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Archived questions from: 28 December, 2009 (see latest in Cheating category)

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Cheating: Help and advice

Am I overreacting about fiance and texting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - Am I overreacting because I called this women and asked her why she was sending my fiance text messages inviting him to the movies and thinking of him while she is having christmas dinner. I called and asked her she said that he didn't tell her ...

Do I sound like a prude for not wishing strange men crawling into my bed uninvited?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - Hey everyone. Insight requested just to make sure I am not crazy. I am single and not in a terrible hurry to find anyone even though eventually I would love to. I have been hanging with a crowd of people for almost a year and everything was going ...

Boyfriend is texting multiple women

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - so i know it was wrong but i went through my boyfriend's phone and i found that he has been texting multiple women, before he used to call me when he was at work but he stopped, that is what got me suspicious( he works at night) one call he talks to ...

Affair with college tutor

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - So heres my question, I've been having a year long affair with my college tutor. It was great at the beginning all the excitement and stuff that came with it. Yes he is married and she is another tutor at college. And yea they both teach me. It r...

Fiance got appears to be suspicious email from girl. Should I call her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - Ok this is the situation. On Christmas my fiance went to the bathroom upstairs and his phone beeped because he got a text message. I picked it up and saw that it was from some women but didnt think anything of it. But curiosity got me and I opened ...

Is my wife trying to break my attachment to her by being unemotional?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - Hi everyone whats all this about can you help me, im going mad. Over the last 12 months my marriage has broken up, we were together for 7 years. Myself and my wife have had affairs, She moved out some months ago. Two weeks ago we both admitted...

Is sexting considered cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - Ugh. Okay, im in a really difficult (for me) situation. I feel I have cheated on my boyfriend of 3 months. Im one of those people who are insanely against cheating and is 100% for honesty so the possibility of this sort of thing happening never ...

My boyfriend is emotionally cheating on me...

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28 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I will have been together 2 months now apart from the 6 month break we took from eachother. we were together for 6 months before that and broke up because i cheated. I was devistated and felt horrible and he told me he couldnt see ...

I've been sleeping with a younger man who has a boyfriend, I don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - I'm a older woman I haven't been in a relationship for two years but I have been sleeping with this younger man off and on for six years he has a girlfriend and sometimes when he calls I don't answer I think I'm starting to really like him I don't ...

I don't like keeping things a secret, is this cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - hey, im 18 and bi. i have recently been fooling around with another guy that i met at college. both of us are still in the closet and no one knows about it. My problem is that im starting to date this girl at college also. me and the guy have still ...

Could a four or five-way relationship even work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - Im in a really difficult situation at the moment. There is currently 3 women in my life. At this point you might be thinking right what a ba***rd an ye maybe i am. I have been engaged for 3 and a half years to a very money driven career woman. Sh...

Taking a chance with a coworker?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - Thanks for your help in advance. My boyfriend lives with me (6m) we are happy. Now at work before I dated him I had this connection w a coworker(female). I really like her- I am very attracted to her. However she has never been straight forward...

Why is my girlfriend giving the impression she is available to other guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - heyy just found out my girlfriend, who has previously cheated, has told two different guys that shes hung out with (one of them was the guy that she cheated with and second a new guy shes been hanging with alot) that she is single and me and her ...

Our affair was exposed and my reputation is at stake!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - I had an affair with a married man. About a year ago we started hanging out and a kiss led to touching, and touching led to sex. We had sex 3 different times and hung out from time to time after that. I have not seen him in about 9 months and then ...

Finding it hard to forgive and forget my partner's cheating..advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - I found out one month ago that my partner of 2 years has been cheating on me, by talking to girls online, on cam, swapping rude pics, flirting etc. I couldnt believe it... but I forgave him, for a few reasons. The first is that i love him. Secondly, ...