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Does my teacher have feelings for me? Is it wrong?

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Question - (29 November 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 November 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *illyfred writes:

Right, I completed secondary school back in June after finishing my exams and all that :).

about a month after leaving I added this teacher on a networking site, and it was pretty cool. First we just chatted about movies and favourite bands etc. then he stared telling me more personal stuff.

like about when he lost his virginity, about his ex girlfriends, where abouts he lives, how he got bullied when he was younger and stuff like that.

anyway, the thing was i was going back to the schools sixth form, where i might occasionaly have got him.get him for a lesson.

so, as the time got nearer to the end of the holidays he said he would have to delete me off of the networking site because people would be able to see that he had me on there. but he said to add him on messenger so that we could still talk.

so i began talking to him on there and i felt closer to him than ever before, he was going to go to a theme park with me and some of my friends!

but when the time actually came for me to go back to school he said he couldn't really talk to me much there incase he said the wrong thing. i didn't really know what he ment by that...but yeah, so he would only really talk when no one was around.

which upset me.

recently i was talking to him on msn and i asked him to phone someone for me ((my friends dad to tell her something)). and he said he wasn't going to just phone some random guy, so i said i'm sorry, i shouldn't have asked you to do that, i sometimes forget that your a teacher. and he didn't reply, since then i haven't even said hello to him in school, and he hasn't said it to me (because he isnt even one of my teachers so it would look wierd). why was he so upset by what i had said?!

does he like me? or did i?

what do you lot think?

x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2008):

Well, he might like you cos the reason why he hasn't said anything to you is cos he thinks he's upset you by not doing what you asked. But then cos he didn't say like sorry or anything you can't really tell... but then there's not really a reason as to why he's stopped talking to you...

I think the best thing to do is when you both are online next, message him and try to talk to him normally, if he response normally then it's most likly everything fine. But if he doesnt then ask him if you've done something wrong, or if everything is okay.

The same thing has happened to me at the moment, i think i said something wrong to a teacher whilst e-mailing him and he hasnt said anything to me since and that was a couple of months ago...

Anyway, i know that was great advice but i wish you the best of luck with him! xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2008):

I think he did like you but he doesnt want to do anything wrong. He doesnt want it to lead to anything.

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