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Archived questions from: 5 October, 2009 (see latest in Cheating category)

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Cheating: Help and advice

Is is possible to build trust in a relationship again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - My husband and I have been together for almost 20 years. Recently, I came to discover he likes porn a whole lot more than I realized. He looks at way more online porn than I am comfortable with. I also found out that he was having "chats" online ...

I'm falling in love with someone who isn't my wife!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

5 October 2009 (M) - I am so confused. I am married and our sex life doesn't exist, but there is someone else that I want to be with. I am 40 she is 18 and we are very flirty with each other. I don't know if its the lack of sex at home or what but I am finding myself ...

Do I stand up and keep fighting or let him go? Male opinions needed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - So - I'm in need of male advice/guidence. I was in a 4 year relationship. 2 years or so into it, he had an affar with the 23 year old receptionist at his work. (I am 33 he is 30). We were not doing well, so I took that into consideration and decided ...

My boyfriend slept with someone else out of the blue; why would he do this?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of over 2 and a half years has slept with someone else. He came to mine on Saturday, we had great sex, then went to the fair then for a lovely meal. He then went to a friend in London's housewarming party, coming back the next da...

This married man has really got me confused big time.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - No moral judgements please it's to late for that. 30yrs ago i met a married man we had a 3yr affair,i moved away that ended it. now 6yrs ago we catch up again and we have started this all over again,he is still married i am not,the thing is i have a...

Should I just end it and focus on my career, or will I be giving up a nice guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

5 October 2009 (M) - So I did something I thought I'd never do. I've met someone on an online gay dating site, I never thought I would but I did. I spoke to him online for a good month and a bit before i got the confidence to actually meet him, as ive never really don...

Each time our relationship gets a bit rocky we cheat on each other! Is it worth trying to save this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for a while we go through basic relationship problems he cheats but i cheat as well. but now it seems like it is more than that i feel like he care for everyone else but me, i feel like i don't matter anymore ...

She said there was never any oral...what are the odds?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

5 October 2009 (M) - i broke up with my gf after a year long relationship. after a week and a half she had sex with another coworker of ours about 4-5 times during a 3-4 week period. long story short, we got back together after she had her little fling and im ...

Should I stay with her or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

5 October 2009 (M) - Ok I got a question for you guys. I really dont have anywhere else to turn to, so I'll try here. A couple of months ago my girlfriend and I bought a pet from this guy. Few months later I saw a friend on her MySpace page that had only her as a ...

Girlfriend has fallen in love with a gay chick in jail! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

5 October 2009 (M) - my girlfriend is pregnant with my baby. she went to jail and she has fallin in love with a 40 year old gay chick in jail. now she says she is going to raise my baby with her when she gets out. what should i do?...

I can't believe I let it happen...what do you think I should do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - Hi.. I am married and completely in love. He's in the military so he's been away for 3/4 of the time i've known him. We decided to be officially together about two weeks before he left for the first time. I'd only known him 2 weeks before that and...