 March 2009):

Sorry to double post, just wanted to add something. Just keep in mind that, as lame as it sounds, its best to be straight up with girls. Honesty is the only way your perfect lil lady will like you for who you are, quirks and all. Thers your "good one" and you'll be her good one. Bide your time and youll do great.

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A male reader, SlackersACE1  United States +, writes (11 March 2009):

DUDE I totally know where you're coming from, especially at that age. Lemmie break it down.

First thing's first, girls aren't a "good one" for you to find. I apologise in advance if I interpreted this wrong, but it sounds like your being a little imature by saying "good ones" you know. If your implying faithful, kind-hearted and considerate girls, your definitely wrong. If you just trying that dumb number system, you probably should take a seat and don't get back up.

Secondly, are you refering to young ladies in your class or neighborhood? Perhaps you should branch out at other places kids like you gather.

Third, what are you looking for in a girl? And WHY are you looking for a realationship? If its just for physical things/ the lolz, sorry to say, you've got the makings of a world-class dick. It makes it hard on girls who have to deal with you, especially if they genuinely like you. You can't screw with hearts like that.

Maybe you should do a lil thinking. Good luck though lil bro, be cool and smart!

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A male reader, tux United States +, writes (11 March 2009):

tux agony auntYou are 14... you have a long way to go.. I'm sure everyone is certainly not taken, but just the ones that you wish to be with.. But don't fret and don't settle.. You have plenty of time ahead of you to find a girlfriend and will probably get plenty of many chances..

Things must have really changed a lot since I was 14. Yes I have had crushes and certain girls I liked, but i was never in a hurry to a point where I was worrying about it. But Just enjoy life and things will fall into place..

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (11 March 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntStop looking at the hottest girls, join clubs and groups that interest you, and meet people with similar interests to you, enjoy yourself and stop stressing, there are plenty of single girls out there.

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