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writes:Thanks for your help in advance.My boyfriend lives with me (6m) we are happy.Now at work before I dated him I had this connection w a coworker(female). I really like her- I am very attracted to her. However she has never been straight forward with me, like as example she might say lets skip luch and do somthing else- to is there somthing you want to talk to me about... Then when I start to work up the nerve - it's like I waited to long.. Before the holiday, she went right by my desk and acted like she was answering a co-worker who asked someone close by if she ( did it yet).. The lady I liked said this: well no I havent, o-r- so far I haven't yet, at the very- and I mean very least just a not yet at least.. I guess My question is do I take the chance?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (28 December 2009):
Dump your boyfriend. You don't love him enough. The sit down and think about what you really want from your life. If you want to take a chance with her, go for it. But you don't really love your boyfriend, because if you did you wouldn't be thinking about this.
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reader, Beingblack +, writes (28 December 2009):
 Ok, there are two things.
Firstly, if you have been living with your boyfriend for six months( I guess thats what 6m means?) and you are happy, what else would you like from your life?
Secondly, are you considering a lesbian relationship with the co-worker? If you are, why?
The sex of a third person doesn't really matter either way. You want to know if you should cheat.
Well, I would say no, unless you are living a lie.
Would you want your boyfriend to cheat on you? Would you want people here advising him to do that, if he asked the same question you have? Are you gay, or bisexual? Are you in fact happy at all?
Make your mind up about what you are.
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reader, weparley +, writes (28 December 2009):
So the question you're saying is what?
You're 35-40 years old and what you said made no sense what so ever?
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