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writes:I recently started to text this guy. My friend gave me his number and she said he is really nice, so I started to text him and have been for about a month now, but I found out that he is a player. But when we talks he calls me sexy and baby and all the right things that make me feel happy but I have never met this guy and I became jealous when I found out that one of my other friends were talking to him to. I also found out that all the sweet things he had been saying to me he was also saying to her and other girls. Lately he doesn't text me back, should I be upset or just get over him?p.s. I've never talked to a guy like this before either, I'm kinda shy, so am I making a big deal about thinking we would really ever meet and date????
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reader, Ashleigh9345  +, writes (30 November 2008):
If i was in your situation i would make sure you and your friend talked about this as either of you deserve to be treated this way.
Now you know the real him, would you really like to enter a relationship or even become friends with this guy with the constant risk of cheating or him leading you on? It will hurt a lot more if you do.
My advise is to try your best to forget about him, however hard that may be.
You'll deffinatly meet your special someone later in life who will treat you with respect and say all those words to you and mean them.
Just stay busy and with friends and loved ones.
You'll find your self over him sooner than you think...Good luck =]
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reader, wonderlove19  +, writes (30 November 2008):
 Oh my god, you are me five years ago! I know exactly what you're talking about. When I was fourteen, i was extremely shy. Then suddenly I found out that this guy from my school liked me. I was so nervous and so exited because he was actually the first guy who complimented me and called me sexy and gorgeous and all that. Then I went on holiday and all of a sudden he didnt answer one of my texts. He just stopped without warning, and I was so confused, and really upset. Chances are this guy is a player. He sounds exactly like the guy I used to text. Just go with the flow and see what happens.
And FYI, a couple of months later I changed my look completely, and that guy who blew me off was chasing me as soon as he saw me. I ended up going out with him for a while but he was an asshole. Complete player. And all he cared about was my body and the way I looked. Just be careful with those kinds of guys. Take it from someone who's been there. And as for being shy, try getting a new hairstyle or competely change your style. And try asking your friends for other guys numbers and text them. If he can play around, then why cant you! I hope it all works out for you. Good Luck! X
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reader, megannnn +, writes (30 November 2008):
 i had this problem too. my ex bf and i were still kind of together but i knew his myspace password and saw he was doing the exact same thing, he was telling another girl he loved her and how she was so amazing and sweet. and he wasnt a player in person it was just online. and i never thought id get over him but i did. you just have to realize hes doing the same thing to another girl and its not fair to be treated like this. my best advice is: get over him. its not fair to be in this position and staying with him and trying to get with him will only get you more hurt if hes gonna be a player like that.
good luck.
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