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Archived questions from: 11 October, 2009 (see latest in Cheating category)

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Cheating: Help and advice

Should I dump the guy I am having an affair with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, Been married for 24 years,but have had an affair for the past 3 years,very experienced lover,[also married},everything my husband is not,even though I love him in other ways... I feel frustrated with him,but can't say. Should I dump my ...

I have been with this guy four years and he lies about talking to his ex! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - please help. I have been with my guy for about 4 years now. the problem is he is still very much in contact with his ex who he was only with for a year! he has met up with her behind my back and they are always txting and calling eachother.. he l...

What happened and why is it so hard to move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for almost 2 years . I have had a lot of loss over the last 4 years which caused me not to be in a relationship for a longtime . I felt all these years of being alone and I mean alone I didnt go out at all or date ...

I lied to her and she knows it! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5323 days ago

11 October 2009 (M) - Okay well i thought id post my problem, Start of summer this year i went to a party with my friend, i didnt know many people there and through the night had a bit to drink and got talking to the girls,(Baring in mind i go to a girls school so there ...

My ex is confusing me! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

11 October 2009 (M) - me and my ex broke up a couple months ago after she cheated on me with the same guy she left to be with me. Over time I forgave her and tried to be friends. We would text each other every now and then. A few weeks ago she texts me and says she made ...

I am cheating and want to be with my lover but it seems like he is backing off!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

11 October 2009 (?) - I am a 38 yr old women. I have been married for 18 yrs now, I have been seeing someone that is 9 yrs younger than me. I am so in love with this guy. He has shown me how I should really be loved. Just recently he told me that he loves me but he can't ...

My husband had an emotional affair and I can't get past it! Please help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - Please help. My husband had a non sexual (I think I believe this} 'affair' with a work colleague during which time they got very emotionally close (I was being very unloving to him at the time although he never stopped showing he loved and fancied ...

Is he flirting with me or is it something more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - Okay so I been working at my job for about 3 two months and its been great so far. I get along really well with all my co-workers, however, I been noticing that one of my coworkers likes to tease me, we bicker for any little thing…is all in good ...

What do you think is going on in her mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

11 October 2009 (M) - I had been seeing my girlfriend for 2 years - we broke up in April of this year - I suspected that she had been meeting with someone else for a while - as things hadnt been good for a while - she seemed to be trying to cause an argument all the time ...

I met my son's coach and I knew instantly there was somthing between us! Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - I really dont know what to do. My son went to a camp and i met his coach and i know instantley there was somthing.....really wierd feeling. I added him on a website and after a few months he actually began a cunversation with me....to my surprise we ...

I love her, and don't want to think about her past. Will these thoughts go away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

11 October 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for a year now. We are very serious and talk about marriage. She told me that she was pretty promiscuous during the two to three years before we started dating when she was in the military. She even used the word ...

How do I move forward in a positive way after divorcing a sex addict?.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - I want to know how to move forward without guilt after divorcing my husband of 20 years because of a sex addiction he had. I want to feel less guilt that I ended the relationship even though he wanted to work on it and try. He is still in ...

He's nasty to me - why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - Please help, I am in a 3 month relationship with a guy younger than me by 8 years.When we first dated he lied about his age and I found his ID Doc. but he doesn't know that I know his real age. I found out that he was cheating just a month after we ...

We are talking about marriage, but he can't tell me he loves me more than his best friend!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - So I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year now. His best friend is a girl. They have been friends since they were 13 and now are 27. They have hooked up a few times during their friendship, even cheating on one of his girlfriends which he ...

I kissed another girl after my girlfriend left the party.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

11 October 2009 (M) - Hi i ran into some problems at a party tonight. it was my girlfriends best friends birthday and they were pressuring me to kiss her so i did and then after she left another girl came up and kissed me on the lips. I feel really bad and i dont know ...

Why would he lie about being single when I'm married?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - I am a married women and have been cheating. The man I am cheating with has two children and is seperated from the mother. However, I have reason to believe that he is married to her. He claims they dont have any contact with each other unless it ...

He broke it off with me and went back to his wife. Now he is trying to get back with me again!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - My fellow left his wife x 2 months, then he went back to her didn't call me for 9 days then started calling with the excuse he wanted to check on me see if I was all right - when he left it was clear he was letting me go sat at my table and said so ...

This has been the worst mistake of my life! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - I cheated on my boyfriend of 5 months, with his older brother's best friend who is 4 years older than me. I lost my virginity to this guy when I was drunk (and it was my first time drinking), but I really want to stay with my boyfriend. This is the ...