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Archived questions from: 24 October, 2009 (see latest in Cheating category)

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Cheating: Help and advice

Is he just usuing me now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - he asked me to treat him to dinner. unlike before he would never ask me for anything. is he not serious with me anymore? does that mean he doesn't love me anymore? I also occasionally give him load even sometimes he doesn't really seem to w...

Will he consider me again if things don't work out with his wife?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - Hello. I dated a man 3 years ago. We dated for right at 2 years. We went through the whole break-up, get together thing for about the last 4 months. I met him at a football game. I went down and got his number, we talked on the phone every single ...

Is it me or am I right to think he is lying?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - hi maybe i am thinking to much of this one so i would be grateful for any outside views. my boyfriend cheated on me two years ago, it ended once i found out, he is flirty by nature but i knew that when i first met him. he doesnt really have clo...

I don't want to causing cheating, but I'm still in love with my best friend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - I have known my best friend for 2 years now, starting freshmen year of college. He is now my roommate. We hung out every day, have many inside jokes, nicknames, and we used to say I love you. We never really went out because we had communication ...

Should I end my marriage or stay in it for my son ??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

24 October 2009 (M) - 37 years old, successful doctor, married for 8 years and have only one child .. he is 6. I am in love with another woman for sometime now .... she doesn't want the role of being mistress ... she want a full relationship and to divorce my wife if I ...

Did she disappear because I said I love you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5310 days ago

24 October 2009 (M) - please help on this case i wish some experienced aunties would give me some fullfilling answers me 33 yrs and a girl 37 yrs both married but she intiated the flirting atmosphere with me, in other words she was persuing me for a long time before...

Husband cheated on me with an escourt!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5310 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - Hi, I just caught my husband of 4 years cheating on me with an escort girl; we have been together for 12 years total (since 17). I fully trusted him, never thought during his time at work he would be meeting with one particular individual. I we...

Is it my hormones or do I have a right to be worried?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5310 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - I've been seeing my boyfriend for 18 months and we have a baby together. He has 2 daughters with his ex wife and I have 2 children from a previous relationship aswell. We got chatting on a internet site and he lived over 100 miles away, but we just ...

B/f says he called ex for homework, that's all

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5310 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - I gave my ex boyfriend one chance after he cheated on me with one of my friends. When he cheated,we had been together for a year and three months . He lasted a whole year trying to get back with me; I was really hard to qet back and i thouqht it ...

Nice guy has turned into a jerk! Now what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - Ok well here goes nothing..I have nobody else I can talk to and I need to get some advice. First I am going to ask people not to put me down for my decisions, because i could never regret them. I have 2 beautiful children who I love very much. My ...

How to live with a liar and a cheater? Do they change?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4451 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - I love my husband and my 3 children dearly. I thought we had a happy family in 23 years. We are both French and live in US. He is 56 and me 43. I am a teacher at school. One day I found out my husband had a mistress in Asian in years. He went to ...