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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:so i know it was wrong but i went through my boyfriend's phone and i found that he has been texting multiple women, before he used to call me when he was at work but he stopped, that is what got me suspicious( he works at night) one call he talks to every night and even texts to her to, wants her to come and meet him at work, or that he come over but she said that her family is there, so she to go out to eat and i do not know what he said since he deletes his outbox message but she said not really guess he told her a particular day. the next girl he invites her to his basketball game with his friends something he has never invited me to, in his text he told her that he was glad that she was there, he calls her baby (something he calls me) and he told her that he wants to be with her, do you know how hurt i feltThe next girl he talks to at times bought something for her!! the thing is he lives with me, and he comes home every morning from work, i cook for him, wash his clothing, provide him with all the attention that i can and he gets sex almost every day of the week almost twice a day, why is he doing this to me, what should i do? should i tell him that i went through his phone?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the help!!!!
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reader, Jessbabyy  +, writes (28 December 2009):
 Hunny you need you sit him down and talk about your relationship. Maybe ask him why he doesn't call you anymore when he's at work? Don't tell him you went through his phone until he admits to something. Your worth more than to be messed around! Mail me if you need more advice. Hope I helped. Jessbabyy x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (28 December 2009):
He's using you, like he will use all those other girls. You went through his phone and you found the truth. He is playing you and other women. Tell him, dump him. Never go back to him.
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